Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2025 I’m going back to my ex’s not because I miss them like that but for familiarity and out of habit. Chasing new vag constantly is taking a toll on me

= I have limited game so let me go back to what I'm comfortable and familiar with because me being tested and/or flaked on isn't worth the hassle of trying to get some pums

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It sounds weak. A man shouldn't even feel right saying "chasing new cat constantly is taking a toll on me" because if you're a true player you have the yarn n you control the cats..... "What am I doing wrong why the process of attracting new women seems to be overbearing?" Is it the woman I'm entertaining, is it my approach, where is the disconnect in getting what I want?
 

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= I have limited game so let me go back to what I'm comfortable and familiar with because me being tested and/or flaked on isn't worth the hassle of trying to get some pums

:yeshrug:

It sounds weak. A man shouldn't even feel right saying "chasing new cat constantly is taking a toll on me" because if you're a true player you have the yarn n you control the cats..... "What am I doing wrong why the process of attracting new women seems to be overbearing?" Is it the woman I'm entertaining, is it my approach, where is the disconnect in getting what I want?
I haven’t took a L w women in a minute. I smashed like 6 different girls this year 15 the year before it just gets tiring to go out and hunt and then the sex don’t even be all that or her sħit stinks up the whole room I’ve dealt with that too many times. I have a large body count, I’m not proud of that and I don’t want to be one of those triple digit body count but I could get there easily by 2025 at what point does one settle down after all that
 

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I haven’t took a L w women in a minute. I smashed like 6 different girls this year 15 the year before it just gets tiring to go out and hunt and then the sex don’t even be all that or her sħit stinks up the whole room I’ve dealt with that too many times. I have a large body count, I’m not proud of that and I don’t want to be one of those triple digit body count but I could get there easily by 2025 at what point does one settle down after all that
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I haven’t took a L w women in a minute. I smashed like 6 different girls this year 15 the year before it just gets tiring to go out and hunt and then the sex don’t even be all that or her sħit stinks up the whole room I’ve dealt with that too many times. I have a large body count, I’m not proud of that and I don’t want to be one of those triple digit body count but I could get there easily by 2025 at what point does one settle down after all that
What you tryna say breh? I take that personal lol but nah I get your point. After awhile it does get old but being with one women gets old too. I think most men always gonna chase new p*ssy but do it much slower overtime. After awhile it's the same bullshyt though, with some flaking or going ghost, the no accountability, the drama and even the act of getting to know someone new from scratch which can be awkward at first. Some of these women have no social skills and some don't even respect men which makes it worse. You can find some good ones but a lot of trash is out there.
 
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I haven’t took a L w women in a minute. I smashed like 6 different girls this year 15 the year before it just gets tiring to go out and hunt and then the sex don’t even be all that or her sħit stinks up the whole room I’ve dealt with that too many times. I have a large body count, I’m not proud of that and I don’t want to be one of those triple digit body count but I could get there easily by 2025 at what point does one settle down after all that
That’s how I end up settling down cuz game wasn’t it got tiring just wanted to have 1 woman to focus on and fitted what i wanted in life and in a relationship
Some people they don’t mind doing all that and don’t get tired others don’t
 

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I think there has long been cultural narrative there that your 20's are for being "wild" or whatever, and then 'settling down' around 30, and there's some social consequences and labeling that are leveled at men and women for out staying their welcome/age, and some framing of marriage being the ultimate version of "growing up", the ultimate goal in every relationship.

But as the world changes, these things kind of shift. What we see now is marriage happens later, kids move out later, marriages fail at a higher rate, home prices are a lot higher, child costs are a lot higher, but you still have those social consequences, and narrative, that enforces those norms.

on an emotional level, I can't believe that some people actually have marriage as a goal, instead of one outcome of multiple.
 
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I work in a corporate office for Nurse/PCA etc.. their is this PCA who came by the office for training so like normal I do but we instantly caught a chill vibe this was like a month ago :ehh: She calls my direct extension at my job at times when she needs help with anything work related:ehh:
Today she came by the office and we chatted a bit when she needed help with something else…. I really fukk with her but I don’t know how to approach her because she doesn’t come to the office often… she comes randomly :francis::francis:.. I work at corporate so I have access of her contact info but that would not be smart… How would ya go about this?
 
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