Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Vacation pics are good. Just ask someone, it’s completely normal, don’t worry about being a bird, you need to make your life reflect the highest quality possible. This is your SOCIAL RESUME. Get a phone tripod off Amazon and take flicks yourself if you need.

The cat would be a good addition & for your hobbies, same as I mentioned before, take photos of yourself while you cook, you at a comic book store, etc.

You can do all this yourself with a phone tripod and using a self timer. Or pay a photographer who specializes in this to help you.

& Again, test these images on your other social media platforms, whatever gets the best reaction from women, add to your profile.
it sounds like im gonna have to work on making a new IG account and building that up first?
 

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most of what you've mentioned isn't really an option until its full-blown summer here in Toronto (the weather blooms in June FYI)

The Raptors ain't in the playoffs, none of my homies watch baseball or would even go to a game, I haven't been a hockey fan since fukkin grade school and vacay photos would have to wait until possibly July/August :francis:


However; I am still looking for a cat and do like the AGO (which is why I bolded it). My only thing is asking strangers to take pics at places like these without feeling like a bird. Do you just add a couple of pictures of art in your profile? Or do you actually post up beside it or sum?

Hobbies are tricky. Most of what I do is: cook, video games, read comics, sports and collectibles

For a reference point, this is literally one of my favorite clout chasing type shots (Tyrone Hankerson)

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So when you roll up in the Kia, and she ask where the Range at, "Girl, you know them joints is always in the shop" :troll:


So going through Toronto Hashtags

I like this composition. The outfit isn't too bad, except I'm not feeling the kicks. But the internet game is not about whether YOU look good, it's about whether the photo does.



Taking the principle from photo #1 Using Good Backgrounds






And then, if you can manage something like this. (Credit to Login • Instagram)

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Tommy Lee Jones

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There are a lot of ways to do the IG game.

I think the default is "luxury lifestyle" - and basically copying the typical Dubai chick's page
  • Beaches
  • Exotic Animals
  • Fancy food at sit down restaurants
  • Icons of the locale (Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, Christ the Redeemer)
  • Famous people in the background
You can chat AI generate a lot of this these days

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But there are other ways to craft a better message imo.

Cause it's a visual medium, you can tell an entirely different story than Luxury Travel Guy (which can easily slide into "sleazy" passport bro)
@WIA20XX your link didn't work but I found your post and the site.
 

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You don't NEED social media, but, here's one thing to consider, instagram and App based dating, leads to more options, obviously, obviously, but also more screening, and "talking" which people tend to do through

looking at a social media profile, then "talking' via social media, flirting via liking pictures and tagging each other then, finally meeting up.

I can say for sure that women have been willing to do whatever with me, but for lack of a social media profile, they just kind of either forget you, think you are hiding something (I def. am) or don't have enough info to make that decision.

I just straight up try to play it the raw way. Looks, interpersonal connections, good reputation. To me, the hours spent in that void of social media, the same kind of hours spent "partying", it's just time I can't spend.

I have years of the glamorous life on my phone, a girl I know who has thousands of followers said I should make a travel/food insta, but it's just not who I want to be, have to take the consequences too.
 

Ohene

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I've never had a instagram, facebook, clubhouse, tiktok etc. and I've still ate. I know nowadays chicks think you're hiding something if your azz aint all on social media but ah well.
I’ve eaten too but i feel like that aspect is holding me back from a certain demographic of hoes id like to smash

So this year I’m going to experiment with it
Especially since I’m releasing my book
 

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I posted last week about how I would like to meet a woman who would be okay with me having other women...

So check this out, I met a chic on FB. She portrays the image of a woman who's got a lot going on for herself, no children, she's an adjustable 7, but what I like most about her is that she's really intelligent. Anybody who knows me knows that I'm a sapiosexual.

Anyway, we've been having these great enlightened conversations about relationships and men and women and gender dynamics. She's portraying herself like a lady (she ain't sent no p*ssy pics or let me see her tiddays hanging out yet). We're just in the getting to know each other phase.

But yesterday I made a startling revelation. I found out that she's poly and bisexual. She doesn't know that I know.

Why is that a problem? It ain't, but I feel a lil bamboozled now. And I'm not sure why. :jbhmm:

I've dealt with plenty of bisexual women in the past, so I don't have a problem with that.

And technically, she's the type of woman that I was saying I wanted a couple weeks ago, a woman who wants me to have another woman (except she's gonna want her too).

Maybe I feel some kinda way cause she ain't told me yet. I'm used to folks telling me their life story right off the bat, but she leaving out details. :camby:

Imma play it cool though and wait and see how long it takes her to reveal this to me. But if she take too long, Imma have to start insinuating stuff :ufdup:
Why not press the issue since it’s what you want?
 
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