Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

There's a woman in my neighborhood, she's attractive, in shape, older than me, have her number. In my head, we live across the street, we could be sleeping together once or twice a week, maybe go out here and there....or that's my plan. But on the dog subject, she has this good size dog, that she's always with. Sometimes I think we would have already been there if she wasn't with the dog, it dictates so much of their actions. ...do we have to shut him in the room, are you going to have to take him out in the middle lol

Not even a disrespectful way like oh you're alone with a dog, but just like how does this work? Of course I have grown up with pets and I get it, but I never realized people were so attached. Like they put the pet first. What I notice is they end up seeing guys with dogs and they do like that weird family thing. I saw this couple with like 5 dogs in my neighborhood the other day.

Lol, I think the dog can survive at her place the few hours yall are hooking up.

Don’t over think this

 

[Ohene]

It's not THAt serious, it's more me fukking around. The two things just don't go together for to me...it's the child-like effect I think.

it's one step below

ive said it numerous times but single women with dogs tend to be flakes. subconsciously if you resort to getting a dog you have essentially given up on finding a boyfriend/girlfriend. so she might have a slight interest in a dude but going out with him requires a dog sitter, rushing back home to walk the dog and all kinds of other shyt. furthermore they just put so much effort into taking care of the dog that it is basically their child and they have limited time outside of work for other shyt

on the flipside, it could be because of my approach. fukkboys probably have a lot more success with dog owners than somebody like me who comes off as more serious

 

[The ADD]

it's one step below

ive said it numerous times but single women with dogs tend to be flakes. subconsciously if you resort to getting a dog you have essentially given up on finding a boyfriend/girlfriend. so she might have a slight interest in a dude but going out with him requires a dog sitter, rushing back home to walk the dog and all kinds of other shyt. furthermore they just put so much effort into taking care of the dog that it is basically their child and they have limited time outside of work for other shyt

on the flipside, it could be because of my approach. fukkboys probably have a lot more success with dog owners than somebody like me who comes off as more serious

Yall are a little off base. People go to work and leaave dogs at him for an eight hour shift everyday. The chick and the dog can manage a date if she wants

 

[Ohene]

Yall are a little off base. People go to work and leaave dogs at him for an eight hour shift everyday. The chick and the dog can manage a date if she wants

fair enough. a lot of people also use dogwalkers and day cares though. why would those businesses exist if ppl didnt prioritize or care so much about their dogs well-being

for instance Rover is a multibillion $ business owned by Blackstone. i have literally been on a date before and had a chick mention she needs to go home and walk her dog. tryna remember who it was and if the date was going poorly lol

 

[The ADD]

fair enough. a lot of people also use dogwalkers and day cares though. why would those businesses exist if ppl didnt prioritize or care so much about their dogs well-being

for instance Rover is a multibillion $ business owned by Blackstone. i have literally been on a date before and had a chick mention she needs to go home and walk her dog. tryna remember who it was and if the date was going poorly lol

Well there are levels. For me example they may have shift that overlaps when the dogs need to be walked and/or they have the $ get the dog extra recreation. Basically the same thing with day cares.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not a dog person by any means but I have sat occasionally for friends. Most of the time they take the dog out in the AM and I can show up to take them out and feed them later that night.

It’s not some great leap to manage by default. Are people super invested and hard to pry away? Sure but a chick isn’t likely robbed a sitter because you want to see a movie.

Come on guise.

 

[Ohene]

Well there are levels. For me example they may have shift that overlaps when the dogs need to be walked and/or they have the $ get the dog extra recreation. Basically the same thing with day cares.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not a dog person by any means but I have sat occasionally for friends. Most of the time they take the dog out in the AM and I can show up to take them out and feed them later that night.

It’s not some great leap to manage by default. Are people super invested and hard to pry away? Sure but a chick isn’t likely robbed a sitter because you want to see a movie.

Come on guise.

i hear you ...all that makes LOGICAL sense.

The one thing youre missing is the under the surface though. Key word i mentioned was that "subconciously" a lot of these women have kinda given up. The question is then why? Probably due to being jaded or disappointed by relationships to an extreme point. They will go out on a date with you. They may chat with you...but when it comes to fukkin or forming a real connection/relationship shyt just goes awry. I have experienced it a number of times.

I knew one therapist chick who i friendzoned because she gained too much weight. At some point she rescued a dog briefly until it found a rightful owner. We ran into each other and she told me how having a dog its like she doesnt even wanna link up with her friends / date anymore. This is from her mouth directly. That being said a couple yrs later (months ago) i think i saw her and another dude walking together with a dog lol. So its possible, but its a high hurdle that I dont care to jump over these days

 

[The ADD]

i hear you ...all that makes LOGICAL sense.

The one thing youre missing is the under the surface though. Key word i mentioned was that "subconciously" a lot of these women have kinda given up. The question is then why? Probably due to being jaded or disappointed by relationships to an extreme point. They will go out on a date with you. They may chat with you...but when it comes to fukkin or forming a real connection/relationship shyt just goes awry. I have experienced it a number of times.

I knew one therapist chick who i friendzoned because she gained too much weight. At some point she rescued a dog briefly until it found a rightful owner. We ran into each other and she told me how having a dog its like she doesnt even wanna link up with her friends / date anymore. This is from her mouth directly. That being said a couple yrs later (months ago) i think i saw her and another dude walking together with a dog lol. So its possible, but its a high hurdle that I dont care to jump over these days

Yeah but we have to keep the main thing the main thing. If you don’t want to date a woman because you don’t want some of the tangible and intangible things that come with her having a pet then yeah I get that and when I was in the game it wasn’t high on the list.

At the same time……..we all know that if she’s interested that dog situation will handle itself. Point being let’s not make narratives to not purse a win that’s aren’t really in play. Especially for a casual situation.

That all.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Idc anymore I just want her back by any means

Spoiler: Clown nikka

 

[The ADD]

Spoiler: Clown nikka

 

[WIA20XX]

Lol, I think the dog can survive at her place the few hours yall are hooking up.

Don’t over think this

Smashing a chick with a dog is letting the enemy win.

Say no to women with children AND surrogate children.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

clown nikka got learn

 

[The ADD]

Smashing a chick with a dog is letting the enemy win.

Say no to women with children AND surrogate children.

Very well

 

[Apollo Creed]

it's one step below

ive said it numerous times but single women with dogs tend to be flakes. subconsciously if you resort to getting a dog you have essentially given up on finding a boyfriend/girlfriend. so she might have a slight interest in a dude but going out with him requires a dog sitter, rushing back home to walk the dog and all kinds of other shyt. furthermore they just put so much effort into taking care of the dog that it is basically their child and they have limited time outside of work for other shyt

on the flipside, it could be because of my approach. fukkboys probably have a lot more success with dog owners than somebody like me who comes off as more serious

I think your issue is you are looking for a relationship or blurring the lines.

To your point (I have echoed it to), women with dogs/cats have "given up" thus that means keep it casual and don't get close enough where her issues (because there is likely loads of it) become a burden for you.

That said if I hate animals even though every chick I been around with a pet had pets that "liked me" but I get fly and lotta animals leave fur and shyt on your clothes on top of the mental issues as mentioned that tend to come with the pet stuff. So you damn near gotta have a separate wardrobe for when you kicking it at her place.

 

[Ohene]

I think your issue is you are looking for a relationship or blurring the lines.

To your point (I have echoed it to), women with dogs/cats have "given up" thus that means keep it casual and don't get close enough where her issues (because there is likely loads of it) become a burden for you.

That said if I hate animals even though every chick I been around with a pet had pets that "liked me" but I get fly and lotta animals leave fur and shyt on your clothes on top of the mental issues as mentioned that tend to come with the pet stuff. So you damn near gotta have a separate wardrobe for when you kicking it at her place.

thats another thing
i hate going to a bytch house and her stinky dog jumping on me, licking me and shyt
i dont know how ppl do it

 

[Ohene]

this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table