Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Correct.

Comfort is #1 in letting them tell on themselves. Saying “I hear you” is an easy cheat code as well. Works great for “feminist” adjacent type joints.

This video





This Breh got me crying as well

I hear you isn't really validating, its more so letting an idiot run their mouth so they don't feel shame. Usually sane men hear something stupid and logic kicks in to debunk it. But 90% of nikkas only want sex. so just let the idiot talk and play as if English is your 4th language with "hmm, dang, wow, interesting" until she is ready for sex, abort mission if doing this exceeds your allocated time and money budget.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Correct.

Comfort is #1 in letting them tell on themselves. Saying “I hear you” is an easy cheat code as well. Works great for “feminist” adjacent type joints.

This video





This Breh got me crying as well

Game is game

 

[Ahadi]

Game is game

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Found it lol

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

I hear you isn't really validating, its more so letting an idiot run their mouth so they don't feel shame. Usually sane men hear something stupid and logic kicks in to debunk it. But 90% of nikkas only want sex. so just let the idiot talk and play as if English is your 4th language with "hmm, dang, wow, interesting" until she is ready for sex, abort mission if doing this exceeds your allocated time and money budget.

With me, I do this to make them comfortable opening up to me. I'm tryna develop friendships, network, and potentially a longterm romantic relationship. The more you listen to women, the more they become attracted to you

Women are generally more emotional than men. They love that type of shyt. Being an active listener to a girl who wants you will make her want you even more

 

[Ahadi]

With me, I do this to make them comfortable opening up to me. I'm tryna develop friendships, network, and potentially a longterm romantic relationship. The more you listen to women, the more they become attracted to you

Women are generally more emotional than men. They love that type of shyt. Being an active listener to a girl who wants you will make her want you even more

Yup. I do this with plenty of white women senior leadership positions, they all fall in line - happy a man is willing to listen and understand them / empathize with them, a BLACK man at that.

A lot a women just want to be heard.

“I hear you”

“I want you to be comfortable”

“I want to validate your feelings”

 

[Apollo Creed]

With me, I do this to make them comfortable opening up to me. I'm tryna develop friendships, network, and potentially a longterm romantic relationship. The more you listen to women, the more they become attracted to you

Women are generally more emotional than men. They love that type of shyt. Being an active listener to a girl who wants you will make her want you even more

My point is listening (aka letting them ramble) isnt validating, your time if anything is the validation but the key is giving time to chicks who like you. Giving time to women who aint feeling you sexually is a waste of time, thats why i’m calling this out.

 

[Brandsdale]

there is nothing normal about FWBs lol, you being blamed is just a coping mechanism for a woman to not feel like the whore she is.

tbh we were BOTH to blame but for some reason I am the only one at fault and fukked the whole thing up

why am I your FWB but you keep asking me about going on dates?

Why you keep asking to go see Desus and Mero? (while she knew that was my fave podcast at the time)
why you wanna talk on the phone?
why do you keep texting me?



i say all this cause I can very well go back to a FWB situation but I made note of never having that much closeness again. Mind you, I came at this chic tryna fukk and that's that. SHE was the one that brought up this whole FWB situation

 

[Apollo Creed]

tbh we were BOTH to blame but for some reason I am the only one at fault and fukked the whole thing up

why am I your FWB but you keep asking me about going on dates?

Why you keep asking to go see Desus and Mero? (while she knew that was my fave podcast at the time)
why you wanna talk on the phone?
why do you keep texting me?



i say all this cause I can very well go back to a FWB situation but I made note of never having that much closeness again. Mind you, I came at this chic tryna fukk and that's that. SHE was the one that brought up this whole FWB situation

What im saying is with FWBs they are never meant to last, i will say most dudes just keep sinking in the quick sand to maintain the sex when they should be pulling away once chick treats them as a boyfriend

 

[re'up]

A lot of times, both parties, both conceal their expectations, and their feelings, to some level.

Both parties chose to play some version of a "game", in order to realize their goal

I am always curious why so many people have so many rules? And what fears are underneath the rules

 

[WIA20XX]

A lot of times, both parties, both conceal their expectations, and their feelings, to some level.

Both parties chose to play some version of a "game", in order to realize their goal

I am always curious why so many people have so many rules? And what fears are underneath the rules

Women punish men for honesty.

 

[Ahadi]

A lot of times, both parties, both conceal their expectations, and their feelings, to some level.

Both parties chose to play some version of a "game", in order to realize their goal

I am always curious why so many people have so many rules? And what fears are underneath the rules

Women’s emotions are all over the place lol, one day you’re the hottest thing ever, the next day ehhhhh.

 

[re'up]

Women’s emotions are all over the place lol, one day you’re the hottest thing ever, the next day ehhhhh.

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[Lieutenant Daniels]

Women’s emotions are all over the place lol, one day you’re the hottest thing ever, the next day ehhhhh.

Most women that grew up in this era (social media) are emotionally and mentally stunted. Most women below the age of 30 wouldn’t know what a good man looks and acts like or even what to do with one.

So you get that hot and cold act. I’ve been back in the dating game for going on 2 years now and what I’ve noticed is that (disclaimer: this is MY experiences) no matter the age women don’t know how to properly lockdown a good man. Most throw you sex and hope that’s enough to make you “wife”. Again, that’s just been my experiences with ladies ranging in age from 21 to 38, I turn 39 in a couple weeks.

I’ve even had candid conversations with some of them and asked “do you even know how to KEEP a man”. The answer is a bunch of juelzing usually. Society hasn’t held women accountable. As a man only thing you should do is peep game and move accordingly to how YOU want to move. Everything else falls in line once you concern yourself with what you want.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Women punish men for honesty.

Women punish the men they DONT want for honesty. I’ve been honest with women to their detriment and they used mental gymnastics to continue to fukk with me.

Her genuine desire for you overrides her common sense in most but not all situations.

 

[Ahadi]

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