Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ok brehs one of my homeboys I’ve known since high school is having trouble trying date black women, but he is also willing to date other ethnic women because he says the black women he tries to talk to keep saying he isn’t aggressive enough. I told him it might just be time for him to leave the dating apps alone but he doesn’t really like trying to cold approach
He should just date who he clicks with

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man i been having trouble getting hard lately. i know it’s nothing physically wrong w me. i drink good water, im very fit as well, i don’t watch porn, and i very sparingly beat off. been hanging w this shorty and all she want is to fukk n chill and im happy w that. it’s low commitment n all vibes, we get along well.

when it comes time to smash or even get head tho im not getting hard - well, yesterday i did from head - but im not certain on why. my only guesses are anxiety/ stress, and the fact that i smoke a lot.

noticed that i been super anxious before hanging w her, but in my head and in reality, i have no reason to be. sucks that this been happening bc it’s p embarrassing and awkward not to mention she’s fire

anyone have similar happen? how’d you work thru it?
 

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man i been having trouble getting hard lately. i know it’s nothing physically wrong w me. i drink good water, im very fit as well, i don’t watch porn, and i very sparingly beat off. been hanging w this shorty and all she want is to fukk n chill and im happy w that. it’s low commitment n all vibes, we get along well.

when it comes time to smash or even get head tho im not getting hard - well, yesterday i did from head - but im not certain on why. my only guesses are anxiety/ stress, and the fact that i smoke a lot.

noticed that i been super anxious before hanging w her, but in my head and in reality, i have no reason to be. sucks that this been happening bc it’s p embarrassing and awkward not to mention she’s fire

anyone have similar happen? how’d you work thru it?
this the problem
 

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man i been having trouble getting hard lately. i know it’s nothing physically wrong w me. i drink good water, im very fit as well, i don’t watch porn, and i very sparingly beat off. been hanging w this shorty and all she want is to fukk n chill and im happy w that. it’s low commitment n all vibes, we get along well.

when it comes time to smash or even get head tho im not getting hard - well, yesterday i did from head - but im not certain on why. my only guesses are anxiety/ stress, and the fact that i smoke a lot.

noticed that i been super anxious before hanging w her, but in my head and in reality, i have no reason to be. sucks that this been happening bc it’s p embarrassing and awkward not to mention she’s fire

anyone have similar happen? how’d you work thru it?
How old are you?
 

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man i been having trouble getting hard lately. i know it’s nothing physically wrong w me. i drink good water, im very fit as well, i don’t watch porn, and i very sparingly beat off. been hanging w this shorty and all she want is to fukk n chill and im happy w that. it’s low commitment n all vibes, we get along well.

when it comes time to smash or even get head tho im not getting hard - well, yesterday i did from head - but im not certain on why. my only guesses are anxiety/ stress, and the fact that i smoke a lot.

noticed that i been super anxious before hanging w her, but in my head and in reality, i have no reason to be. sucks that this been happening bc it’s p embarrassing and awkward not to mention she’s fire

anyone have similar happen? how’d you work thru it?
You’re just anxious. I would cut back on smoking. You might not be all that attracted to her too.
 

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You’re just anxious. I would cut back on smoking. You might not be all that attracted to her too.
She slim w abs and a onion, a freak too. Definitely gonna cut back on my smoking. Been doing some searching and seems like it has a strong effect. Any ideas on the anxiety part tho?
 

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Was going to celebrate a 2 year "Anniversary" with my bytch at some Korean BBQ place... prior to going we stopped at a bar to see one of her friends who recently lost her son. I see a girl there that I casually know and strike up a conversation. Of course my bytch gets mad and says I'm cock blocking (she was with another mutual friend). I had zero intention but my bytch was getting increasingly angry for no goddamn reason. We get back to her car and she starts berating me and the drive to the restaurant is in the suburbs and is about 40 minutes. I snap and tell her if she thinks I'm going to let her talk to me like that for 40 minutes she's out her goddamn mind. I hop out in the middle of traffic on Moreland ave and walk down little 5 points to my car and peel off. So instead of celebrating an "Anniversary" she can sob in a pillow case.


I might be done.
 
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