Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I want to smash my younger co-worker, but I don't want things to go awkward because we are cool with each other.

I could care less about the job by the way

Somebody talk me out this foolishness :wow:

I have a saying I tell my friends. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Sometimes knowing you can knock down a woman is good enough.
 

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i finally booked a flight to South Africa. Other than Japan its been my most sought after vacation destination
You won't be disappointed...place is :banderas:

I want to smash my younger co-worker, but I don't want things to go awkward because we are cool with each other.

I could care less about the job by the way

Somebody talk me out this foolishness :wow:

Breh! I'm in this same position as you. This young Chinese chick in my department is feeling me haaaard. I know if I invite her for drinks at my main spot in SF it's a wrap but dawg, I'm the only black man in my broader team. I'm not about to mess up my tech job for some Chinese cheeks.

Now if she were on a different floor and different team, that's a different thing. But she legit sits like 12 feet from me. If anything goes south it's gonna be a mess.

I have a saying I tell my friends. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Sometimes knowing you can knock down a woman is good enough.

I be trying to live by these same words.
 

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Breh! I'm in this same position as you. This young Chinese chick in my department is feeling me haaaard. I know if I invite her for drinks at my main spot in SF it's a wrap but dawg, I'm the only black man in my broader team. I'm not about to mess up my tech job for some Chinese cheeks.

Now if she were on a different floor and different team, that's a different thing. But she legit sits like 12 feet from me. If anything goes south it's gonna be a mess.
What's the age gap
 

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That's not bad at all. That's actually the perfect age range

For regular dating, definitely, but I'm really only into black women. They're not that many out in the Bay compared to the DMV but I don't see myself going for white or asian chicks.

This coworker would be more so just a fling thing and it's more so because I can tell she's feeling me a lot. I know other people mess around at work but I'm black, they're not. Different set of rules.

We actually got a team HH tomorrow. I may "feel" her out and see where her head is at...if I did want to link with her after work, gotta do it in a way where there's some plausible deniability.
 

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For regular dating, definitely, but I'm really only into black women. They're not that many out in the Bay compared to the DMV but I don't see myself going for white or asian chicks.

This coworker would be more so just a fling thing and it's more so because I can tell she's feeling me a lot. I know other people mess around at work but I'm black, they're not. Different set of rules.

We actually got a team HH tomorrow. I may "feel" her out and see where her head is at...if I did want to link with her after work, gotta do it in a way where there's some plausible deniability.
Sometimes you have to say fukk it and have fun
 

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Sometimes you have to say fukk it and have fun

My G, I feel you but fun to me is being employed and having the ability to take a trip to the UK to see my friends and family and watch a Manchester United game.

This Chinese girl is cute but it's not like she's a 10/10. It's one of those situations of proximity, similar to Clinton and Lewinsky.
 

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My G, I feel you but fun to me is being employed and having the ability to take a trip to the UK to see my friends and family and watch a Manchester United game.

This Chinese girl is cute but it's not like she's a 10/10. It's one of those situations of proximity, similar to Clinton and Lewinsky.
Makes sense gotcha
 

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you can get mad when a bytch ghosts you or stops responding but then you remember that's what bytches do. that's what separates women from men even tho some men are bytches too :russ:
Trick is to get her to want to be around you, then ghost her back for months on end while you talk to someone else
 

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the problem is bytches are retarded and the younger they are the more retarded. I just matched one her prompt said typical Sunday is cooking for my man. I said this is my love language then we matched. she wrote lol ok and I wrote what's your favorite thing to cook? she says I have a lot.

I already know what type of time she's on either shes dumb, playing games, or just matched to match. usually when they send answers like that it's one of those few scenarios or all 3.
Bro you come off creepy saying that's my love language with the cooking comment. Just start off with a basic convo and eventually bring up the cooking. You sound like a serial killer just bringing up her cooking for you off rip. You gotta let her want to cook for you breh to see if it's truly genuine or not
 
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