Sounds like she’s tired of working, or isn’t looking forward to going back to work and not at all, when you’re dating you need to figure out everything, especially when you have resources, what are her intentions? Does she like me for me? My car? My place? My connections? My money? Etc.
But going back to the date part, she’s probably dating multiple ppl and seeing who will “step up”. Little does she know, if she’s average and her body isn’t in shape, plus a kid, she’s not giving the man anything of value.
Her next play is to manipulate with sex. I don’t recommend anyone hit a single mother because if there’s an accident, then there’s a 99.9% chance she won’t abort.