Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I focus more on compatibility & connection I have with the woman. Do we share the same values, morals, goals etc.

Aslong as she got a good head on her shoulders, teachable & cooperative you can always focus on building together as a couple & make more money if she ain't a high earner.

Nothing beats having a strong connection & being compatible with the right woman for you.

yup anyone can make more money, go to school increase thier skills etc.

but a stanky atitude will always remain
 

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Reproduction?! its good for me to get some of these perspectives, sometime's I'm just blindsided by these kinds of things.
Yes. What is the biological reason humans engage in sex……..reproduction. Anything above that is are reasoning that humans placed on the act so you can be suprised that those reasons shift and evolve.
 

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I guess if you are religious or like a biological researcher, that worldview makes sense

but also pretty sure people have always had sex for pleasure, intimacy, connection.
 

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I guess if you are religious or like a biological researcher, that worldview makes sense

but also pretty sure people have always had sex for pleasure, intimacy, connection.
That’s my point. People have used it for various reasons and those reasons shift and evolve so this is just an instance of that. Hard to say this shift is a flaw, and sex meant to be a particular way. Actually sex being one sided is not new at all.
 

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I think my point or my reason got kind of lost, but what I am saying is that people (in this case, men) using sex as merely some sort of self serving scheme to "get the p*ssy", and then kind of disregard/disrespect the person with whom they had sex, contributes to a climate where people (in this case, women) feel much more guarded, hesitant to have sex with somebody. Which runs counter to the whole goal, (in my example, intimacy, connection, pleasure), not just something to "get over with" to have a kid.
 

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I think my point or my reason got kind of lost, but what I am saying is that people (in this case, men) using sex as merely some sort of self serving scheme to "get the p*ssy", and then kind of disregard/disrespect the person with whom they had sex, contributes to a climate where people (in this case, women) feel much more guarded, hesitant to have sex with somebody. Which runs counter to the whole goal, (in my example, intimacy, connection, pleasure), not just something to "get over with" to have a kid.

The last sentence isn’t what I meant but noted otherwise. My point is getting lost too but it’s whatever.
 

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contributes to a climate

This is just a really weak argument. It gets trotted out a lot, but the gist of it is

Y'all creating the same hoes y'all complain about.

That said, the point of this post, imo, is not to moralize, but how to deal with women to get what you want from them. Be it some short term romance, get your girl to see some sense, or to handle something even bigger than that.
 

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This is just a really weak argument. It gets trotted out a lot, but the gist of it is

Y'all creating the same hoes y'all complain about.

That said, the point of this post, imo, is not to moralize, but how to deal with women to get what you want from them. Be it some short term romance, get your girl to see some sense, or to handle something even bigger than that.
Those are at @re'up words not my own. Formatting got messed up in quoting him.
 

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Man I just came back from 2 weeks sliding thru panama & Colombia.

It be shortys working regular ass mundane jobs like a bus station ticket clerk or grocery cashiers looking like straight dimes. It ain’t fair and I see why my uncles in panama got 2 or 3 baby mamas :wow:
Keyword that keeps getting dropped this thread is “travel”

It be chicks that are 5’s walking around with the entitlement of a 10. When there’s no shortage of 10’s on this planet. Maybe in the US though
 

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Dealing with young women=worried about the nikka after

Dealing with older women= worried about the nikka before

All that equals is a cycle of "serial dating" where the man becomes "frustrated" and "bitter" because he zones in on the "risks/issues" instead of UNDERSTANDING that the risk/issues comes within the entry point itself....

It's like me being mad cuz some 22 year old bytch wants to take 2000 pics on a date to show off for IG

Or

Some 34 year old single mother trying to lullaby me into a pay to play/step-daddy role

That's what she supposed to fukking do..
:whoa: I wouldn’t deal with either
 

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Complete facts, dating one girl at a time as a man in this generation is bad for your health.

The only things is as we initiate all these dates and it takes our time and resources, got to be more discerning on who you take out
Resources aren’t the problem.

It cost nothing to setup happy hour date.

It’s the time spend engaging or pretending to care when I got real shyt going on at work. Plus when I’m off I’m just trying chill.
 
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