Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Yuzo Lightheart]

Do you ever feel like by playing games you lose good women? If you think about it, your game will only attract weak-minded females. An intelligent female will quickly see your behaviour as manipulative. Only a young female falls for the mysterious, unpredictable, pretending to be constantly busy.. kind of man lol.

By following these rules/playing these games, you will definitely find females, but they will all be WEAK individuals who are co-dependent. Do you really think somebody you can manipulate is a strong person? Maybe for some of you, that is what makes you happy. Maybe for some of you, the idea of never losing power/being hurt is more important. But what you fail to understand is a strong relationship is one that interdependent. I could go on and get all religious but i'll leave it there.

I don't think everything said here is non-sense because it's teaching you to never make somebody your world because when you do that, you will crash and fall. You can love someone without making them your be all and end all. And you can demand respect, but make sure you give respect too & reply back/call the one you care about.

Also, how tiring is it to always have your game face on? Don't you want somebody who can care for you when you are at your weakest? I know most of you would never cry? I'm not a big fan of crying myself, but I think there's something beautiful about someone who sees your eyes tears up, they don't say anything, except give you a hug.

If you have to constantly manipulate a woman's mind to keep her around.. let her go. There's a woman who will like you just for who you are. No games involved. I know it's hard to find someone like that, but trust me you will. We're all like a jigsaw puzzle and we try to make pieces fit. If the piece doesn't fit, then God didn't make her for you. You'll find the right piece.. one day. Until them, treat women kindly because Karma is a.......

to me it seems like what you really want is to have more power over a man by making him dependent on you.

but a woman must relent to a man. i understand not every woman has an ability to do that.

 

[MikelArteta]

Do you ever feel like by playing games you lose good women? If you think about it, your game will only attract weak-minded females. An intelligent female will quickly see your behaviour as manipulative. Only a young female falls for the mysterious, unpredictable, pretending to be constantly busy.. kind of man lol.

By following these rules/playing these games, you will definitely find females, but they will all be WEAK individuals who are co-dependent. Do you really think somebody you can manipulate is a strong person? Maybe for some of you, that is what makes you happy. Maybe for some of you, the idea of never losing power/being hurt is more important. But what you fail to understand is a strong relationship is one that interdependent. I could go on and get all religious but i'll leave it there.

I don't think everything said here is non-sense because it's teaching you to never make somebody your world because when you do that, you will crash and fall. You can love someone without making them your be all and end all. And you can demand respect, but make sure you give respect too & reply back/call the one you care about.

Also, how tiring is it to always have your game face on? Don't you want somebody who can care for you when you are at your weakest? I know most of you would never cry? I'm not a big fan of crying myself, but I think there's something beautiful about someone who sees your eyes tears up, they don't say anything, except give you a hug.

If you have to constantly manipulate a woman's mind to keep her around.. let her go. There's a woman who will like you just for who you are. No games involved. I know it's hard to find someone like that, but trust me you will. We're all like a jigsaw puzzle and we try to make pieces fit. If the piece doesn't fit, then God didn't make her for you. You'll find the right piece.. one day. Until them, treat women kindly because Karma is a.......

I've answered on previous page this somewhat


I wont even lie but being cheated on in the past changed me, robbed me of my innocence, as a man i was determined to never let a chick screw me over like that again so i kept my emotions to myself and had a cold cold attitude toward women.

Something inside a man's romantic gentleman heart dies after their first betrayal and especially after their second. It's sad that the bad women got the full real natural love that I offered, that real love that innocent love, and every chick after that got caution. I always say a$$holes and players aren't born they are made.

Those experiences made me into a manwhore, a guy before who only slept with 3 women in 22 years, ended up sleeping with like 15 in a span of 6 months.

This is one reason why i am strongly against cheating, not just because of the pain it causes the betrayed bf or gf which is bad enough but the effect it has through the entire dating atmosphere. You cheat on somebody then they end up hurting the next person than that person hurts somebody and so on, all these chicks I ran through, T remember the tears on the phone, or crying, or how I used them etc., im sure they prob screwed over the next guy they dated or whatever and the cycle continues.

Thankfully im better now, i still approach every situation with caution, and don't trust women beside my mom, sister and grandma, but that came with wisdom, its sad even if i were to get married I could never give my wife that unconditional innocent 18 year old version of myself love, the armor has been molded over my heart.

My experiences in life have brought me to this point, that even if I were to get married and my wife pregnant, throughout the whole pregnancy, I'd probably be thinking if some other dude knocked her up. I know my thought process is somewhat distorted, i guess that';s why i liked silver linings playbook, because they were both unstable yet found love.* I know if i were to ever get married to a chick who passed all the tests, all the checkmarks I'll prob bawl my eyes out..





I don't treat women bad, anymore, but it's sad manipulation lies, bringing drama and confrontation, a distant unemotional, a$$hole will have you more respected than a faithful goal driven loyal man.

By me calling a chick a bytch, ignoring her phone calls only showing up for sex, not committing not doing anything nice, cheating taking to 10 different chicks she will have tingles nnd thrill, she will chat to her friends he's such as a$$hole yer continue to eat out of my hand like a little puppy,

Compared if I'm a one woman man, whose excited to see his woman, no player tendencies, loyal, respectful, I'll be boring and predictable, and before you go on not all womn are like that you are right but the majority are, just like you can't tell grenade is dud they all look the same, some are live and will ruin you others are duds.

Do I deserve a good woman? I think I deserve woman who is like me.

Faithful, loyal, respectful, has a heart for others, righteous, intellectual, free of drama.



Sent from royalty breh

 

[MikelArteta]

To further add to what I said I had my game face off and got cheated on stepped on and manipulated.

Years ago when I dated this broad she said she loved me I said ok, she always kept asking do you love me yet and I said no, the day I finally said yes I do, was the day my Samson hair was cut with those words said my heart opened up and I become emotionally attached only to have my repaired heart carved out and dumped on the. Side of the road months later,.

I'm just using this as a example, if I kept my game face on and never exposed myself I would have been protected, but a woman's seduction is :wheww:

Since then I've never ever told a chik how I truly felt about them, I was in relationship for a year after and loved this chick more than anyone I even dated and I was engaged previously but I never told her how I felt, I never took off my game face and I had her by the palm of my hand, we broke up mainly due to me going back to church etc.

She even told me I'm the only guy ever in her life who she could never figure out, even to this day if I wanted I could call her up and bang her like 30 min later even if shes in a relationship.



Sent from royalty breh

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

@His_Excellence_Reincar -

I really enjoyed reading your post. There was so much honesty there. From your signature, I can tell you believe in the Lord, as do I, so I'm going to share my 'religious perspective' with you also. You see, I believe anything the lord forbids, is for our own good. Premarital sex causes a lot of problems, such as the ones you have mentioned. You sound like a really good man, so I'm sure the lord has somebody good waiting for you. In regards to what you said, I believe YOUNG girls who are emotionally unstable enjoy the rollercoaster ride of love. They enjoy ups and downs because it creates adrenaline rush. It's all chemical. That's why they say ''I can't help how I feel'' even though logic tells them otherwise. Stick with dating mature, God-fearing, intelligent females. Stick with the rule (no sex). Make your vows infront of God and your loved ones. Then connect both physically and spiritually with one another. I truly wish the best for you bro. I hope you can one day find a woman who appreciates your love and honesty.

 

[kevm3]

Any man that just throws his rules out the door when dealing with a female is a doggone sucker. The rules came about and exist for a reason. If a man has proper rules, they exist to keep him from problematic situations and to present and preserve some order in the course of a relationship.

 

[MikelArteta]

And to add further more, I don't play by these rules or simp, a lady at my church lost her job struggling she has a kid, I speak alot about single moms etc. But I still went out today and with my own money bought her groceries, I wasn't trying to get praised or get in her pants or even a thanks, that's just the type of person I am. Simps do nice things for praise and a shot at vagina.

I don't even play the game nor care to anymore, I'm just me.

The messed up thing is I'm a 27 year old, good looking black male with assets and career, no baby momma, no ex drama, no chattering to 10 women, properties in two countries, living a abstinence religious life, a man who would make great husband and father, but sees what is out there and says

Sent from royalty breh

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

To further add to what I said I had my game face off and got cheated on stepped on and manipulated.

Years ago when I dated this broad she said she loved me I said ok, she always kept asking do you love me yet and I said no, the day I finally said yes I do, was the day my Samson hair was cut with those words said my heart opened up and I become emotionally attached only to have my repaired heart carved out and dumped on the. Side of the road months later,.

I'm just using this as a example, if I kept my game face on and never exposed myself I would have been protected, but a woman's seduction is :wheww:

Since then I've never ever told a chik how I truly felt about them, I was in relationship for a year after and loved this chick more than anyone I even dated and I was engaged previously but I never told her how I felt, I never took off my game face and I had her by the palm of my hand, we broke up mainly due to me going back to church etc.

She even told me I'm the only guy ever in her life who she could never figure out, even to this day if I wanted I could call her up and bang her like 30 min later even if shes in a relationship.

Sent from royalty breh

Wow.. But think of it like this bro, do you really want to keep around a woman that you can't tell her how you truly feel? I'm not saying all rules are bad. For example, not sticking around when you can tell someone is not interested/invested is obviously a good rule to have. Not chasing an uninterested woman.. is obviously another good rule. BUT if you really feel in sync with a woman, then don't be afraid to speak truthfully. Don't be afraid to let her in IF you think she deserves it. Don't be afraid to tell her you love her IF you do love her. And if she breaks your heart? Put a bandage on it because time heals everything!

Recently, my friend introduced me to a friend of theirs. I know he is looking to settle down, and so am I. I know he likes me because he told my friend he does, but when it comes to our conversations, I can tell he is holding back. It's obvious he is trying to play it really cool. This has become a real turn-off to me because I don't want to play any games. I'm looking to marry a man I can crack jokes with, chill with, share ambitions with, praise the lord together, and grow old together. I'm not interested in trying to ''figure'' out a man. So I have basically decided it's not going to progress. Why? Because, I can already tell he's the type of man to play the mysterious card. What am I? 18 years old? I'm nearly in my mid twenties and ready to settle down. That ish is no longer cute or thrilling.

When you find the one.. AMEND your rules, or risk losing her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Wow.. But think of it like this bro, do you really want to keep around a woman that you can't tell her how you truly feel? That's not a woman, that's a little girl mentally. I'm not saying all rules are bad. For example, not sticking around when you can tell someone is not interested/invested is obviously a good rule to have. Not chasing an uninterested woman.. is obviously another good rule. BUT if you really feel in sync with a woman, then don't be afraid to speak truthfully. Don't be afraid to let her in IF you think she deserves it. Don't be afraid to tell her you love IF you do love her. And if she breaks your heart? Put a bandage on it because time heals all troubles!

Recently, my friend introduced me to a friend of hers. I know he is looking to settle down, and so am I. I know he likes me because he told me friend he does, but when it comes to our conversations, I can tell he is holding back. It's obvious he is trying to play it really cool. This has become a real turn-off to me because I don't want to play any games. I'm looking to marry a man, I can crack jokes with, chill with, share ambitions with, praise the lord together, and grow old together. I'm not interested in trying to ''figure'' out a man. So I have basically decided it's not going to progress. Why? Because, I can already tell he's the type of man to play the mysterious card. What am I? 19 years old? I'm nearly in my mid twenties and ready to settle down. That ish is no longer cute or thrilling.

When you find the one.. AMEND your rules, or risk losing her.

, back to that relationship, i never cheated I was faithful, when it was valentines day, I bought her flowers.
I told her I enjoyed her company whenever she asked if i loved her, its amazing to females that words speak louder and seem to mean more than actions.

the guy whose giving his woman black eyes, making her stay up all night, cheating on her, just has to drop i love you and she forgives, but a man who is loyal faithful and drama free if he doesnt utter those words, he doesn't care about her .

see your a women, women love to make guys belt out their full emotions, dont be afraid tell her how you feel, "she cheated but she still loves you trust me, when i banged brad i still had feelings for tyler"

And yes time heals your heart, however the reminder of your past stays with you, you remember every lie hook and cranny you heard from women who attempted to destroy you in the past "i love you":, "im not like that":, ":id never do that you": .

its like a guy crossing the street one year he gets hit by a car only a gentle nudge, doesnt hurt that bad, next year he gets hit again this time a little bit more serious, next year sadly he gets hit again this time is horrible and hes in pieces, now do you think the guy is going to cross the street like he did in the past? or is he going to adapt, look both ways, or maybe say screw it and not cross the street at all.

see the thing most 20 something women need to understand is that most men have been ruined or scarred previously, we adapt to our surroundings, we were sold a bag of lies, men hold back because previously they came out and were screwed over.

like i said before adn i repeat again its sad if im ever to get married or be in a serious relationship agian that my wife or that women will not get the unbridled love that say i would have given her ten years ago, that open book ask me anything dear type reincar, but its life


there is no such thing as the one, you ever see those people like omg i found teh one, and then that person dies or whatever and they remarry a few years later?

anyone can be the one, i dont have to amend my rules, let me amend this nas line":I got no game, it's just some bytches understand my story "

"i dont have to amend my rules, a woman will just understand my story"

 

[MikelArteta]

Any man that just throws his rules out the door when dealing with a female is a doggone sucker. The rules came about and exist for a reason. If a man has proper rules, they exist to keep him from problematic situations and to present and preserve some order in the course of a relationship.

if anyone in this thread watches dexter, look what happened to dexter once he started amending his rules

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

@His_Excellence_Reincar - I liked the analogy you gave lol. That was a good one. But maybe you were just crossing the wrong streets? The streets with reckless drivers. I'm sure when you find the right street bro, you'll reach the other side safely. I'm off to sleep now. It's really late where I am. I hope you find the one. I agree there's more than just one person out there for you, maybe a handful lol. I hope you find ONE of them.

 

[MikelArteta]

@His_Excellence_Reincar -

I really enjoyed reading your post. There was so much honesty there. From your signature, I can tell you believe in the Lord, as do I, so I'm going to share my 'religious perspective' with you also. You see, I believe anything the lord forbids, is for our own good. Premarital sex causes a lot of problems, such as the ones you have mentioned. You sound like a really good man, so I'm sure the lord has somebody good waiting for you. In regards to what you said, I believe YOUNG girls who are emotionally unstable enjoy the rollercoaster ride of love. They enjoy ups and downs because it creates adrenaline rush. It's all chemical. That's why they say ''I can't help how I feel'' even though logic tells them otherwise. Stick with dating mature, God-fearing, intelligent females. Stick with the rule (no sex). Make your vows infront of God and your loved ones. Then connect both physically and spiritually with one another. I truly wish the best for you bro. I hope you can one day find a woman who appreciates your love and honesty.

a chick that truly gets it.

and i did once but i was young and dumb and shunned her, now shes married and a missionary in south america

 

[sixsixtwo]

Models and Their Mothers - Slide Show - NYTimes.com

 

[MikelArteta]

Models and Their Mothers - Slide Show - NYTimes.com

women age horribly

 

[sixsixtwo]

What Miss Teen Delaware Teaches About Game : TheRedPill

 

[DaRealness]

i really dont want this thread to turn into a thread where females start to chime in, in droves. to those of yall addressing the females and whatever nonsense behavior u're questioning them on, please do it via PMs. cause some of us simply do not give a sh1t about the female population on this board. we have no interest in trying to mack to them or whatever. so please keep this in pms.

Wasn't it like a week ago when I expressed a similar sentiment that wasn't even hostile and some dude got at me condemning me for it.....