Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Putting the shot aside, my girl and I have agreed to keep our relationship off social media and we're good with it

We both have had the same experience in the past:

Post your s/o and make it "social media official"
heart emojis, congrats comments, everyone is happy
a few months down the line
"how's it going?" "omg so happy for you" "goals" aka all up in your business keeping tabs and a scoreboard
If there's any kind of issue (normal relationship shyt) and you're not posting as frequently
"ya'll ok?" "call me if you need anything" "where's [insert s/o]?" just mad nosy and indiscreet

Then of course when you start going through it or break up, all hell breaks loose
FOH

So having learned our lesson, we keep our shyt to ourselves and away from the peanut gallery
Stress levels way down when you don't do it for the gram
Those that need to know, know (family and close friends)
Everyone else can keep scrolling, FOH

why are y'all even on social media unless its business related?

Social Media is the streets lol. Y'all can do what y'all want but not posting each other = advertisement my DMs open.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Some of us are looking for solid women to settle down with, but run in to incompatible women.

I recently started dating a woman, from outside she looks like the ideal woman, good career, own house, own car, church goer, no kids etc. Now I'm getting to know her she is very anxious, insecure about her weight, very sensitive & got emotional baggage from her last relationship.

She opened up, dude she used to date verbally abuse her & always put her down. She starting to project some of these things on to me. I have discussed this with her & will give her time to fix up or I might have to cut her off.

how old are you and if you are serious about settling why aren't you using your social circles?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Was talking to my home girl who used to dance she’s a 9/10. She showed me her bumble she had 6,000 plus likes. Imagine what a 7/10 is prob getting 2,000 likes. This is why shyt is all fukked up women got so many options.

She also told me how she went out with this dude but could tell from first date he prob not good in bed. She said he wasn’t aggressive enough. These women really know right away if they gonna fukk you or not. I guess sometimes you change their minds bit more often than not you probably can’t.

she's a fukking sex worker, her opinion on relationships is irrelevant.

 

[Serious]

Some of us are looking for solid women to settle down with, but run in to incompatible women.

I recently started dating a woman, from outside she looks like the ideal woman, good career, own house, own car, church goer, no kids etc. Now I'm getting to know her she is very anxious, insecure about her weight, very sensitive & got emotional baggage from her last relationship.

She opened up, dude she used to date verbally abuse her & always put her down. She starting to project some of these things on to me. I have discussed this with her & will give her time to fix up or I might have to cut her off.

Yea I’ve run into this type.

Matter of fact, the last couple of times and it didn’t really manifest itself until you’re already invested. I’m here to let you know it doesn’t get any better.

They actually double down on the insecurities.

 

[Action Mike]

But in the mean time playing the game

If its an open goal, yes I'm scoring.

But I've started to vet even harder, the ROI from smashing randoms aint worth it in the end.

 

[Serious]

Was talking to my home girl who used to dance she’s a 9/10. She showed me her bumble she had 6,000 plus likes. Imagine what a 7/10 is prob getting 2,000 likes. This is why shyt is all fukked up women got so many options.

She also told me how she went out with this dude but could tell from first date he prob not good in bed. She said he wasn’t aggressive enough. These women really know right away if they gonna fukk you or not. I guess sometimes you change their minds bit more often than not you probably can’t.

Honestly the number indicator is cooperation.


Just like we’ve discussed a million times in here and in the thread that recent got bumped.

If a woman is lozy with the responses then bush her.

I get some women are busy but it doesn’t take 24-48 hours for a reply, especially if it’s a simple comment.

If you find yourself playing games then bushes.

My breh is a CEO, internationally on the go, in meetings with movers and shakers throughout the world. I can usually get a reply from breh within 3-5 minutes, most times.

So if a chick is ALWAYS like dragging her feet then bushes.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Honestly the number indicator is cooperation.


Just like we’ve discussed a million times in here and in the thread that recent got bumped.

If a woman is lozy with the responses then bush her.

I get some women are busy but it doesn’t take 24-48 hours for a reply, especially if it’s a simple comment.

If you find yourself playing games then bushes.

My breh is a CEO, internationally on the go, in meetings with movers and shakers throughout the world. I can usually get a reply from breh within 3-5 minutes, most times.

So if a chick is ALWAYS like dragging her feet then bushes.

the issue is dudes pipelines be dry, so the moment a prospect shows up dudes be all in lol.

bytch not responding yet got TikTok open laughing her ass off.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

she's a fukking sex worker, her opinion on relationships is irrelevant.

I agree on relationship part. But women all instinctually have that six sense where they can tell if a dude can put it down or not off the rip.

 

[Serious]

the issue is dudes pipelines be dry, so the moment a prospect shows up dudes be all in lol.

bytch not responding yet got TikTok open laughing her ass off.

In a sense I don’t blame cats for doing the passport bros thing, because it’s really just putting yourself in an environment with a “level” or enhanced playing field.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I agree on relationship part. But women all instinctually have that six sense where they can tell if a dude can put it down or not off the rip.

who cares what they think? You still get your nut.

All that matters is if the chick thinks you are attractive (which will be a combo of physical + financial).

 

[Apollo Creed]

In a sense I don’t blame cats for doing the passport bros thing, because it’s really just putting yourself in an environment with a “level” or enhanced playing field.

Men need to find the path that provides the best ROI for them at the end of the day. nikkas be having panic attacks over bum ass autistic alcoholic chicks lol.

We legit don't value ourselves as you see soooo many times anytime a dude doesn't smash he feels he was the problem, or dudes sticking around for a chick playing stupid mind games via the phone.

in 2023 dudes need to find self purpose and learn how to ghost a chick. If a chick is playing stupid games before you smash the sex is never worth it, and imagine what you will be dealing with if you do close the deal.

 

[MikelArteta]

Was talking to my home girl who used to dance she’s a 9/10. She showed me her bumble she had 6,000 plus likes. Imagine what a 7/10 is prob getting 2,000 likes. This is why shyt is all fukked up women got so many options.

She also told me how she went out with this dude but could tell from first date he prob not good in bed. She said he wasn’t aggressive enough. These women really know right away if they gonna fukk you or not. I guess sometimes you change their minds bit more often than not you probably can’t.

Even krs 2 would prob have 1000 likes from simps

 

[International Playa]

gotta let her k now you got a passport

Summer is around the corner, ready to use that passport, already booked a trip with a group of homies

how old are you and if you are serious about settling why aren't you using your social circles?

35, I met her through mutual friends on a bday group vacation.

Yea I’ve run into this type.

Matter of fact, the last couple of times and it didn’t really manifest itself until you’re already invested. I’m here to let you know it doesn’t get any better.

They actually double down on the insecurities.

FACTS, I'm invested so I will give her an opportunity to improve. If things don't improve, I will end things.

 

[Digital Omen]

why are y'all even on social media unless its business related?

Social Media is the streets lol. Y'all can do what y'all want but not posting each other = advertisement my DMs open.

I'm not the DM police and have no interest in becoming one. She's grown woman who knows right and wrong
If she chooses to entertain DMs that's on her and it will come to light
I had ex-FWBs hitting me up recently throwing it at me. I declined and KIM.
DMs open, closed, off in Bolivia, doesn't matter. If they want to step out they'll find a way.
I chose not to engage the p*ssy offers. I value my relationship more than some ass I already got.
Even new ass, I KIM. It's just basic decency and respect.
My girl is attractive so I know she's got orbiters, friend zone dudes trying to level up, randoms hitting her up, all that shyt
I don't stress that shyt. It's all in the game. Married women have dudes sweating them daily weekly monthly and yearly.
We make choices every day. The day she chooses someone else is the day I bounce. Until then we're good.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm not the DM police and have no interest in becoming one. She's grown woman who knows right and wrong
If she chooses to entertain DMs that's on her and it will come to light
I had ex-FWBs hitting me up recently throwing it at me. I declined and KIM.
DMs open, closed, off in Bolivia, doesn't matter. If they want to step out they'll find a way.
I chose not to engage the p*ssy offers. I value my relationship more than some ass I already got.
Even new ass, I KIM. It's just basic decency and respect.
My girl is attractive so I know she's got orbiters, friend zone dudes trying to level up, randoms hitting her up, all that shyt
I don't stress that shyt. It's all in the game. Married women have dudes sweating them daily weekly monthly and yearly.
We make choices every day. The day she chooses someone else is the day I bounce. Until then we're good.

What's the end goal of the relationship? Like what are y'all working toward?

And just make sure you aren't cheating because it's something YOU choose to do vs being loyal or some shyt lol. And of course never stress, main thing is once you are shown chick got out of pocket, don't come here asking us what to do, just end things and KIM.