Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah it's happend to me about 3 times , deaded the other 2 but this one was persistent .

Basically she love-bombed you, that's how they do. I've had more than one try that shyt with me before.

The mere fact she left out the part that she has a kid is a red flag in itself.

I'd ask a question about her but I already know the answer. :hubie:
 

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Yeah it's happend to me about 3 times , deaded the other 2 but this one was persistent .

Key word: persistent

So she broke you down slowly. Then sweetened the deal.

I've met and dated a few women with kids,they make it clear from the off. They don't bring it up halfway through.


You obviously know if they have kids that changes how you and her are going to be dating. Especially young kids.

As she'll need to balance up dating you and also making sure she's making time for her child and herself.

Be careful for real breh, you don't want to slip up and become baby daddy no 2

:damn:
 

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Key word: persistent

So she broke you down slowly. Then sweetened the deal.

I've met and dated a few women with kids,they make it clear from the off. They don't bring it up halfway through.


You obviously know if they have kids that changes how you and her are going to be dating. Especially young kids.

As she'll need to balance up dating you and also making sure she's making time for her child and herself.

Be careful for real breh, you don't want to slip up and become baby daddy no 2

:damn:
They’ve hung out less than 10 times and he’s about to be in a relationship. The die be cast.
 

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Basically she love-bombed you, that's how they do. I've had more than one try that shyt with me before.

The mere fact she left out the part that she has a kid is a red flag in itself.

I'd ask a question about her but I already know the answer. :hubie:

What's the question ?
 

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They’ve hung out less than 10 times and he’s about to be in a relationship. The die be cast.

I only just let her know that we're 'dating' a few days ago bro . I didn't say she was my woman yet . :comeon:

And her son's father is actively in his life so nah I ain't playing step daddy to her kid.
 

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I only just let her know that we're 'dating' a few days ago bro . I didn't say she was my woman yet . :comeon:

And her son's father is actively in his life so nah I ain't playing step daddy to her kid.
Chill bro we just talking shyt. That said:

“Yet”
Unless he got full custody then you putting in shifts to…..eventually
 

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are you old and unattractive or something?

why you dating a single mother my ghanaian brother?

you better be strapping up man.

I'm 30 . Think I'm pretty decent looking :patrice:.

I been on like 6 dates this year bro . I was talking / seeing this one plus 2 others at the same time till about a month ago . We click more than the others so I said lemme not just completely rule it out because she already has a child . All I can do is see how it goes from here . I'm not rushing anything .
 

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I'm 30 . Think I'm pretty decent looking :patrice:.

I been on like 6 dates this year bro . I was talking / seeing this one plus 2 others at the same time till about a month ago . We click more than the others so I said lemme not just completely rule it out because she already has a child . All I can do is see how it goes from here . I'm not rushing anything .
fair enough

i guess we can sometimes be too judgmental of single mothers but i think i'd rather just be alone and womanize personally

one thing is these single mothers be a lot cooler and easier to deal with because they know they have to be given their handicap. dont be surprised if she switches up once youre hooked in
 

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fair enough

i guess we can sometimes be too judgmental of single mothers but i think i'd rather just be alone and womanize personally

one thing is these single mothers be a lot cooler and easier to deal with because they know they have to be given their handicap. dont be surprised if she switches up once youre hooked in

relationships are stressful already without a kid and a baby dad.
 
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