Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Matched a chick, get her number, she flakes … . I make one last attempt before moving on. Set up a meet…. got her IG and I see she got a kid

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The audacity. Chicks with kids never fill out the kid part on aops they always leave it blank :aicmon: They know why they doin. They like how nggas treat them when they don’t know. And she right. I was all chasin this broad now I’m like man whatever:unimpressed:
If women ever put their IG on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. always look into it, so that way you can avoid situations like that.
 
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its women out here who expect you to be perfect. you must:

follow up the day of to confirm the plans
dress well
be well groomed

pick a good restaurant
open the door for them
pay for the bill
pick them up / drop them off or call an uber accordingly
be funny
be witty
have great conversation etc

these same women wont even show up or be ready for the date on time but expect all of the above
when you realize how lopsided the shyt is, all you can do is laugh and deject to some degree




:skip: you supposed to be doing the bolded anyway
 

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i got a question fam. im an avid cold approacher too but with how fickle women are (it was always bad but gets worse every year lol) i am starting to feel like its not worth the effort

i say this having just got home from a fit, 38 yr old persian woman's place after she sucked the life outta me and swallowed lol . I bagged her off a cold approach, but it be like damn. Why I gotta holla at 20 hoes...and get like 7-10 numbers just to get some action with one or two chicks .



Rarely post in here any more since my mental damage from my previous relationship that ended last fall.



Been out and about like crazy and yes, never encountered such fickle and flakey women IN MY LIFE (and this is a member of certified "COLD APPROACH" gang).



I'm at the point where... wait for it...



I've officially checked out and if somethign sticks, that's fine. But I no longer have the drive, ambition and energy to court (let alone, chase/get digits/set up dates/ etc.).



Your boy is in such a funk right now (even with me being at the best shape in my life and making the best loot of my career)... but something is wrong in these waters and I've never strucken out so consistently since my very early 20's.




Did social media/IG really warp every single woman's mind like that?




Man, game is ALL fukked up now. lol





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Rarely post in here any more since my mental damage from my previous relationship that ended last fall.



Been out and about like crazy and yes, never encountered such fickle and flakey women IN MY LIFE (and this is a member of certified "COLD APPROACH" gang).



I'm at the point where... wait for it...



I've officially checked out and if somethign sticks, that's fine. But I no longer have the drive, ambition and energy to court (let alone, chase/get digits/set up dates/ etc.).



Your boy is in such a funk right now (even with me being at the best shape in my life and making the best loot of my career)... but something is wrong in these waters and I've never strucken out so consistently since my very early 20's.




Did social media/IG really warp every single woman's mind like that?




Man, game is ALL fukked up now. lol





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focus on self and finding peace. It makes mentally checking out of the bullshyt sooo much easier so you don't feel FOMO. Once you find internal peace your focus will be on protecting it thus it will be easier to disengage whenever you sense bullshyt with people not just women.
 

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Rarely post in here any more since my mental damage from my previous relationship that ended last fall.



Been out and about like crazy and yes, never encountered such fickle and flakey women IN MY LIFE (and this is a member of certified "COLD APPROACH" gang).



I'm at the point where... wait for it...



I've officially checked out and if somethign sticks, that's fine. But I no longer have the drive, ambition and energy to court (let alone, chase/get digits/set up dates/ etc.).



Your boy is in such a funk right now (even with me being at the best shape in my life and making the best loot of my career)... but something is wrong in these waters and I've never strucken out so consistently since my very early 20's.




Did social media/IG really warp every single woman's mind like that?




Man, game is ALL fukked up now. lol





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lol its really fukked up man

the only thing i can say, is get it how you live. dont invest so much into meeting women that it distracts you, but if opportunities present themselves then go for it. thats essentially what I do.

i refuse to deject because that would be letting some of these hoes from the past win. let them become the jaded ones, go about living your life happily and leveling up - whether thats with or without women
 

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its women out here who expect you to be perfect. you must:

follow up the day of to confirm the plans
dress well
be well groomed
pick a good restaurant
open the door for them
pay for the bill
pick them up / drop them off or call an uber accordingly
be funny
be witty
have great conversation etc

these same women wont even show up or be ready for the date on time but expect all of the above
when you realize how lopsided the shyt is, all you can do is laugh and deject to some degree

All of a woman’s power is in the VERY beginning. They know. They know/think at their core ain’t shyt. Which is why a lot of women hate being out on a pedestal

They can play it cool in the beginning. With apps they can live the dream before they themselves mess it up :francis: So in the beginning it’s selling them that dream
 

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Rarely post in here any more since my mental damage from my previous relationship that ended last fall.



Been out and about like crazy and yes, never encountered such fickle and flakey women IN MY LIFE (and this is a member of certified "COLD APPROACH" gang).



I'm at the point where... wait for it...



I've officially checked out and if somethign sticks, that's fine. But I no longer have the drive, ambition and energy to court (let alone, chase/get digits/set up dates/ etc.).



Your boy is in such a funk right now (even with me being at the best shape in my life and making the best loot of my career)... but something is wrong in these waters and I've never strucken out so consistently since my very early 20's.




Did social media/IG really warp every single woman's mind like that?




Man, game is ALL fukked up now. lol





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Alot of them are terrified of men who they feel are "out of their league"...

In pua terms, they auto-reject themselves

Women have told me this out their own mouth

If you don't joke or smile at/with them to "soften" them up, they won't even look your way :heh:

You are gonna get the roughest "shyt tests" and the "weirdest" behavior from them..

More women like you then you would even believe...

It's the actual process of dealing with them that needs realignment when you get your bag and your body up
 

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Rarely post in here any more since my mental damage from my previous relationship that ended last fall.



Been out and about like crazy and yes, never encountered such fickle and flakey women IN MY LIFE (and this is a member of certified "COLD APPROACH" gang).



I'm at the point where... wait for it...



I've officially checked out and if somethign sticks, that's fine. But I no longer have the drive, ambition and energy to court (let alone, chase/get digits/set up dates/ etc.).



Your boy is in such a funk right now (even with me being at the best shape in my life and making the best loot of my career)... but something is wrong in these waters and I've never strucken out so consistently since my very early 20's.




Did social media/IG really warp every single woman's mind like that?




Man, game is ALL fukked up now. lol





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