Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

Just don’t sweat it and someone will eventually reciprocate that energy. Who wants to ‘chase’ in 2023?

That just hasn't been my experience. Expecting females to reciprocate, to be consistent, to be on time, to be forthright, is just not in their DNA. I see it personally, but I also see it professionally.

If you want her, you have to go get her.

It's after you hit, that the dynamic changes. That's when you hit her with that "toxic" love and make her just cry and earn it...

Otherwise, "She don't want it, if it's that easy".

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

That just hasn't been my experience. Expecting females to reciprocate, to be consistent, to be on time, to be forthright, is just not in their DNA. I see it personally, but I also see it professionally.

If you want her, you have to go get her.

It's after you hit, that the dynamic changes. That's when you hit her with that "toxic" love and make her just cry and earn it...

Otherwise, "She don't want it, if it's that easy".

We have different life experiences and you got to adapt to your reality.

 

[360dagod]

I don't even get women that ghananian chick hasn't said anything for me in a week. She calls me today on facetime video. I call back nothing. Thens he messages me apologies it was by accident

That bytch gotta get smacked

 

[MikelArteta]

We have different life experiences and you got to adapt to your reality.

yup
i'll do my part but I at least expect a little bit of an effort.

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

yup
i'll do my part but I at least expect a little bit of an effort.

All the women I’ve seriously dated showed me the same energy, if not more.

This really helps me figure out whether it’s worth investing my time or not.

Re: the Ghanaian chick - West African women have really weird ideas about dating. I’ll never forget how I broke up with 2 Igbo women one summer because they weren’t punctual and I had to pay for all our dates (amazing head though ).

One had the gall to text me why I wasn’t speaking to her anymore. After I explained to her she said,

“I guess we had different expectations.”

I can’t date West African-born West Africans despite how damn attracted to them I am. The ones born in the diaspora are more sensible

 

[Ohene]

That just hasn't been my experience. Expecting females to reciprocate, to be consistent, to be on time, to be forthright, is just not in their DNA. I see it personally, but I also see it professionally.

If you want her, you have to go get her.

It's after you hit, that the dynamic changes. That's when you hit her with that "toxic" love and make her just cry and earn it...

Otherwise, "She don't want it, if it's that easy".

I agree with both

Typically though, the ones you have to chase don’t go any where in the long run. Even if you smash

 

[Ohene]

All the women I’ve seriously dated showed me the same energy, if not more.

This really helps me figure out whether it’s worth investing my time or not.

Re: the Ghanaian chick - West African women have really weird ideas about dating. I’ll never forget how I broke up with 2 Igbo women one summer because they weren’t punctual and I had to pay for all our dates (amazing head though ).

One had the gall to text me why I wasn’t speaking to her anymore. After I explained to her she said,

“I guess we had different expectations.”

I can’t date West African-born West Africans despite how damn attracted to them I am. The ones born in the diaspora are more sensible

I disagree lol. we both from the same country too so i dont know. In Brampton ghanaian girls be on some bullshyt a lot of the time

Brehs we need to stop acting like there are any real differences between women in different countries

To be where they were born and raised don’t matter as much as when they were born and raised or how they were raised. Social media has globalize everything for the worse

 

[360dagod]

I disagree lol. we both from the same country too so i dont know. In Brampton ghanaian girls be on some bullshyt a lot of the time

Brehs we need to stop acting like there are any real differences between women in different countries

To be where they were born and raised don’t matter as much as when they were born and raised or how they were raised. Social media has globalize everything for the worse

Yeah the draft-n-stash of the hidden diamond is done just like the NBA..

There are no more gems...

Just potential

 

[Ahadi]

Who getting the most attention? I got lightskin & blue hat, bubba is the “nice” guy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Who getting the most attention? I got lightskin & blue hat, bubba is the “nice” guy.

regular woman inbox lool

 

[Brandsdale]

Who getting the most attention? I got lightskin & blue hat, bubba is the “nice” guy.

“Light skin” don’t even seem like he care so I got him in the lead

“Bubba” got a heart next to his name so I’m thinking he’s 2nd place

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

I disagree lol. we both from the same country too so i dont know. In Brampton ghanaian girls be on some bullshyt a lot of the time

Brehs we need to stop acting like there are any real differences between women in different countries

To be where they were born and raised don’t matter as much as when they were born and raised or how they were raised. Social media has globalize everything for the worse

Ase/ise/amen

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I agree with both

Typically though, the ones you have to chase don’t go any where in the long run. Even if you smash

In my case if they not rocking with me off the rip it never goes anywhere and I never smash.

It’s a fine line between the situation just not lining up time wise to get together, and chasing. Gotta trust your gut with field experience for which category you fall in.

Some women know how to play the game just enough to make you feel like you’re getting somewhere. It’s probably why dudes have a “x amount of dates smash rule” to avoid being the sucka.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I disagree lol. we both from the same country too so i dont know. In Brampton ghanaian girls be on some bullshyt a lot of the time

Brehs we need to stop acting like there are any real differences between women in different countries

To be where they were born and raised don’t matter as much as when they were born and raised or how they were raised. Social media has globalize everything for the worse

if you met that bytch in America/UK or a major city anywhere she is a modern woman. All that "I'm so and so tribe" bullshyt is a smoke screen to confuse the enemy.

 

[Ohene]

In my case if they not rocking with me off the rip it never goes anywhere and I never smash.

It’s a fine line between the situation just not lining up time wise to get together, and chasing. Gotta trust your gut with field experience for which category you fall in.

Some women know how to play the game just enough to make you feel like you’re getting somewhere. It’s probably why dudes have a “x amount of dates smash rule” to avoid being the sucka.

Exactly

After two (max three) dates a woman has to invite me out and pay or come to my crib

There are times I’ll still end up smashing on some right time right place shyt but the juice never worth the squeeze required