Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Obviously outrage and scandal over cheating and infidelity goes back forever, but there is a deranged quality to the way people talk about it now. It's like The Crucible. People have fukking lost it. Poring over data and pics, coming up with insane conspiracy theories for celebrities and people in their own lives.

My personal belief is almost everybody, like 3/4 of people would be happier, if we collectively just lowered the bar on monogamy, lowered the temperature on it. Not end it, just relax it by like 30%. Like a deregulation.

Funny that has been my modus operandi when it comes to dating for solid decade now. But we're are built different. To be able to accept that way of thinking takes deep introspection, thinking, and examining social constructs. In essence you have to develop an understanding of one's ego. Most are petrified to do that self examination because it clashes with everything they have been taught or known their whole lives. Shaking those foundations would be extremely constructive for all, going even beyond dating, but just in life in general. But starting with idea of having to question all that you know and the dynamics of it will unsettle most. It is part of the idea from which all people function off of.... the notion of uncertainty and our constant attempts to "keep control"....

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

But..but...but....MY EGO

How will I ever come to grips with the fact that I am not the only person someone would want to fukk? I am a delicate unique snowflake and no one should even LOOK at another person let alone fukk them

You get it... as my comment above hints at.... I tried to sound all intellectual... you kept it gully....

 

[Apollo Creed]

I believe it and especially agree with the bold. This is what I always tell my boys when I/we travel but I can say these chicks seem more down to earth than Latin American women, Carribean women and Europeans. Canadian women always rave about American men for instance. I dont know what it is but women just love foreign men...shyt strange. Call it the grass is greener syndrome or whatever

With South Africa, one thing I can say though is it seems the men dont take them serious at all lol.

They assume because you dont know their culture you wont judge them and then being from the outside there is an actual “get to know you” buffer for convo that can kill time

 

[phcitywarrior]

I once asked a South African chick in Toronto why I rarely meet South Africans in the city and she said its "because we like our country."

Who built it though

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Who built it though

Sub-Saharan diaspora wars being instigated.....

 

[phcitywarrior]

Sub-Saharan diaspora wars being instigated.....

Nah. I’m just getting jokes off but objectively, SA is the most developed nation on the African continent with scale (Bots is too small population wise).

It would make sense as to why SAs see no need to leave. Same with Europeans not immigrating to the US unless it’s for specialized work eg tech, finance etc

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Nah. I’m just getting jokes off but objectively, SA is the most developed nation on the African continent with scale (Bots is too small population wise).

It would make sense as to why SAs see no need to leave. Same with Europeans not immigrating to the US unless it’s for specialized work eg tech, finance etc

Agree 100% with all you said..... I was just playing... but i forgot mentioning the word "diaspora" here cause couches and tables to thrown over....

 

[Byronml]

Always deactivate your hinge. Never delete in 2025.

Rookie move.

I just recreated mine yesterday after 3 months

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[Ohene]

Who built it though

 

[Astroslik]

It’s just simple mathematics
More women who are your type
More people that look like you etc




Meanwhile you go to black venues in Toronto and it’s 80 dudes and 15 women


Meanwhile in Nairobi you go to any establishment , almost every dude has a women lol ..

Nairobi is like shooting fish in the barrel. I’m here now. If my zulu main wasnt here i would be a straight menace in these streets.

Smashed a baddie within 48 hours of landing, had like 4 days of freetime before my main came smh

 

[Astroslik]

I spent over a month in SA, all i will say is dont go there thinking these women are “better” all women are the same. Overseas is like 10-20 yrs behind, all countries are headed to the same direction, the thing is when you are an “outsider” women tone done the delusion/vitriol. These chicks are good for dating but dont confuse it with marriage material, its a reason these chicks are single and dating you and getting smashed with no strings attached

Gotta get a young zulu chick from KZN or Port Elizabeth preferably (21-24).


Joburg women (outside if village) are basically for fun, the streets get them early.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Valentine’s Day plans cancelled. Glad I didn’t pay for anything yet. Was planning on doing that today.

Been getting to know this chick for like 1.5 months. The rational part of my mind was telling me that getting into a relationship would’ve been a bad idea. We were both compromising on key issues. She ended it last night. I’m glad I didn’t have to be the one to do it.

It’s for the best. But damn, the fun is over. She’s a cool person and a certified freak.

How much money did yall ignorant negroes spend on Valentine's day and weekend on woman described in the bolded. Breh freaked for her a short time and your ignorant self wined and dined her thinking she the love of your life.

Come on now lets tally that wasted money up.

 

[The ADD]

How much money did yall ignorant negroes spend on Valentine's day and weekend on woman described in the bolded. Breh freaked for her a short time and your ignorant self wined and dined her thinking she the love of your life.

Come on now lets tally that wasted money up.

 

[MikelArteta]

I spent over a month in SA, all i will say is dont go there thinking these women are “better” all women are the same. Overseas is like 10-20 yrs behind, all countries are headed to the same direction, the thing is when you are an “outsider” women tone done the delusion/vitriol. These chicks are good for dating but dont confuse it with marriage material, its a reason these chicks are single and dating you and getting smashed with no strings attached

the culture is vastly different. Marriage is still important, submitting to your man is still important. Yeah women are women but culture plays a vast part.