Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Action Mike]

i treat that home invitation as a hail mary. i have no problem being patient to fukk if a girl is inviting me out, initiating conversations, shyt...paying for dates etc. but I aint gonna initiate and pay for more than 2 dates if she isnt showing keen interest. at that point she either coming over or i'm cutting my losses

This is a key filter, and you'll absolutely know were you stand after this

 

[Brandsdale]

is it bad to only have pics of yourself on your dating profile?

 

[Apollo Creed]

is it bad to only have pics of yourself on your dating profile?

either you are ugly or you arent.

Only no no I will say is bathroom selfies or something. As a Man just have pics of yourself doing stuff.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

if she aint initiating after the 2nd one she just not into you enough. got to keep it moving
ive noticed though that white girls are a lot more forthcoming while black girls are always tryna play it cool.

main chick I am seeing right now initiated a date after our first, inviting me out to go skating. really helped move things along

Big facts. Also in my experience a lot of older chicks (28-40) like to play the “you do all the pursuing and initiating” while they sit back and do nothing. Even single moms behave like this haha. I also noticed a correlation that chicks that behave like this also think they don’t have to compete to get a man.

I’ve bushed so many chicks the last 2 years because I was doing all the pursuing. Matter of fact, I’m bushing a chick right now that I’ve gone out with twice and she hasn’t initiated another meet up. And this was a shorty that gave HEAVY vibes of interest.

 

[Ohene]

Big facts. Also in my experience a lot of older chicks (28-40) like to play the “you do all the pursuing and initiating” while they sit back and do nothing. Even single moms behave like this haha. I also noticed a correlation that chicks that behave like this also think they don’t have to compete to get a man.

I’ve bushed so many chicks the last 2 years because I was doing all the pursuing. Matter of fact, I’m bushing a chick right now that I’ve gone out with twice and she hasn’t initiated another meet up. And this was a shorty that gave HEAVY vibes of interest.

throw the hail mary and invite her over. if she dont say yes then bush her

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

throw the hail mary and invite her over. if she dont say yes then bush her

I did. We went out last Friday and yesterday. Tried to set something up for this weekend. Matter fact typing this shyt out, let me go head and delete the number right now

 

[VertigoKnight]

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Tinder basically no longer allowing profiles without face pictures to use the app.

A lot of profiles getting hidden tomorrow lol

I can see the other Match groups apps following suit very soon.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Tinder basically no longer allowing profiles without face pictures to use the app.

A lot of profiles getting hidden tomorrow lol

I can see the other Match groups apps following suit very soon.

In 2024 there’s still “no profile picture” users?

That was a common theme back in the 2008-2014 POF/OkCupid days.

 

[Apollo Creed]

In 2024 there’s still “no profile picture” users?

That was a common theme back in the 2008-2014 POF/OkCupid days.

tinder flooded with bots. They need to make the Verfification a requirement but I believe the folks making bots have found ways around it,

 

[Canon]

Big facts. Also in my experience a lot of older chicks (28-40) like to play the “you do all the pursuing and initiating” while they sit back and do nothing. Even single moms behave like this haha. I also noticed a correlation that chicks that behave like this also think they don’t have to compete to get a man.

I’ve bushed so many chicks the last 2 years because I was doing all the pursuing. Matter of fact, I’m bushing a chick right now that I’ve gone out with twice and she hasn’t initiated another meet up. And this was a shorty that gave HEAVY vibes of interest.

this is instant bushes status

 

[Stir Fry]

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

this girl can't meet up till wednesday and we already been talking all week. A. I don't even feel like investing time until we meet B. I don't even know what to talk about through text until Wednesday.

What's the play? Send one message a day everyday? Not sure where the convo should go.

 

[re'up]

this girl can't meet up till wednesday and we already been talking all week. A. I don't even feel like investing time until we meet B. I don't even know what to talk about through text until Wednesday.

What's the play? Send one message a day everyday? Not sure where the convo should go.

haha yeah. had someone cancel on me over this around 2018, she was younger and I didn't text her for like 4 days until our date, and then texted to confirm and she canceled and said why did we stop texting?

and I said: I made the plan, my word is good and that's it.

a lot of it is options. if this person keeps me engaged, I will reward him with going out. because a lot of app based is low effort by definition. it's just texting. a lot of it is anxiety for all of us in this new era. Did you read my text? Did you laugh at my text? Did you like my text? Did you text back? Did you text me good morning?

you can even see it here: on my way, looking for parking, running late, walking in

just fukking show up. but that's not how anyone does it anymore.

for you, I would just say, lets meet Wednesday and I'lll check back Tuesday to confirm. Just tell her in advance what you are going to do.

 

[Ohene]

this girl can't meet up till wednesday and we already been talking all week. A. I don't even feel like investing time until we meet B. I don't even know what to talk about through text until Wednesday.

What's the play? Send one message a day everyday? Not sure where the convo should go.

it's 6 days. just call her or hit her up Friday and ask her how the rest of her week was and what she up to for the wknd
then hit her up on Monday to ask how her weekend was following up on what she said friday.
Wednesday morning message her to confirm the plans for the night

why are grown men overthinking what to say to women? whether or not yall actually link Wednesday wont have anything to do with you - itll be based strictly on how she feeling lol so theres no need to beat yourself up or overthink iit in my opinion

 

[Ohene]

for you, I would just say, lets meet Wednesday and I'lll check back Tuesday to confirm. Just tell her in advance what you are going to do.

I've done that before as well. this is the right answer