Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

the issue for some dudes is they don't get many matches so they try to make every one they do get like "this is the one". Apps should be a passive thing, so can't be afraid to cut out the weirdos in app rather than to waste time and energy in real life with a weirdo.

Covno shouldn't be you playing Q&A. If someone doesn't have the decency to literally just add "and how about you?" to the end of their response you are dealing with a legit weirdo.

So I say ok 1st time could be multi tasking but wanting to keep engaged, but after 2 times MAYBE 3 Max this is just who they are.

because even the whole "hey" - her "hey how are you?" - you, "I`m fine" - her is weird as shyt lol

This.

I still have em but swipe and possibly get a match once in a while. But for the most part, every girl hasn't sent an initial message or I have always started the convo and get no response.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This.

I still have em but swipe and possibly get a match once in a while. But for the most part, every girl hasn't sent an initial message or I have always started the convo and get no response.

Because im passive on apps i usually unmatch of a chick doesnt message me first. I only message first if chick actually conveys personality in prompts which unfortunately is rare or im traveling somewhere and time is limited.

 

[Brandsdale]

Because im passive on apps i usually unmatch of a chick doesnt message me first. I only message first if chick actually conveys personality in prompts which unfortunately is rare or im traveling somewhere and time is limited.

Yup

Lately I’ve unmatched if they take long to answer. No point to bother em lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup

Lately I’ve unmatched if they take long to answer. No point to bother em lol

Yeah, ive had women who respond reasonable time and engage in convo so im like ok if you dont like me that much or got bigger stuff going on dont let me get in your way and unmatch lol.

Dudes gotta kill that whole prove yourself bullshyt lol

 

[cyndaquil]

Yup

Lately I’ve unmatched if they take long to answer. No point to bother em lol

I've never saw the point in that. If you're just looking to fukk leaving the match still leaves the door open for them to comeback and message you. They don't limit the number of matches on these apps so you can just leave it. I've had it happen where a chick will be unresponsive initially then message you back and start showing interest. Lots of stuff can happen on their end. I usually just ignore the slow and unresponsive matches to focus on the ones who respond quickly. Keeping my ego out of it

 

[cyndaquil]

Yeah, ive had women who respond reasonable time and engage in convo so im like ok if you dont like me that much or got bigger stuff going on dont let me get in your way and unmatch lol.

Dudes gotta kill that whole prove yourself bullshyt lol

This too. There's a difference between showing interest and asking reasonable questions vs "I can take you to 5 star dinners and show you a trip to Tahiti, would you like that baby?"

 

[Brandsdale]

I've never saw the point in that. If you're just looking to fukk leaving the match still leaves the door open for them to comeback and message you. They don't limit the number of matches on these apps so you can just leave it. I've had it happen where a chick will be unresponsive initially then message you back and start showing interest. Lots of stuff can happen on their end. I usually just ignore the slow and unresponsive matches to focus on the ones who respond quickly. Keeping my ego out of it

meh doesnt really matter imo

rarely has a convo that is left open led to a chic coming back to message again. Theres times where I've left convos for months and chic never responded lol. I only look for p*ssy on apps at this point but regardless, when a chic is interested, they usually down to meet up same/next day. My success rate usually stems from where me and shorty get to meeting ASAP. Not fiddling in the app struggling to keep a basic convo. Lotta chics also just simply use the apps for boredom so having any logic doesn't really matter at this point lol.

I dunno tho I'm Canadian and it might be different down here in TO than other places. But yall gotta treat it like Marvel Rivals- A LOT of times, you will get matches where your teammates are dog shyt and coaching em does nothing but lead to arguments in-game. BUT when you get a solid match, best believe your teammates ain't fukkin around so you gotta be on your Ps and Qs. When you match a decent shorty that's interested, lock in. If you get suss hoes, cut it off and move on.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I've never saw the point in that. If you're just looking to fukk leaving the match still leaves the door open for them to comeback and message you. They don't limit the number of matches on these apps so you can just leave it. I've had it happen where a chick will be unresponsive initially then message you back and start showing interest. Lots of stuff can happen on their end. I usually just ignore the slow and unresponsive matches to focus on the ones who respond quickly. Keeping my ego out of it

hingd limits you now

 

[cyndaquil]

meh doesnt really matter imo

rarely has a convo that is left open led to a chic coming back to message again. Theres times where I've left convos for months and chic never responded lol. I only look for p*ssy on apps at this point but regardless, when a chic is interested, they usually down to meet up same/next day. My success rate usually stems from where me and shorty get to meeting ASAP. Not fiddling in the app struggling to keep a basic convo. Lotta chics also just simply use the apps for boredom so having any logic doesn't really matter at this point lol.

I dunno tho I'm Canadian and it might be different down here in TO than other places. But yall gotta treat it like Marvel Rivals- A LOT of times, you will get matches where your teammates are dog shyt and coaching em does nothing but lead to arguments in-game. BUT when you get a solid match, best believe your teammates ain't fukkin around so you gotta be on your Ps and Qs. When you match a decent shorty that's interested, lock in. If you get suss hoes, cut it off and move on.

Either way yeah I agree it kinda like finishing a meal and there's leftover food you could pick your plate clean or just dump it in the trash. It's not gonna make a bigk difference in how full you are. I don't have an emotional attachment to the these women or sny outcomes with them so either way so I'm just on my maximum efficiency steez
But my personality it like that anyways

 

[cyndaquil]

hingd limits you now

Only if you haven't sent a message. Your passive app strategy has a drawback on hinge in that it forces you to unmatch. Yes it cuts out the bs quickly but that is a drawback. That's exactly why it was implemented to stop all the choice fatigue from women who wouldn't say anything and go back swiping for new men and force them to engage in conversations so they can find a match.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Only if you haven't sent a message. Your passive app strategy has a drawback on hinge in that it forces you to unmatch. Yes it cuts out the bs quickly but that is a drawback. That's exactly why it was implemented to stop all the choice fatigue from women who wouldn't say anything and go back swiping for new men and force them to engage in conversations so they can find a match.

For me it isn't a drawback because apps are for layups imo. In general I like clearing out the clutter especially since these chicks make new accounts every so often so even after I unmatch she right back in my likes a few months later

 

[cyndaquil]

For me it isn't a drawback because apps are for layups imo. In general I like clearing out the clutter especially since these chicks make new accounts every so often so even after I unmatch she right back in my likes a few months later

I've seen that bs before. A chick i went on a few dates with last fall then bushed her cause she was not adhering to boundaries came clogging up my like queue the other day after I remade my shyt talking bout "I'm sorry can we still be friends "

Helll nah she has my number could've texted me months ago apologizing and asking that shyt. But yeah I feel you

 

[Apollo Creed]

I've seen that bs before. A chick i went on a few dates with last fall then bushed her cause she was not adhering to boundaries came clogging up my like queue the other day after I remade my shyt talking bout "I'm sorry can we still be friends "

Helll nah she has my number could've texted me months ago apologizing and asking that shyt. But yeah I feel you

Yeah I had a chick that I would always see on the apps with "new here" but she had those weirdo eyes that looked souless so never swiped on her lol. One time I finally do and we match and she one of them one word/closed response types so I umatch after 3/4 exchanges of her not asking shyt or building on the Convo.

Maybe month later she in my likes with a new profile

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Nah youd be surprised. Most women dont have hobbies, dont consume any media of substance, or anything. So there is the socially awkward thing and then not having shyt to talk about cause you dont have a life lol.

Social media brain

Tooo many women are socially awkward these days ..you say one joke ands it’s “ick”

 

[cyndaquil]

Social media brain

Tooo many women are socially awkward these days ..you say one joke ands it’s “ick”

sounds miserable