Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yesterday, had a phone call with a high maintenance beautiful lady of Hinge . All she talked about was her interests were shopping,going on vacation to expensive resorts, buying designer clothes & handbags, eating at fine expensive restaurants etc. How she is looking for a traditional man to pay for her lifestyle. She is eager for a date & was already suggesting an expensive cocktail bar in my city.

I quickly knew she is NOT the type of woman I want. I could easily sell her dreams, fukk her & dip, but it's not worth it. I'm going to ghost her.

This is what I like to see. Practising some self-control and knowing when a woman no matter how sexy she is. Just isn't appropriate and conducive to your values and lifestyle.
 
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this is what I learned online about "game" and the whole thing of cold approach, Dante Nero (Patrice Oneal right hand man) called it being ready for the super bowl. Cold approach was about getting reps in so when the real opportunities of warm approaches or social circle were introduced to you, you were able to take full advantage. There is no freezing up, because you been putting reps in preseason (cold approach), during the season (initial talks) and playoffs (initial dates and sealing the deal)

By the time you get to super bowl you have soo many reps that it is 2nd nature for you to guide an interaction that you make the play with ease. This was presented to you on platter, was a warm approach where you were likely edified and had another women vouch for you. Luckily for you, church women tend to give a little grace so dont be soo hard on yourself, the fact there was feedback to meet up again means you still got a chance. Just play it cool, lead teh interaction and dont let looks make you put her on pedestal. You got this

thanks breh :salute:
 

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thanks breh :salute:
No problem breh, also will add the women I have dealt with in church, all have turned out to be some FREAKS, whether reformed or repressed. You just have to navigate properly and get them comfortable much more. Church is honestly a GOLDMINE if men knew their lane. Its much easier to be "the fun guy who is thinking about changing his life and finding a good church" for a church women than competing for boss bytch who wants to live IG life (high end restaurants, travel, high end close, etc) or club girl/semi party girl/stripper.

For some reason dudes get enamored with the later but your competition for these broken women is literally killers/scammers/dope boys, I was a dude who club promoted for a lil stint back in day and knows the scene and players, you will not give more thrills than those dudes.. But in church your competition is Jethro the deacon who doesnt want to do shyt outside of church and we all know all women just want to have fun :russ:
 

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Sorry brehs was tired but let me write into more detail the truth and nothing but the truth.

So I arrive at church yesterday and since I was in the back I could only see her from the back, tall, lightskin and not fat slim. I was like :ehh: but still had little faith maybe her face is busted . Wasn't till after church when I'm packing up the lady at church comes and says happy new year and introduces me to her friend.

Chick was 9/10 face wise perfect teeth, I froze up like a idiot :snoop:, all all i could muster is hope you had a good time nice to meet you.

Didn't even ask for her name or number :snoop:, the married woman messaged me again how she will be there next week and wants to talk to me more though
Bro invite me to the wedding :wow:
 

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I need some of your thoughts on this. Been on hinge lately and messed with this 25 year old chick. Looks decent enough. Kind of thick. Anyway, we texted for a couple hours and sometime during I suggest maybe we schedule a meet up to go to this wing spot in town that I'm interested in trying.

She said she's down and then afterwards she suggested the if we hit it off we can go back to her place and cuddle..

Shortly after that she explains how she's been in the mood for intimacy.

The next morning she hit me up with the good mornings and everything and then she was saying maybe I can pull up tonight.

What y'all think?
 

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talked to this girl off and on on hinge for like two weeks cause of holidays. Finally got her number and then after two texts she ghosts me. I mean if someone doesn't text you back in 24 hours especially during the holidays when shes off from work they prob not that interested? I double texted her after two days said im moving on lol. shes bad I might of just fukked it up being thirsty. Everyone constantly on there phones if she doesn't text me back in 24 hours IMO it's a wrap.
She could be with family relaxing too, sometimes patience and talking to other women kills off that eagerness. I would have gave her at least a week because if she has a life, has a family and y'all talked off and on and not consistent for 2 weeks she doesn't have that close a bond with you.

IF it was any other time I would say she doesn't have any interest but it's new year time so I would have gave her a week or so. If she didn't respond I wouldn't either.
 

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She could be with family relaxing too, sometimes patience and talking to other women kills off that eagerness. I would have gave her at least a week because if she has a life, has a family and y'all talked off and on and not consistent for 2 weeks she doesn't have that close a bond with you.

IF it was any other time I would say she doesn't have any interest but it's new year time so I would have gave her a week or so. If she didn't respond I wouldn't either.

:laff:

Oh nah, these joints are responding. fukk a week. They’ll even wish you “Merry Christmas / Happy Holidau / Happy New Year”

I’d you gotta wait anymore than 1-2 hours it’s a dub.
 

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I need some of your thoughts on this. Been on hinge lately and messed with this 25 year old chick. Looks decent enough. Kind of thick. Anyway, we texted for a couple hours and sometime during I suggest maybe we schedule a meet up to go to this wing spot in town that I'm interested in trying.

She said she's down and then afterwards she suggested the if we hit it off we can go back to her place and cuddle..

Shortly after that she explains how she's been in the mood for intimacy.

The next morning she hit me up with the good mornings and everything and then she was saying maybe I can pull up tonight.

What y'all think?

dont get robbed breh :lupe:
 

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I need some of your thoughts on this. Been on hinge lately and messed with this 25 year old chick. Looks decent enough. Kind of thick. Anyway, we texted for a couple hours and sometime during I suggest maybe we schedule a meet up to go to this wing spot in town that I'm interested in trying.

She said she's down and then afterwards she suggested the if we hit it off we can go back to her place and cuddle..

Shortly after that she explains how she's been in the mood for intimacy.

The next morning she hit me up with the good mornings and everything and then she was saying maybe I can pull up tonight.

What y'all think?
Either you getting set up or shorty trying to get over an ex or get back at an ex. Either way I’d tread carefully and read her vibe on meetup.
 

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I need some of your thoughts on this. Been on hinge lately and messed with this 25 year old chick. Looks decent enough. Kind of thick. Anyway, we texted for a couple hours and sometime during I suggest maybe we schedule a meet up to go to this wing spot in town that I'm interested in trying.

She said she's down and then afterwards she suggested the if we hit it off we can go back to her place and cuddle..

Shortly after that she explains how she's been in the mood for intimacy.

The next morning she hit me up with the good mornings and everything and then she was saying maybe I can pull up tonight.

What y'all think?
Ummmm she suggesting that you guys go back to her place?


Hmmm don’t get robbed bro


Edit: on the date try to be boring asf..and if she’s still inviting u

U getting robbed lol
 

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Bagged a Harlem chick from this app called Tagged. It's like hood version of Tinder lol

She was a challenge at first I went with. Kept it buck that I'm going to take her out give her a good time.

She gave me a shyt test when I asked for her number. Didn't give up I gave her mine. I realized if a woman is interested she'll submit if it benefits her

Send her a voice note instead of text. I use voice notes because it amplifies the attraction vs a cold text. She was excited.

I don't really text just to text that's how a man gets curved. I mostly text with a purpose such as setting dates or just checking up on her/she checking up on me.

Girls just wanna have fun = I just want my back blown out.
Lmao good luck, every woman I ever met on tagged and I easily smashed more than 10 women on there was crazy, broke, ratchet, a thot or an absolute lost cause with no real ambition or future in life. If it's just a chick you are trying to smash then fine but with Tagged I wouldn't bet on this going too far because often times these are women who have been used by men again and again so they come with too much baggage.

At the same time you never know, you may have found a real one for all you know but that site is like a garbage can for washed up or nutty women who sell p*ssy or want attention. I think I only met one decent woman on tagged ever and even then I couldn't meet with her due to juggling too many woman at the time anyway so I don't even know if she was truly decent lol.
POF nowadays is struggle center. Idk cause it's my location because I found a lot of crazies nuts and headcases. Yikes! :dead:
POF sucks, it always had no good women like tagged but now on the app and the site they limit how many first contact messages you can send to like 10 women or maybe even less than that. Makes it harder to meet people unless you pay for VIP to get unlimited messaging and more promotion to your profile. Pof is another app with nothing but headaches but I had some easy smashes off there, I miss some of them broads sometimes lol.
 
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