Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

Not really an option to intentionally go out during the day unless it’s like a college campus or something.

Yeah, a lot of guys push this idea like they come across baddies on the regular.

I might see a few cuties at the mall, but I barely go to the mall. I have zero reason to walk by Vicky's or wherever hoes flock to now.

If cats want to run everyday game, they have to change their every day routine.

• So if you got a gym membership, you hit up the one near you, the one on the south side, the one the west side, etc.
• You change up grocery stores.
• You pay for bills in person.
• No more Amazon, you buy something in person.

Trying to meet chicks doing every day stuff is a an every day hassle.

The only place where I consistently see good looking women that's not the club was mass transit, and in the morning. (lunch time and headed home, not so much)

When the occasion presents itself, I will holla, but I'd have to move back to Manhattan for that to be a viable way to eat. Maybe ATL is nice, but DC, Houston, New Orleans, and prolly a lot of places I've lived were not amenable to "every day" hollas. Not the level of attractiveness I seek out.

On the flip, trying to do the night game, but at "better" venues - play openings, art galleries, museums, whisky tastings, wine classes, charity events, etc - stuff where a certain caliber of woman is gonna be present - it's the club game with a few steps added.

But if you're young and strong, do you really want to pound some 35 year old? Really?

 

[keond]

I went out for the first time in awhile with my peoples for Cinco De Mayo. I have to say, i feel bad for yall single bros. Social media really changed the game.

 

[King]

Yeah, a lot of guys push this idea like they come across baddies on the regular.

I might see a few cuties at the mall, but I barely go to the mall. I have zero reason to walk by Vicky's or wherever hoes flock to now.

If cats want to run everyday game, they have to change their every day routine.

• So if you got a gym membership, you hit up the one near you, the one on the south side, the one the west side, etc.
• You change up grocery stores.
• You pay for bills in person.
• No more Amazon, you buy something in person.

Trying to meet chicks doing every day stuff is a an every day hassle.

The only place where I consistently see good looking women that's not the club was mass transit, and in the morning. (lunch time and headed home, not so much)

When the occasion presents itself, I will holla, but I'd have to move back to Manhattan for that to be a viable way to eat. Maybe ATL is nice, but DC, Houston, New Orleans, and prolly a lot of places I've lived were not amenable to "every day" hollas. Not the level of attractiveness I seek out.

On the flip, trying to do the night game, but at "better" venues - play openings, art galleries, museums, whisky tastings, wine classes, charity events, etc - stuff where a certain caliber of woman is gonna be present - it's the club game with a few steps added.

But if you're young and strong, do you really want to pound some 35 year old? Really?

That’s what I’m saying.

These dudes must live in major cities with good public transit or something.

I live in Cali and everything is so separated and people live in suburbs.

Hell even in LA, there’s only very small pockets where people are actually out in one place like that. Like Santa Monica or Venice for example.

I went out for the first time in awhile with my peoples for Cinco De Mayo. I have to say, i feel bad for yall single bros. Social media really changed the game.

Wym I was out too

 

[Brandsdale]

Anyways, went out this weekend in AZ for a mini vacation. Got rejected like 80+ times. Didn’t do anything or meet up with any women. They weren’t feeling me in the venues or outside. Really pushed myself to talk to any women I found attractive.

Tried to apply some of the advice I got earlier. Got 2 numbers and an IG that went nowhere. They didn’t respond.

Stayed to the brutal end too. Out at 3-4am every night still trying to approach. That shyt wore on me. I try not to let shyt affect me but at this point. I’m just over here like

Even worse was being out and seeing dudes you know you look better than having all these good ass interactions with fine women. Meanwhile I’m intentionally putting myself out there getting nothing.

Feel like I wasted my time, overall the only thing I can commend myself on is that I didn’t give up. And in retrospect I’ve had many nights like this and years later I’m still subjecting myself to this bullshyt because I continue to push myself to go after what I want.

Idk man. I kept thinking to myself that I have to reinvent the wheel and do something different but idk. Nothing worked.

maybe just take a break?

Ive done that cause i havent been successful at all lately either so i stopped trying. I think im doing something wrong as well so its good to pin point what it is and then go back out there with better results

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

man

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

This is the first time "you don't have to respond" hasn't worked for me

 

[Apollo Creed]

I went out for the first time in awhile with my peoples for Cinco De Mayo. I have to say, i feel bad for yall single bros. Social media really changed the game.

folks weird as shyt now

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Its just about summertime . Women act like thots in the summer and act like gfs in the winter. Women are like a roller coaster in summertime,enjoy them for the ride and keep it moving.

Sundresses and thong season right around the corner

Fellas prepare your rosters

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Yeah, a lot of guys push this idea like they come across baddies on the regular.

I might see a few cuties at the mall, but I barely go to the mall. I have zero reason to walk by Vicky's or wherever hoes flock to now.

If cats want to run everyday game, they have to change their every day routine.

• So if you got a gym membership, you hit up the one near you, the one on the south side, the one the west side, etc.
• You change up grocery stores.
• You pay for bills in person.
• No more Amazon, you buy something in person.

Trying to meet chicks doing every day stuff is a an every day hassle.

The only place where I consistently see good looking women that's not the club was mass transit, and in the morning. (lunch time and headed home, not so much)

When the occasion presents itself, I will holla, but I'd have to move back to Manhattan for that to be a viable way to eat. Maybe ATL is nice, but DC, Houston, New Orleans, and prolly a lot of places I've lived were not amenable to "every day" hollas. Not the level of attractiveness I seek out.

On the flip, trying to do the night game, but at "better" venues - play openings, art galleries, museums, whisky tastings, wine classes, charity events, etc - stuff where a certain caliber of woman is gonna be present - it's the club game with a few steps added.

But if you're young and strong, do you really want to pound some 35 year old? Really?

Out of all those cities, attraction wise, ATL, Houston, Miami, LA, San Diego, DMV, NYC and Detroit are seeing numbers. Everyday approaches? ATL, NYC, Miami and Cali. Why? Because there’s an abundance of events daytime and nighttime.

Places that attract sunnier wealthier and wealth attract the hottest women. The wealth makes the women step their appearance up. Because they’re to get chose.

Can’t go wrong with Toronto, Montreal and Vancouver either. If brehs from the states are coming to Canada, they’ll eat easily based on the status symbol of being “American”.

In fact, traveling overseas, the game gets way easier.

 

[Ohene]

I went out for the first time in awhile with my peoples for Cinco De Mayo. I have to say, i feel bad for yall single bros. Social media really changed the game.

Lol whatd you see

 

[Ohene]

Yeah, a lot of guys push this idea like they come across baddies on the regular.

I might see a few cuties at the mall, but I barely go to the mall. I have zero reason to walk by Vicky's or wherever hoes flock to now.

If cats want to run everyday game, they have to change their every day routine.

• So if you got a gym membership, you hit up the one near you, the one on the south side, the one the west side, etc.
• You change up grocery stores.
• You pay for bills in person.
• No more Amazon, you buy something in person.

Trying to meet chicks doing every day stuff is a an every day hassle.

The only place where I consistently see good looking women that's not the club was mass transit, and in the morning. (lunch time and headed home, not so much)

When the occasion presents itself, I will holla, but I'd have to move back to Manhattan for that to be a viable way to eat. Maybe ATL is nice, but DC, Houston, New Orleans, and prolly a lot of places I've lived were not amenable to "every day" hollas. Not the level of attractiveness I seek out.

On the flip, trying to do the night game, but at "better" venues - play openings, art galleries, museums, whisky tastings, wine classes, charity events, etc - stuff where a certain caliber of woman is gonna be present - it's the club game with a few steps added.

But if you're young and strong, do you really want to pound some 35 year old? Really?

Nah man.

Maybe its cause i live in toronto but on a decent sunny day all you have to do is go for a walk.

And the point isnt you go for a walk for the sole purpose if meeting m women. Its that you go for a walk because you feel like jt and you come across good looking women. And if you don’t then who cares…youll come across women at some other point.

That being said Toronto has a decent ratio of attractive women. Cant speak for cities like San Antonio, Memphis, suburbs and shyt.

There is literally no need to switch up routines and shyt. You go about your day and when you come across attractive women, you holla. Its literally the exact opposite of a hassle

A hassle is going to a club, dressing up, spending money for cover/drinks sometimes, driving to the establishment etc.


Edit: just saw the second part of your post. Where you live now? Im very surprised to hear DC, Houston dont have women to holla like that

 

[Ahadi]

Yeah, a lot of guys push this idea like they come across baddies on the regular.

I might see a few cuties at the mall, but I barely go to the mall. I have zero reason to walk by Vicky's or wherever hoes flock to now.

If cats want to run everyday game, they have to change their every day routine.

• So if you got a gym membership, you hit up the one near you, the one on the south side, the one the west side, etc.
• You change up grocery stores.
• You pay for bills in person.
• No more Amazon, you buy something in person.

Trying to meet chicks doing every day stuff is a an every day hassle.

The only place where I consistently see good looking women that's not the club was mass transit, and in the morning. (lunch time and headed home, not so much)

When the occasion presents itself, I will holla, but I'd have to move back to Manhattan for that to be a viable way to eat. Maybe ATL is nice, but DC, Houston, New Orleans, and prolly a lot of places I've lived were not amenable to "every day" hollas. Not the level of attractiveness I seek out.

On the flip, trying to do the night game, but at "better" venues - play openings, art galleries, museums, whisky tastings, wine classes, charity events, etc - stuff where a certain caliber of woman is gonna be present - it's the club game with a few steps added.

But if you're young and strong, do you really want to pound some 35 year old? Really?

1000%

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Lust fades.
Love fades.
Respect fades.

She might not sleep with the next dude, but there's no way to "keep" a woman.

Lemme define keep - That lovey-dovey Honeymoon mode her entire life.

Obviously a man can make it painful for her to leave.
A man can put himself in a position to always replace her..

But he can never HAVE her.

Once I understood that, it made my life much easier.

Dudes always afraid of opening up to a broad - the premise is that if he does, she will either treat him poorly or leave.

It's because he's trying to keep her in a particular emotional state so that she treats him in a particular way.

Once he realizes that this is impossible, it's not up to him, he's free.

Lotta dudes don't want to be free. Them wanting to keep a chick, also keeps them down.

And the same thing happens with the females, even faster if you ask me.

She wants to keep dude in that "we just started dating phase"

• All the attention
• The gifts, meals, dates, etc
• The getting close
• The opening up
• Getting official
• The sharing of tasks
• The showing off her relationship
• Marriage
• Kids

I don't care how fine a chick is, how good the sex is, I'm gonna love her, but that 1st 3 months thing is done.

this a real post, ain’t wanna just brush this off

like you said, can have every attribute that is praised as far as attracting a woman but time is undefeated

Makes you wonder how brehs in marriages handle that

 

[Ahadi]

I went out for the first time in awhile with my peoples for Cinco De Mayo. I have to say, i feel bad for yall single bros. Social media really changed the game.

I had an incredible time



Went to a rooftop party & Ended up with some joint who was somebody’s guest. The whole weekend was pretty good. Between her, a joint I met at a fight party with Tank/Garcia.

 

[WIA20XX]

this a real post, ain’t wanna just brush this off

like you said, can have every attribute that is praised as far as attracting a woman but time is undefeated

Makes you wonder how brehs in marriages handle that

I can't even call it. I think a lot of dudes I know in good marriages (or at least stable ones with kids, growing and what not) - they got married EARLY, (like college/right after college), wasn't in these streets heavy, the girls wasn't really in the streets heavy, and they just grew together as a couple.

I got theories, but it don't really help folks not in that situation.