Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I definitely don't have those problems out here dating. I don't sit around and cry like you and the other brehs in here dating outta fear. I give brehs game to build their self confidence up and you peddling fear worried about what a woman might do. If you were as solid as you thought you were you wouldn't even be thinking like that. Got your chic on lockdown because you scared someone might scoop if she's outta sight for a weekend.That's why you sound goofy lol. But hey keep doing you I'm sure being a part of the he-man-woman hating club is working out well for you. LolYou are seeking a fantasy thst doesnt exist. You are saying touch grass in a thread almost 7k pages of nikkas crying.
You know what do what you want see you in a few months crying like the rest of the nikkas who refuse to adapt to reality and come back crying when their feelings get hurt for the 100th time.
You nikkas legit hate yourselves signing up to be crash dummies to marketing campaigns.
Late reply but I just saw this
This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.
They really think that as a man, you should find pleasure and enjoyment in just pleasing a woman
And then people in the comments are like "oh, you can't buy interest"
Like no shyt, that's the point
Going all out doesn't guarantee she'll like you
That's why it's pointless to do it
But these narcs think that you should still do it just because they enjoy it.
We're supposed to gain satisfaction just being in the presence of a woman because she's worth going all out for
If we expect anything we're entitled
Meanwhile they would find it unfathomable to do that to impress a man
And that brings me to my next point:
Women be wondering why men "aren't obsessed with them anymore" or why men aren't romantic anymore
Well because the jig is up
We know that if a woman fukks with you, you don't have to do that shyt in the first place
Hell, some women will think you're either desperate, or manipulative (love bombing) if you act all romantic
Hell, and we know that a lot of women are truly interested in men that don't even give a shyt about them like that. That are indifferent. Whether its some regular dude that is simply indifferent, some bummy dude, or some "high status" dude that doesn't put in any effort, etc.
I've gotten more interest from women when I didn't even try to date them. Sometimes when I've acted like an a$$hole (calling them hoes) they would get in their feelings and then start flirting with me the next day
So there's no point in being romantic for a woman you aren't already in a serious relationship with yet.
Why treat her like she's special, when she's clearly not given how she probably likes men that don't think much of her?
a bytch especially nowadays doesn't want a man that puts her on a pedestal but it makes him look worthless and disposable. How you gonna be a man, with all that power, strength, money, leadership, and then put a woman on a pedestal just because she's pretty?
Espeically when the jig is up?
( I don't endorse redpill, I hate the extreme they say. But some of the women that criticize it don't hate it only because of sexism - they hate what it exposes about what some women do
)
Well because the jig is up
We know that if a woman fukks with you, you don't have to do that shyt in the first place
Hell, some women will think you're either desperate, or manipulative (love bombing) if you act all romantic
Hell, and we know that a lot of women are truly interested in men that don't even give a shyt about them like that. That are indifferent. Whether its some regular dude that is simply indifferent, some bummy dude, or some "high status" dude that doesn't put in any effort, etc.
I've gotten more interest from women when I didn't even try to date them. Sometimes when I've acted like an a$$hole (calling them hoes) they would get in their feelings and then start flirting with me the next day
So there's no point in being romantic for a woman you aren't already in a serious relationship with yet.
Why treat her like she's special, when she's clearly not given how she probably likes men that don't think much of her?
a bytch especially nowadays doesn't want a man that puts her on a pedestal but it makes him look worthless and disposable. How you gonna be a man, with all that power, strength, money, leadership, and then put a woman on a pedestal just because she's pretty?
Espeically when the jig is up?
( I don't endorse redpill, I hate the extreme they say. But some of the women that criticize it don't hate it only because of sexism - they hate what it exposes about what some women do
)
When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits
- Impulsive
- Irresponsible
- Manipulative
- Deceitful
- Reckless
- Does not care about other people's feelings
- Unable to control anger
- Lack Guilt
- Do not learn from their mistakes
- Blame others for the problems in their lives
But what does dominant culture say about ASD?
What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.
Should I even say celebrated?
Collins Dictionary names 'brat' word of the year for 2024
Lime green is still the shade of the season.
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They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.
When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits
Who does that sound like?
- Impulsive
- Irresponsible
- Manipulative
- Deceitful
- Reckless
- Does not care about other people's feelings
- Unable to control anger
- Lack Guilt
- Do not learn from their mistakes
- Blame others for the problems in their lives
But what does dominant culture say about ASD?
What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.
Should I even say celebrated?
Collins Dictionary names 'brat' word of the year for 2024
Lime green is still the shade of the season.
They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.
- Being indecisive ("I don't know what to eat"/"what I want")
- Being physically weak
- Being short
- Never apologizing
- Being emotionally sensitive
- Being dumb
When women have these traits, it is considered cute
When men have these traits, they're a liability
If a woman is broke, well she can date a man with money
If a man is broke, he's worthless and should get a job
All the more reason why no man should treat a random woman like she's inherently special
And it's why women themselves prefer men that don't do that
When you do that, you're calling yourself inherently worthless as a man
When you pedastalize someone who is allowed to be an incompetent "brat"
What does that say about your worth as a man? That everything you do means nothing since that woman doesn't have to do anything
As a man, find a woman that will be under your wing and birth your kids.
Women online get mad about stuff like this but most women in real life if they had the opportunity to, would be under the wing of a man they respect anyway
You're coping. Another nikka thsts food. Saying I'm crying when I prob the only nikka roasting you all for repeated stupidity.
yupLate reply but I just saw this
This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.
They really think that as a man, you should find pleasure and enjoyment in just pleasing a woman
And then people in the comments are like "oh, you can't buy interest"
Like no shyt, that's the point
Going all out doesn't guarantee she'll like you
That's why it's pointless to do it
But these narcs think that you should still do it just because they enjoy it.
We're supposed to gain satisfaction just being in the presence of a woman because she's worth going all out for
If we expect anything we're entitled
Meanwhile they would find it unfathomable to do that to impress a man
And that brings me to my next point:
Its a shame breh. It wasnt always like this either. Back then the formula was pretty straight forward (7-10 years ago for me). Pre-covid lets say if I met a woman, i could expect her to respond to my texts, expect her to be down to go out and do whatever, and expect her to be receptive to future plans/coming over if the date went well objectively. The cause and effect had a strong relationship.
Now it just be mad random and theres no rhyme or reason to why a girl does or doesnt like you; no rules to engagement. You can get a girls number only for her to ignore you / take long as hell to respond. You can invite her out and she asking you all the questions tryna se if its worth it. You can even go out have a great time and she will turn around and act weird/continue the cat and mouse shyt; showing no appreciation and acting entitled.
The jig is up. Why waste your time, money and energy, Dudes are choosing to strictly deal with women who show keen interest from the get and not tryna impress anyone
Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
I haven't before but one of my boys suggested it, maybe I will now.
Appreciate the honesty bro but you're right that if she wanted to cheat she would. I don't think she is like that so I'll trust her more.
I hear you breh her friends seem decent for the most part so I'll let it go and trust her. I guess the issue is with me is i have trust issues period but you can't be that way in a relationship. I also didn't grow up around women who did the whole girls trip thing unless they were single or going on church retreats.Depends on who her friends are and how they are is one thing
Where are they going is another question
I’ve let my wife do it twice but it was for a concert so she was gone like 2 or 3 days
I don’t dwell on the cheating aspect because if a woman gonna cheat she will no matter what and where it happens wont matter either
So I mean I can see why not let her and I can see why you wouldn’t
Everyone has different perspective on it I don’t think either is wrong it’s more situational and how your relationship is with her
But for me I don’t have an issue I trust her and I know her friends decently enough
Plus if she wanna play stupid games and do it get severe consequences so she knows how i roll
She bothers me more when she went twice on them talking bout missing me and seeing all the couples and shyt made her sad told her oh well enjoy yourself I am at home
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RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
My situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)
dont settle for nothin less. go in for the kill this time if you havent alreadyMy situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
I think it's also clear that you need decide what your comfort level is. Most men and women who are reasonably good looking, if they are going out with friends, they are going to interact with the opposite sex on some level. I've known women that detailed every interaction with men to me, after a night like that, like a federal investigation briefing lol and I didn't ask, and I don't really care that much. I think people are entitled to their own private inner lives, and secrets.
this is a little deeper, but lounges, nightclubs, bars, are on some level selling a fantasy, right? So, when married women/men, committed relationships go to those places, they are engaging in fantasy to some degree, it's about how much.
Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
My situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)
Lol that's whats up glad it's been going well so far. Enjoy yourself breh and I wish y'all well.
lol sounds like youre damned if you do or dont then. catch 22
because we all know that women will test you. sanctioning frequent girl trips past marriage is a bit much but like you said you dont wanna control them and seem insecure. at the same time you gotta be assertive and set boundaries. the plight of men