Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Actually6Foot3

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That's one way to do it.

But her getting all emo and aggravated is how she's controlling your thoughts and behavior. She's deeply insecure, probably doesn't think highly of herself, and probably dealt with "tyrants" before.

That's what usually prompts this type of behavior, this type of reaction, even she's just reacting to something in her mind.

Every dude here has gone to sleep with a broad, and woke up to a cold shoulder because she had a DREAM where ol boy did something.

She's probably not doing it on purpose/consciously/intentionally - but the result is the same - She's living in your mind rent free.

So you'll go through this little tough time, her pouting, her stonewalling, or her yelling and crying - and all most guys do is

1) Try to reason with her emotions
2) Silent Treatment Back
3) Placate with words, efforts, and gifts

I been there done that. Most cats that are 30+ been there, and a lot of the time, keep finding themselves under her thumb.

You have two options, in my experience.

Let the broad walk/break up with her for being insecure
or
Invest the time into teaching her how to behave.

Nobody does the 2nd.

WIA
Fortunately we don't live together so it's a gift (for me) and a curse (for her)

We broke up for a few months but got back together. I think that/ still on her mind too since I'm the one that pulled the plug.

Couple weeks ago we got drunk and I said we should go back to hers. She Gon say"why can't we go to yours do you have condoms on the floor or something)?" :snoop: Like wtfI haven't done shyt.

Now before we made it official she has found open condom wrappers in my spotand cried over it but we weren't together yet and I reminded her of that to which she shut up :manny:
She's admitted to being insecure. Idk know how to go about teaching her to behave. Probably should've just stayed broken up.

We got a trip planned and paid for so I at least need this to last till summer lmao I can be a free agent once the weather improves:salute:
 

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Fortunately we don't live together so it's a gift (for me) and a curse (for her)

We broke up for a few months but got back together. I think that/ still on her mind too since I'm the one that pulled the plug.

Couple weeks ago we got drunk and I said we should go back to hers. She Gon say"why can't we go to yours do you have condoms on the floor or something)?" :snoop: Like wtfI haven't done shyt.

Now before we made it official she has found open condom wrappers in my spotand cried over it but we weren't together yet and I reminded her of that to which she shut up :manny:
She's admitted to being insecure. Idk know how to go about teaching her to behave. Probably should've just stayed broken up.

We got a trip planned and paid for so I at least need this to last till summer lmao I can be a free agent once the weather improves:salute:

:laff::laff::laff: I understand.
 

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i saw this bad ass light skinned girl at the store

she had a tattoo sleeve so i approached her and was like 'your sleeve look raw asl'

she smiled and said thank you

i asked her questions about it and then i was like 'how old are you?' cus she look young she said 24

so i was like what's ur name? she tell me and i was finna tell her my name

and i instantly remembered ur post and so i aint say shyt then after a few seconds she asked me for my name

i got her number so im using this strategy from now

Nice cold approach.
 

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If you ever take the risk to chat up a baddie at work, make sure you know if there are cameras, where they are, and what shift is safe.

You will get in those draws at work if it works out.
It's impossible for it to not happen. Just trust me on this one.:russ:
 

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If you ever take the risk to chat up a baddie at work, make sure you know if there are cameras, where they are, and what shift is safe.

You will get in those draws at work if it works out.
It's impossible for it to not happen. Just trust me on this one.:russ:
What do you for work?
 

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Fortunately we don't live together so it's a gift (for me) and a curse (for her)

We broke up for a few months but got back together. I think that/ still on her mind too since I'm the one that pulled the plug.

Couple weeks ago we got drunk and I said we should go back to hers. She Gon say"why can't we go to yours do you have condoms on the floor or something)?" :snoop: Like wtfI haven't done shyt.

Now before we made it official she has found open condom wrappers in my spotand cried over it but we weren't together yet and I reminded her of that to which she shut up :manny:
She's admitted to being insecure. Idk know how to go about teaching her to behave. Probably should've just stayed broken up.

We got a trip planned and paid for so I at least need this to last till summer lmao I can be a free agent once the weather improves:salute:
Breh, i tell you from experience the juice aint worth the squeeze trying to deal with an insecure woman. Let her go, do ya thing in the meantime and you’ll be just fine by the summer time. You will fail and fail miserably trying to fix her , if shes not being proactive and getting doing the work herself you are wasting your time.

Aint nobody got time for that
 

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I failed my girl (now ex) brehs.

I don't consider myself a man anymore. I need to grow up
Listen bruh fukk all that I told my folks bytch if I know you for two weeks or twenty years I don’t give too fukks you will never see me pissed off. Pick yo head up.
 
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