Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m trying to fukk some new but I got more than a few old hoes wanting that old thing back, I’m in a lil drought but I don’t really care because I smashed a lot this year already. Should I just take them all back or focus on getting some new? I think I’ll do both bring the old broads back while also finding new shyt because fukk it there wasn’t any bad blood I either didn’t care anymore, they got annoying (but they’re all annoying at the end of the day), or was too goody two shoes/holding out.
 

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After going years without tryna holla at women, the most confusing thing to me was when I got back in the game and asked a chic for her number and she gave me her ig instead. At the time I looked at it like rejection but I think Gen Z may be on to something.

Yesterday I was getting at this chic at an event I went to and the conversation was going great and when she had to go, I told her lemme get her ig so we can finish our convo later.

I didn't understand at first but getting social media is one of the best things you can do. You instantly find out what type of woman she is by what she's into and what she posts.

This might be the first actual ingenious thing that Gen Z has come up with :ohhh:
This is gold advice. Chics get mad but I tell them all I judge them and group then based off the pics and how they post on their socials. They might try to say it's all for fun. But it's an insight into what they prioritize and how they view certain scenarios. In this day and age what you post is your reality. All I have on mines are my daughter, family, travels, and books. Just go through 6mos of pics and that should paint a pic of how you should view the chic
 

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:laff: wooooow. She sounds insane, breh.

But when a chic aint answering your messages, that's an indicator she really ain't that into you.

Move accordingly from there. You was supposed to leave her on read when she finally responded.

Had a couple women do that to me recently. I said something to them, they leave me on read.

So when they came back trying to talk, I leave them on read.

Petty but effective :ehh:
Brehs gonna have to learn one day. Only give a chic back the energy she's giving you. If you're out here double and triple texting you might as well pack it up. Gotta get rid of that scarcity mindset and the market will adjust accordingly.
 

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The best advice is for brehs to be the nonchalant gentlemen/a$$hole. Especially if you're only out here trying to get your numbers up. Just keep them all at arms length. These chics love it for reasons I'll never understand.Don't give them too much of your time and don't talk too much. They'll literally slot themselves into a roster spot and you deal with them at your convenience. Also everytime they wanna link you can't always go. Even if you don't have something lined up. You can't always be readily available at the drop of a dime.
 

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I’m trying to fukk some new but I got more than a few old hoes wanting that old thing back, I’m in a lil drought but I don’t really care because I smashed a lot this year already. Should I just take them all back or focus on getting some new? I think I’ll do both bring the old broads back while also finding new shyt because fukk it there wasn’t any bad blood I either didn’t care anymore, they got annoying (but they’re all annoying at the end of the day), or was too goody two shoes/holding out.
do what works for you breh.
 

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I am officially gonna make to at least 40 with no kids :blessed:. The game gets easier as you get older,you realize most women are stuck in their ways. Majority of women are time wasters and are not marriage material.
Smashing hoes has never been easier the main issue is these chicks are more chaotic than ever and as a man gets older he enjoys his peace. Some men get peace via creating a family, others view chicks who know their role, others by being alone. I think the creating a family and chicks knowing their role is what has the world upside down.
 

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Smashing hoes has never been easier the main issue is these chicks are more chaotic than ever and as a man gets older he enjoys his peace. Some men get peace via creating a family, others view chicks who know their role, others by being alone. I think the creating a family and chicks knowing their role is what has the world upside down.
I remember my mom trying to teach my sister years ago about looking presentable for her husband and what not (working out, hair, cleanliness etc.) and she got really offended. Not saying she’s wrong for how she reacted but she was angry at the idea of having to do something for a man, that’s a bit of the same mentality I’ve noticed from girls in general nowadays (school, chics I’ve fukked, relatives, friends, homies girls etc.)

I think the idea of having to do or withhold standards for a man is what’s causing some of th issues. Men are looked at as having to prove something in this era whereas women have become the judges. shyt is like America Idol
 

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she was angry at the idea of having to do something for a man

I wonder where she learned that?

At some point men were good with being providers for women and family, and women were good with being the caretakers and nurturers of men and family.

Now everyone's trying to stack, or make a comeup off of each other...

hmm.
 

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I wonder where she learned that?

At some point men were good with being providers for women and family, and women were good with being the caretakers and nurturers of men and family.

Now everyone's trying to stack, or make a comeup off of each other...

hmm.
And the economy will force you to have dual income for a house (if you alone aren’t making 200k+). That or just renting a place gets harder (in Toronto you’re looking at 2300+ for a 1 bedroom btw)

People can stack, but it doesn’t really guarantee you a dwelling (let alone a full house) and last I’ve checked a lot of North American cities have housing issues.
 

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I am officially gonna make to at least 40 with no kids :blessed:. The game gets easier as you get older,you realize most women are stuck in their ways. Majority of women are time wasters and are not marriage material.
are you happier than you were in your late 20s/30s?

I’m interested to know fellas life quality at an older age without women or kids affecting it
 
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