Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Have any of yall had any success finding a serious relationship on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc? I started dating in April and I've met nothing but broken women on there

When I start dating again I'm going to libraries, poetry jams and charity events

Hinge

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah. Even though she’s my type and had everything I liked physically I definitely couldn’t stand for that. Some dudes like women that curse and drop n bombs but it’s just a turn off for me. It’s crazy because everything else was cool. But if she gets that worked up over that then she’s def not worth it.

and no matter what women say 8 times outta 10 post Sex things will never be the same again and that shyt can bring a headache if chick is a weirdo/isnt aligned with you morally. You dont wanna be biting your tongue or ending up in conflict from basic interactions because yall are off base.

 

[Ahadi]

**unmatches**

Aka - you don’t get the box wet. Try harder

 

[Brandsdale]

Aka - you don’t get the box wet. Try harder

lmao @ "try harder"

mannn some of the shyt women do to bait you and boost they ego is hilarious

 

[Anton]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

That woman went from thinking “I wonder if he fukks well?” to “what was I thinking?” all in the span of 15 mins.

 

[Bless't]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

No you didnt. You stood for what you believed in.

NO p*ssy is worth losing your principles over.

 

[Apollo Creed]

No you didnt. You stood for what you believed in.

NO p*ssy is worth losing your principles over.

Dudes gotta stop with these dumb ass ratings on women. Because dude gave her some made up subjective rating he now feels that adds context to him fumbling while if he rated her a 4 he wouldnt feel any type of way.

We gotta take the rosy glasses off and see women as human. That so called 10 shyt stinks just like yours.

 

[Anton]

Dudes gotta stop with these dumb ass ratings on women. Because dude gave her some made up subjective rating he now feels that adds context to him fumbling while if he rated her a 4 he wouldnt feel any type of way.

We gotta take the rosy glasses off and see women as human. That so called 10 shyt stinks just like yours.

he feel some type of way because he know literally ended up talking himself out of a pretty sure lay.

 

[skyrunner1]

Dudes gotta stop with these dumb ass ratings on women. Because dude gave her some made up subjective rating he now feels that adds context to him fumbling while if he rated her a 4 he wouldnt feel any type of way.

We gotta take the rosy glasses off and see women as human. That so called 10 shyt stinks just like yours.

That would mean taking the human element completely out of it. Genetic currency (lack of better word, lol) is real, any dude who is around beautiful women will tell you that. The value it brings in social settings will have even the top tier type dudes turn groupie if you have access to beautiful women. Seen it too many times, even hard on hoes pimps give they baddest just a little leeway because it bring more to stable.. Not saying right or wrong but I done seen it too many times where when an extremely attractive women walks in room and how both men and women react. If you can have that on your side there are many benefits outside of bedroom.

Entire businesses are built off of that psychology. Im talking about true beauty also, not someone that has to cake on crazy makeup, if you got to do too much you already dont count

 

[Balla]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

You should have just told her don’t call you that and said that it isn’t ladylike.

There’s no need to really talk about it.

Not even for this chick though, just chicks in general. It’s better to not have to explain things to them like that.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That would mean taking the human element completely out of it. Genetic currency (lack of better word, lol) is real, any dude who is around beautiful women will tell you that. The value it brings in social settings will have even the top tier type dudes turn groupie if you have access to beautiful women. Seen it too many times, even hard on hoes pimps give they baddest just a little leeway because it bring more to stable.. Not saying right or wrong but I done seen it too many times where when an extremely attractive women walks in room and how both men and women react. If you can have that on your side there are many benefits outside of bedroom.

Entire businesses are built off of that psychology. Im talking about true beauty also, not someone that has to cake on crazy makeup, if you got to do too much you already dont count

I guess i just think higher of myself. I dont glorify anyone to the point where because some made up number i move differently. I treat all women the same and if its not work related i’m not waisting time around women i dont find attractive.

Not glorifying these chicks shows you who they really are, most of these women dudes rank high tend to be insecure as shyt hence why all this “ima be different cause she bad” is idoitic.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

“Let’s talk on here for a bit”

Hoes must come off an assembly line Can’t tell you how many times I got that

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

This shyt has made me super petty. I've reached the point of not caring at all

She takes 3 days to text back? I read, delete her number and KIM. Don't care.
She leaves me on read? Don't care. Delete her number and KIM
She gives me ass on the first night out? Thanks, don't care.
She disses me on the first night out? Don't care.

That's where I'm at.

She's a dime, we had a great convo, we been vibing and flirting, etc it's all lining up right?
Then of course the games start, the "I'm busier than a Fortune 500 CEO, I just don't have 10 seconds to reply to your text so I'ma reply days later"
Before getting heated or simp out or double texting
I calm down and double down on the pettiness
I simply remind myself that I'm number 10 in her rotation and number 1 on her pay no mind list, then it's easy to not care

On this one I'm with the camel: "don't let me do it to you cuz I overdo it"

Yea my effort and care is basically nonexistent at this point. Until she invest to a level I feel is acceptable.

 

[Brandsdale]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

we've all talked ourselves out of p*ssy but it kinda seems like shes being obtuse about the whole "n" word thing

regardless, p*ssy is never worth a headache. You dodged a bullet bubba

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

lmao @ "try harder"

mannn some of the shyt women do to bait you and boost they ego is hilarious

Before I was initiated I used to “talk some more on here” because I thought she had to be warmed up some before we met

Now it’s…yea…ok bytch to the shadow realm you go