RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
me and my gal will go to the balloon museum soon
<3

On the verge of checking out brehs.
I don't have the bandwidth for this sh*t anymore.
It seems like positive energy and behaviour is only appreciated if you demonstrate the capacity for treachery.
This is what my 1st hand experience and 3rd person observation continues to show me. For 18 years.
May as well go full-on nihilist and embrace the demon.
You could say something like, “I know we initially talked about splitting our expenses in proportion to our incomes. But the more I think about it, the more it makes me feel uncomfortable. I really don’t want this to become a source of conflict in our marriage, so I was hoping we could explore some other paths. How does that sound to you?”
relax lmao. Folks so dramatic.
What is making you check out?
1) The "easy" route is going demon. But it is not easy. You cannot just turn on the sociopath switch and use chicks for theirand their money.
If you really had that dog in you, you would already be one.
To develop the level of inherent selfishness required, you're going to have to UNLEARN a lot of "bad" habits, not just learn to be a "city boy".
2) You can play "straight up" - Lead with your heart, your emotions, your wallet - and just cut broads out of your life that don't act accordingly.
This is how most guys start out, unaware of the game, and try to be real.
But when she acts up, goes left, or whatever, they don't put they foot down, scream on a broad, or peace out for good.
They fall for the modern women's biggest trap...
Communication.
I was speaking with the Small Council and this was brought up.
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So the female advice giver says
Communication is manipulation. She wants this woman to put the entire relationship in jeopardy so she can buy purses and have "girl trips". She does not say this directly, never that. But even Stevie Wonder can see what this means.
It's couched in middle class/professional speak/therapy talk so that it sounds REASONABLE.
When it's actually emotional/relationship blackmail.
Why do men fall for this?
They are so deprived for female companionship that they don't protect themselves when a chick gets parasitic.
So if you don't want to become Future and super toxic - build yourself up, put your bids in, and when the broads do x,y,z - you let them go.
Being a demon is just as hard as kicking a broad to the curb - but both ways will have you in more female guts than you know what to do with.
You'll be like Og Style
Post her IGWelp my relationship of a year ended, she broke up with me….and told me while I was at work.
Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.
The one I was talking to tonight, her rent is literally due
She wasn't asking for nothing but she was just telling me the woes of her life.
I'm sitting here like, why all yall hoes struggling?
She cute but.... she got too much baggage. I really don't want to deal with broke dusty women
Her p*ssy so pretty tho.![]()
This is very vague. Dating beyond casual relationships isn’t easy………Bruh, I didn't mention anything about p*ssy or money.
I'm merely saying I don't have the heart for it anymore. Zero tolerance for the BS and what the world is showing me rn is, there is an overwhelming degree of BS you have to deal with and I ain't got the bandwidth anymore.
If I'm lucky, I'm lucky but not counting on it anymore.
I'm at a place were broke women are a complete turn off unless she's an 8 and above above
Welp my relationship of a year ended, she broke up with me….and told me while I was at work.
Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.
Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.
Random stupid question:
What would be a few things I should probably tell my sons (under 12) about dating women in this era? Don't tell me shyt like "you married you should know how to put them on game" etc. I do. But truth is, I haven't been single for 20 years and all this shyt you guys talk about with the apps, girls ghosting so much, using people for meals etc. was nowhere near this bad in the 90s and 00s.
I want to teach my kids the old fashioned in-person cold approach I was raised on but is that even effective any more? I pray their relationship training isn't staring into a phone app or texting. These new girls sound super flaky too so I think they need to build up resilience early.
Thoughts?