Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

On the verge of checking out brehs.

I don't have the bandwidth for this sh*t anymore.

It seems like positive energy and behaviour is only appreciated if you demonstrate the capacity for treachery.

This is what my 1st hand experience and 3rd person observation continues to show me. For 18 years.

May as well go full-on nihilist and embrace the demon.

1) The "easy" route is going demon. But it is not easy. You cannot just turn on the sociopath switch and use chicks for their and their money.

If you really had that dog in you, you would already be one.

To develop the level of inherent selfishness required, you're going to have to UNLEARN a lot of "bad" habits, not just learn to be a "city boy".

2) You can play "straight up" - Lead with your heart, your emotions, your wallet - and just cut broads out of your life that don't act accordingly.

This is how most guys start out, unaware of the game, and try to be real.

But when she acts up, goes left, or whatever, they don't put they foot down, scream on a broad, or peace out for good.

They fall for the modern women's biggest trap...

Communication.

I was speaking with the Small Council and this was brought up.

So the female advice giver says

You could say something like, “I know we initially talked about splitting our expenses in proportion to our incomes. But the more I think about it, the more it makes me feel uncomfortable. I really don’t want this to become a source of conflict in our marriage, so I was hoping we could explore some other paths. How does that sound to you?”

Communication is manipulation. She wants this woman to put the entire relationship in jeopardy so she can buy purses and have "girl trips". She does not say this directly, never that. But even Stevie Wonder can see what this means.

It's couched in middle class/professional speak/therapy talk so that it sounds REASONABLE.
When it's actually emotional/relationship blackmail.

Why do men fall for this?

They are so deprived for female companionship that they don't protect themselves when a chick gets parasitic.

So if you don't want to become Future and super toxic - build yourself up, put your bids in, and when the broads do x,y,z - you let them go.

Being a demon is just as hard as kicking a broad to the curb - but both ways will have you in more female guts than you know what to do with.

You'll be like Og Style

 

[Mickey Kane]

relax lmao. Folks so dramatic.

What is making you check out?

Like I said, this isn't an impulsive feeling or thought.

This isn't some childish, city boy sh*t.

I'm a 36 year old man.

I've experienced and seen enough, both positive and negative.

I'm not suggesting there aren't good women or I've not been primarily responsible for some of the negative experiences in my life but what's CLEAR and CONSISTENT is that the for the most part, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

 

[Mickey Kane]

1) The "easy" route is going demon. But it is not easy. You cannot just turn on the sociopath switch and use chicks for their and their money.

If you really had that dog in you, you would already be one.

To develop the level of inherent selfishness required, you're going to have to UNLEARN a lot of "bad" habits, not just learn to be a "city boy".

2) You can play "straight up" - Lead with your heart, your emotions, your wallet - and just cut broads out of your life that don't act accordingly.

This is how most guys start out, unaware of the game, and try to be real.

But when she acts up, goes left, or whatever, they don't put they foot down, scream on a broad, or peace out for good.

They fall for the modern women's biggest trap...

Communication.

I was speaking with the Small Council and this was brought up.

So the female advice giver says



Communication is manipulation. She wants this woman to put the entire relationship in jeopardy so she can buy purses and have "girl trips". She does not say this directly, never that. But even Stevie Wonder can see what this means.

It's couched in middle class/professional speak/therapy talk so that it sounds REASONABLE.
When it's actually emotional/relationship blackmail.

Why do men fall for this?

They are so deprived for female companionship that they don't protect themselves when a chick gets parasitic.

So if you don't want to become Future and super toxic - build yourself up, put your bids in, and when the broads do x,y,z - you let them go.

Being a demon is just as hard as kicking a broad to the curb - but both ways will have you in more female guts than you know what to do with.

You'll be like Og Style

Bruh, I didn't mention anything about p*ssy or money.

I'm merely saying I don't have the heart for it anymore. Zero tolerance for the BS and what the world is showing me rn is, there is an overwhelming degree of BS you have to deal with and I ain't got the bandwidth anymore.

If I'm lucky, I'm lucky but not counting on it anymore.

 

[DrBanneker]

Random stupid question:

What would be a few things I should probably tell my sons (under 12) about dating women in this era? Don't tell me shyt like "you married you should know how to put them on game" etc. I do. But truth is, I haven't been single for 20 years and all this shyt you guys talk about with the apps, girls ghosting so much, using people for meals etc. was nowhere near this bad in the 90s and 00s.

I want to teach my kids the old fashioned in-person cold approach I was raised on but is that even effective any more? I pray their relationship training isn't staring into a phone app or texting. These new girls sound super flaky too so I think they need to build up resilience early.

Thoughts?

 

[DTXwavey_02]

Welp my relationship of a year ended, she broke up with me….and told me while I was at work.

Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.

 

[The ADD]

Welp my relationship of a year ended, she broke up with me….and told me while I was at work.

Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.

Post her IG

 

[Action Mike]

The one I was talking to tonight, her rent is literally due


She wasn't asking for nothing but she was just telling me the woes of her life.

I'm sitting here like, why all yall hoes struggling?


She cute but.... she got too much baggage. I really don't want to deal with broke dusty women



Her p*ssy so pretty tho.

I'm at a place were broke women are a complete turn off unless she's an 8 and above above

 

[The ADD]

Bruh, I didn't mention anything about p*ssy or money.

I'm merely saying I don't have the heart for it anymore. Zero tolerance for the BS and what the world is showing me rn is, there is an overwhelming degree of BS you have to deal with and I ain't got the bandwidth anymore.

If I'm lucky, I'm lucky but not counting on it anymore.

This is very vague. Dating beyond casual relationships isn’t easy………

 

[Ahadi]

@africngiant

Update on the IG model? If you ain’t go out with her or make any physical moves by now, just post her

 

[Ahadi]

I'm at a place were broke women are a complete turn off unless she's an 8 and above above

This.

Any sense of struggle, financial dependency, or sense that you’re dating because you’re broke, I’m out.

 

[Ahadi]

Welp my relationship of a year ended, she broke up with me….and told me while I was at work.

Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.

Better have a side piece next time / keep talking to women. They’re doing the same, which is why she leap frog so quick.

 

[Van Cleef]

alot of these 25+ bytches bodies be looking so bogus without clothes on

 

[MikelArteta]

Crazy how you can sacrifice so much for a girl and than get dropped like nothing, back on this grind shyt tho all you can do.

I said this years ago


I’ve always said you can rescue a woman from a burning house, let them stay at your investor condo for a while to help them out and they’d come back at you on some squatters right ish

Helping out many women in life gets you nowhere just empty wallets and wishing you never did it.

Ving Rhames wanted to kill Bruce in pulp fiction but after Bruce saved him when he was getting raped it all was well

Many women have zero loyalty for what you do, in their minds if you didn't do it they had 100 other nikkaz who'd Glady do it. It's like uber and being a uber driver you're not taking that 5 dollar drive for 15 miles, but guess what there's 10 other chumps waiting to do it. Just like how even if yhou are on a dating app and see a girl you find unattractive there are 100 dudes calling her beautiful and wanting to take her out.

Some breh who’d smash and leave garners more loyalty than the breh whose always there for her and sacrificed so much

As @kevm3 says and it always sticks with me it’s better to be a woman’s problem than her problem solver

 

[MikelArteta]

Random stupid question:

What would be a few things I should probably tell my sons (under 12) about dating women in this era? Don't tell me shyt like "you married you should know how to put them on game" etc. I do. But truth is, I haven't been single for 20 years and all this shyt you guys talk about with the apps, girls ghosting so much, using people for meals etc. was nowhere near this bad in the 90s and 00s.

I want to teach my kids the old fashioned in-person cold approach I was raised on but is that even effective any more? I pray their relationship training isn't staring into a phone app or texting. These new girls sound super flaky too so I think they need to build up resilience early.

Thoughts?

What I would say is fostering open dialogue and supporting them as they navigate the complexities of dating will be invaluable. I know for me growing up the way I was raised I could never see myself talking to my dad about women or relationships. I'm 38 and it was only recently my dad talked to me (now that I'm getting married) telling me he knew I went through a lot with women and was hurt many times but he didn't know how to talk to me.

I wish my dad took me aside some times and told me son you ok? I noticed so and so doesn't come around anymore.

 

[The ADD]

I said this years ago


I’ve always said you can rescue a woman from a burning house, let them stay at your investor condo for a while to help them out and they’d come back at you on some squatters right ish

Helping out many women in life gets you nowhere just empty wallets and wishing you never did it.

Ving Rhames wanted to kill Bruce in pulp fiction but after Bruce saved him when he was getting raped it all was well

Many women have zero loyalty for what you do, in their minds if you didn't do it they had 100 other nikkaz who'd Glady do it. It's like uber and being a uber driver you're not taking that 5 dollar drive for 15 miles, but guess what there's 10 other chumps waiting to do it. Just like how even if yhou are on a dating app and see a girl you find unattractive there are 100 dudes calling her beautiful and wanting to take her out.

Some breh who’d smash and leave garners more loyalty than the breh whose always there for her and sacrificed so much

As @kevm3 says and it always sticks with me it’s better to be a woman’s problem than her problem solver

You are your fiancé’s problem