Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

I need some scumbag advice brehs..

This girl I’m trying to smash, says she’ll only sleep with someone she’s in a relationship with. I already let her know I wasn’t looking for anything serious.

I tried to make a move when I went over to her spot, we ended up having a long conversation about what we both want, and we were all clearly against what either of us wanted, and decided to end things since we both weren’t on the same page.
But she keeps hitting me up

I know she’s into me
How do I play this?


Don’t tell me to move on

Leave her alone...

You fukked up when you made the move

 

[mag357]

Never underestimate how much modern women have been compromised. Even a seemingly ‘good’ chick will try you to see if you goin for it

My ex actually ended up being a solid chick, but in the very beginning she almost didn’t make it.

1- Before we even went on the first date she asked ‘ would you be okay with it if I ordered 2 entrees’ I asked why and she was basically on some ‘just to see what you would say’

2- For like a whole week she was obsessed with finding out how much I made. This is like 2 weeks into dating

3- One day out the blue she said ‘how come you don’t send me money for groceries’ (we didn’t live together)

I eventually broke up with her for other reasons, she was just too clingy, too into me. The gold digger shyt proved to be completely out of her character. Can honestly say this was a good chick. But in the beginning it was almost like she saw stuff on IG or was told by her girls to say it. When you’re talking to a chick who’s been single and exposed to the world you gotta jailbreak her ass. Factory reset.

Man... Wtf y'all be dealing with out there
shyt
That bytch would have gotten this face

And a couple dikk pix. That's it

 

[mag357]

Why do women reject themselves before attracting the guy?

I honestly think women fear rejection more than men. Most of the "bad bytch" demeanor is just a cover up for low self esteem. Don't let the "ego" fool you. A lot of so-called "pretty" women are highly insecure.

Brehs don't get caught up on it. We're blessed. Blessed that we don't have to sell dreams with makeup and cosmetics ha

Instead of thinking "Does she like me" switch to "I'm just giving this broad a chance. If she fumbles me that's on her"

We're the prize at the end of the day.

All that is 100% accurate.

Bolded is only true if you have made yourself valuable.
If not, then you're just a dikk. And dikk isn't a prize or valuable

 

[mag357]

It’s true. I’ve come to the conclusion women just date because they’re broke.

That’s why I rather go younger if anything, atleast I get her best / physical self.

Not really broke... But they date for security in general.
It could be financial, emotional, physical security etc

So since you're being used for something anyway... Date younger. You're getting your monies worth

 

[Ahadi]

Is it me or do a lot of women (of all different backgrounds) on hinge curate their profiles to appeal to white dudes?

Black women liking “the office”, enjoying live music, partaking in cac-activities (ie. kayaking and camping)…or the most obvious….having group photos specifically with white women or men…



Came across a black woman that said she lookin for a white male who won’t fetishize her…

@MikelArteta

Minus the live music and camping. Some of their prompts are indeed “cac-signaling”

The amount of BW I’ve seen, post about “The Office”



Now if they’re the only BW in a photo of white women, or they’re always cheesing with cacs yeah…I’m looking at them differently

 

[Ahadi]

Not really broke... But they date for security in general.
It could be financial, emotional, physical security etc

So since you're being used for something anyway... Date younger. You're getting your monies worth

Exactly. You might as well get “used” by the younger bad chick.

 

[The ADD]

Exactly. I might as well get “used” by the bad chick.

Wouldn’t pick the baddest one anyway?

 

[Ahadi]

Wouldn’t pick the baddest one anyway?

Always.

Meant to say “you” & younger / badder chick.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Keep it moving if you value your time and not with the games. She's making it a prize/leverage so if you do get into the relationship she controls everything. It's a power/leverage move when they use that bullshyt. She wants a relationship with you but there's another guy piping her down putting in zero effort. She's into you because she sees the sucker in you. Respect your time and put her on the waiver wire or else you will be in this thread like the others nagging about she ended the relationship.

I had a chick tell me she didnt wanna have sex unless she was in a relationship but gave me dome. Maybe 8 months later i see she gets engaged.

Lmfao if nikkas dont wake the fukk up

 

[360dagod]

I need some scumbag advice brehs..

This girl I’m trying to smash, says she’ll only sleep with someone she’s in a relationship with. I already let her know I wasn’t looking for anything serious.

I tried to make a move when I went over to her spot, we ended up having a long conversation about what we both want, and we were all clearly against what either of us wanted, and decided to end things since we both weren’t on the same page.
But she keeps hitting me up

I know she’s into me
How do I play this?


Don’t tell me to move on

Square gang "scumbag" game is subtle...

You keep everything basic like Vin Diesel lines in Fast and Furious...

She wants to feel like "it just happened" so she can justify her bullshyt...

 

[The ADD]

I need some scumbag advice brehs..

This girl I’m trying to smash, says she’ll only sleep with someone she’s in a relationship with. I already let her know I wasn’t looking for anything serious.

I tried to make a move when I went over to her spot, we ended up having a long conversation about what we both want, and we were all clearly against what either of us wanted, and decided to end things since we both weren’t on the same page.
But she keeps hitting me up

I know she’s into me
How do I play this?


Don’t tell me to move on

The flip side is that you are also still engaging her giving her the opposite view you have that you are into her.

 

[African_brehda]

Square gang "scumbag" game is subtle...

You keep everything basic like Vin Diesel lines in Fast and Furious...

She wants to feel like "it just happened" so she can justify her bullshyt...

Breh, that is exactly where I fukked up. Letting her know I didn’t want anything serious from the jump. So she knows for a fact if anything happens, it’s because she agreed to it. She can’t blame me in that instance, she’ll have to be accountable

 

[African_brehda]

The flip side is that you are also still engaging her giving her the opposite view you have that you are into her.

We haven’t really spoken since then tbh.

 

[The ADD]

We haven’t really spoken since then tbh.

I’m confused:

She keeps hitting you up but y’all haven’t spoken?

Define “hitting up”

 

[Ahadi]

Breh, that is exactly where I fukked up. Letting her know I didn’t want anything serious from the jump. So she knows for a fact if anything happens, it’s because she agreed to it. She can’t blame me in that instance, she’ll have to be accountable

Be grey and create the opportunity for plausable deniability