Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

And you can bet she will act different. One must dispel the myth that these women are only like this because of the western society. Figment. This shyt is more biological than it is a matter of the environment. Because you bet your ass that you can watch a Nigerian movie and see some of the most ratchet story lines too. Not even in the richest settings but also the villages.

I remember being a young idiot probably about 16 talking about worst comes to worst if I am rich or bytches are goldigging/acting like rachets then I will go back to my parents home land (Ghana) and find a girl that will appreciate what I can do for them. My nikka was an immigrant from Ghana who came maybe when he was 15 and said, "Man, you go back and try and pull that shyt. The girl will come to Canada and divorce you for all your money"

I couldnt help but laugh. My dude has stories for days about what goes on out there with women.

 

[NY's #1 Draft Pick]

Brehs thanks for all the knowledge. It took me about a month to go through this whole thing but I got it done. Shout out to the homie reincarnation also sharp and kev . Makin dudes look at this in a whole different light. Keep up the good work brehs we eating good in the coli!

 

[yeahisaidit]

It's crazy how the informative items in this thread can also be applied to ladies (like myself). I find myself to alot of this!!

Good shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

been knew this. marriage as its constructed today is completely pointless. The only reason a guy will do it is because he fears dying alone. 100% of men wouldnt get married if the girl didnt care to. Fact. I really never understood why gays want the right. I think they only want it just because they dont have it.

With me wanting to become an investment banking associate for at least a portion of my career...and possibly a managing director for an investment bank i have come to grips with the fact that I will be hard pressed to marry a bytch and start a family until my career settles down or if I choose a different path.

My only thing is that I dont want these hussies tryna shine on the kid once I've made it...i'd prefer to have a girl that I can grow with from the bottom to the top but in such lines of work...its just unrealistic. If I was working 80-100 hour a week grinds you know a divorce or infidelity would ensue. Why even put yourself through the bullshyt fukk marriage. Unless my girl were to give me an ultimatum, bags packed, luggage in the whip, perhaps our kid in the backseat and everything i wouldnt even consider it. THe thing about us men is that we dont have to rush into these things. We can very well be 40 years old, and breed a 25 year old up and comer that idolizes you. Once these girls hit 35 though...its damn near over for them.

thats the thing esp if your working 80-100 hours a week you can already here it now

"you have no time for me and the kids"

"all you do is work"

while she enjoys the 3000 sq foot house and lexus suv

she gets bored and then cheats with the gardener or something and then you paying half and alimony and child support

 

[The Message]

Once these girls hit 25 though...its damn near over for them.

fixed

 

[MikelArteta]

i honestly don't think women realize how fast time flies and how short their shelf life is.

one day there 22 out clubbing messing with bad boys etc. the next they are 28 alone and desperate for any guy to committ

metabolism starts slowing, wrinkles come in, face ages, saggy boobs and saggy butt, girls turning 18 every single day, eggs are dissappearing

 

[Sharp]

i honestly don't think women realize how fast time flies and how short their shelf life is.

one day there 22 out clubbing messing with bad boys etc. the next they are 28 alone and desperate for any guy to committ

metabolism starts slowing, wrinkles come in, face ages, saggy boobs and saggy butt, girls turning 18 every single day, eggs are dissappearing

Women are like cars in the sense that newer models come out every year. So every year a woman's worth decreases in terms of men coveting her.

Their best years are between the ages of 20-30, and then they fall off. The 35 year old in the club can't compete with the 22 year old. The 35 year old shouldn't even be in the club. Who buys a used car when they can afford a new one?

For us men, the older we get, the more valuable we become. We become established.... So our selection of women becomes larger, while their selection of men becomes smaller. These women become desperate over time and discount themselves in order to grasp a potential buyer.

So never stress over a girl because there is certain to be a newer model coming out. And the older you get, the more access you have to everything in the lot... there's nothing out of your price range.

I hope I didn't lose you guys in the analogies

 

[The Message]

Rein & Sharp.....HEAT

On the real side at 18....I wasnt about shyt. lol I had no whip, no job, freshman in college, no doe, I couldnt punch my way outta wet paper bag. I'm young and running around putting my dicc in any warm, moist vagina willing. haha Most guys at 18 are in the same position.

Now an 18 year old female....new drop top, cherry red convertible, fresh off the lot with NO MILEAGE. Everybody wants her. Just look at that chick, Kate Upton, she's only 20. No baggage, bubbly as hell. Dudes are willing to trick off their whole paycheck just to smell the cooch. The problem is most ladies spend their 20s gettin burnt out by partying, smoking, hoeing, having kids, etc that when 27 comes, they realize their shelf life is diminishing to get married and or have kids. They start cramming for the test hard. lol They marry some lame nikka just to say she's married and end up divorced just a few years later.

Now she's 36 and on match.com....beauty fading, 2 kids, gained a bit of weight, bitter attitude. The dichotomy is now she's at her sexual peak, but in terms of the dating pool, she's on the low end of the totem pole.

All the while, a man, at 41 - wise, confident, looks are in tact, paper'ed up is

 

[Sharp]

Another thing... I don't waste my time spitting game to females or thinking of lines to feed them.

I simply go over to them and start a conversation. But before I even do that, I make sure that there is eye contact, so that she can anticipate me coming over. I always try to be concise. When a woman is feeling you, she will indeed acknowledge every word that you say. Learn to be aggressive without being controlling. Remember, you got 15 minutes from the point of her catching your eye (not you meeting her) to get her. After those 15 minutes, she will know if she's going to give you some play and eventually fukk you. If you stall or waste a lot of time, you come off looking like you're not confident to her. You can turn a woman off without even saying a word.

Instead of asking for her number, say "it's about that time that you give me your phone number".

Instead of asking a chick would she like to dance, grab her hand and tell her "let's dance"

Instead of asking a chick out on a date, tell her "I'm taking you out on Saturday"

Never ask a chick what would she like to do. Just set something up... her focus should be you. You should be the reason she's out on this date, not some restaurant or event.

You give a woman too many options and she's gonna chose another man.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women are like cars in the sense that newer models come out every year. So every year a woman's worth decreases in terms of men coveting her.

Their best years are between the ages of 20-30, and then they fall off. The 35 year old in the club can't compete with the 22 year old. The 35 year old shouldn't even be in the club. Who buys a used car when they can afford a new one?

For us men, the older we get, the more valuable we become. We become established.... So our selection of women becomes larger, while their selection of men becomes smaller. These women become desperate over time and discount themselves in order to grasp a potential buyer.

So never stress over a girl because there is certain to be a newer model coming out. And the older you get, the more access you have to everything in the lot... there's nothing out of your price range.

I hope I didn't lose you guys in the analogies

yep

one of the blogs i visit

I often quote Fred Sanford from that old sitcom: "There ain't nothin' uglier than an old white woman".

Memorize that comment. Internalize it. Women do NOT age gracefully. I was looking at the pictures of the contestants in the Miss World contest this morning. Yes, they are stunning. No, they won't look like that in ten years. Not even close. As Esther Vilar stated, a woman is an UGLY CREATURE. This is true. Youth gives her a fleeting allure; a temporary beauty that entices foolish men. It's just a mask.

another gem

A woman is a predatory beast with only one purpose: survive at ANY cost to anyone else. A woman is a parasite, and will feed off her host and destroy him in the process. She will feel no remorse, no pity and no compassion. When you are used up, she will move on to her next host victim, just like a flea or a mosquito or a bedbug.

 

[Ohene]

Another thing... I don't waste my time spitting game to females or thinking of lines to feed them.

I simply go over to them and start a conversation. But before I even do that, I make sure that there is eye contact, so that she can anticipate me coming over. I always try to be concise. When a woman is feeling you, she will indeed acknowledge every word that you say. Learn to be aggressive without being controlling. Remember, you got 15 minutes from the point of her catching your eye (not you meeting her) to get her. After those 15 minutes, she will know if she's going to give you some play and eventually fukk you. If you stall or waste a lot of time, you come off looking like you're not confident to her. You can turn a woman off without even saying a word.

Instead of asking for her number, say "it's about that time that you give me your phone number".

Instead of asking a chick would she like to dance, grab her hand and tell her "let's dance"

Instead of asking a chick out on a date, tell her "I'm taking you out on Saturday"

Never ask a chick what would she like to do. Just set something up... her focus should be you. You should be the reason she's out on this date, not some restaurant or event.

You give a woman too many options and she's gonna chose another man.

Same gp i use.

Thats why I never ever force it.

If I am not comfortable in the situation...or some shyt happens that delays me from being able to speak to the girl. I chalk it up and keep moving.

If a girl sees you standing there for 10 minutes doing nothing...maybe tryna act like youre looking at your phone / play it cool. Then all of a sudden you approach her...immediately shell probably think that during those 10 minutes you were thinking of something to say. At that point you either better be a dime, chris brown ass nikka... or it will come off as forced/rehearsed.

 

[The Message]

And to you young cats thinking that they dont need no game or dealing with women isnt that important. Soak up this shyt - thoroughly. I wish I had something like this when I was younger. My dad always dropped jewels about the game but I wasnt old enough to understand. Maybe I would have grasped it if it came from my peers. there's a lot of advice here. Dont take it lightly. I know a lot of cats in who have been killed, beat up, locked up, paychecks garnished over frivilous mishandlings with women.

With all that being said, still this doesnt have anything on getting out in the field and applying it in REAL time. You gotta get out there and fail sometimes. For you football heads....As a rookie QB, you can study film and know the playbook inside and out but when that playclock is dwindling down, heart's racing, then the play BREAKS DOWN and Ray Lewis coming at you full speed ready to knock your your head off, that playbook doesnt matter that much. Nothing beats experience.

Dont ever think you're too good enough to learn something. Stay learning, not just with women, just about life period. Your brain is a muscle, use it or stay

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup I always thought I knew more than others. It's always when you think you do is when you get buentz


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[Steezy]

 

[MikelArteta]

If your dating a girl 18-23 it won't last no matter how great you think you have it. Just have fun don't get emotionally attached.


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