Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It could be any of the below:
  • Self-sabotage
  • Needing a change in routine
  • Testing to see how they feel when you're not in the picture: wanting to miss you
  • Wanting to know you're not dependent on her
  • Guilt
  • Another dude they want to spend time with
  • etc.

The only path forward is to give her what she asked for. Whether you wanted it or not, she does, has been wanting it for a while and initiated it. Let her find out whether she really wants that or not. Sending a "hey just checking on you" violates that and works against you btw. Let her miss you and reach back out. They always do. In the meantime, find something else that will replace those endorphins you'd normally get from her.

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I definitely agree.

Why do you think that is though?
Energy can shift for an infinite number of reasons, but in my experience I've dodged (future) bullets from women that have curved me or told me they needed space. Come to find out they're still not over their ex, or into that white girl (not PAWGs, I mean the sniff kind), or was just simply for the streets.

To paraphrase Iceberg Slim "I celebrate when a broad leaves me. It gives another worthy broad the chance to step up."

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This one is wrong. And makes no sense if you were around women when you were that age

Do you not remember school? How many guys in her class were ballers or celebrities? Zero.

Women in that age bracket really just want a guy they find "cute". It's usually a dude from their circle or school.

It's their first love and the guy that takes their virginity. That guy NEVER fits the description you wrote.

Sure, sometimes they trade up when they get to the next age bracket or get bored.

That is by far the easiest bracket to get women (when you're in the same bracket of course). They pretty much have no expectations and fall for the most basic "push/pull" game. The second (or maybe first) easiest is the last age bracket when, you're in a younger bracket.

The most p*ssy I ever got was when I was 16 - 21. I just needed to be fly and funny. Then I just asked them to pull up to the crib.
Break the age brackets from hardest to easiest (when it comes to pulling women)
 

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Man say, things end fast with a chick just as quickly as they start :wow:

Been seeing this chick for a couple months and today she dropped the “I think we should take some space” :mjlol:

I told her that’s not what I want but ok :yeshrug:

However I’m taking the approach of rejection is protection. Especially if I did everything right in the situation.

It's always a new man. 99% of the time they will always try to circle back around after it doesn't work the way they thought in their head.
 

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It's always a new man. 99% of the time they will always try to circle back around after it doesn't work the way they thought in their head.

Yup. For the most part anytime a woman is feeling you heavy and then suddenly switches up it’s always another guy in the picture that was either already there or just got there


I think she’s going back to her ex. I haven’t shared the situation but I have a very strong feeling that’s what’s happening. The last two weeks I could feel she was moving differently. Taking longer to respond to text, never rescheduling plans, short text responses, not answering calls or initiating calls or texts. Kept saying “you deserve better than what I can give you right now”, kinda pressing me to bush her.

Either way at this point it’s irrelevant.
 

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Yup. For the most part anytime a woman is feeling you heavy and then suddenly switches up it’s always another guy in the picture that was either already there or just got there


I think she’s going back to her ex. I haven’t shared the situation but I have a very strong feeling that’s what’s happening. The last two weeks I could feel she was moving differently. Taking longer to respond to text, never rescheduling plans, short text responses, not answering calls or initiating calls or texts. Kept saying “you deserve better than what I can give you right now”, kinda pressing me to bush her.

Either way at this point it’s irrelevant.
Actively and consciously showing that she doesn't value or prioritize you. Fall off the face of the Earth as far as she's concerned and feel no anxiety towards responding to someone that treats you that way.
 

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Yup. For the most part anytime a woman is feeling you heavy and then suddenly switches up it’s always another guy in the picture that was either already there or just got there


I think she’s going back to her ex. I haven’t shared the situation but I have a very strong feeling that’s what’s happening. The last two weeks I could feel she was moving differently. Taking longer to respond to text, never rescheduling plans, short text responses, not answering calls or initiating calls or texts. Kept saying “you deserve better than what I can give you right now”, kinda pressing me to bush her.

Either way at this point it’s irrelevant.

Yup.

Always watch their patterns. Communication, sex, routine, reciprocation, etc. Once you notice a change, be ready to bush.

Could be a number of things, more money, better looks, better job to “brag” about to friends, better house, nicer car, better sex, anything to build a better summer.

But she’ll be back, they always come back. Thats when you ignore.

In 2024, I’d keep some around as an “emergency break glass” situation. Too many fickle factors.
 
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Man say, things end fast with a chick just as quickly as they start :wow:

Been seeing this chick for a couple months and today she dropped the “I think we should take some space” :mjlol:

I told her that’s not what I want but ok :yeshrug:

However I’m taking the approach of rejection is protection. Especially if I did everything right in the situation.
you probably answered this already....

but define 'seeing'

smashing?
just hanging out
dates?
 
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