yeah, I will affirm that one. When your money is down, you need to get that back up. We all need/seek connection, intimacy, comfort, but it's best to seek it from a position of strength.
and just general life advice, people will hide in activities like partying, drinking women, escape in them to block out reality, and avoid facing the work they have to do, and watch it all slide away.
My house got jacked in summer 2010 and I was a lot younger, not even really dating, but the point is I couldn't even think about anything else until my money was right.