Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
It doesn't matter if she's a dime.
If she's not feeling you, don't waste your time.
If she's not feeling you, don't waste your time.
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Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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This is me too breh....He's a dog, and I'm a dog too because the apple doesn't fall far from the tree lol. Things have been different since I met my amazing long time GF, who's family loves me and my family and friends love her.
Every now and then I get these moments where i feel like a shark who smells blood in blood, especially when I'm around my type of women.
It's easy to control myself and not do her wrong but it's likebecause deep down I know I'm my dad's son; when I'm trying not to be.
with a chick now that is the complete opposite of my type physically....
My type:
Current is not that....beautiful though. But more top heavy than bottom heavy which most of my exes were...personality is light years better than what I had before....that physical part calls me sometimes though.
I get it breh
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cyndaquil
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This is facts but we also need to have a discussion about the women who seem to expect men to chase them. If I have to go out of my way to initiate conversation with her and then she tells me she's upset because we don't talk enough and she needs more communication what does that say about her? I've had to tell women it's a two way street. If I texted you last the day before and you want more communication between us I better see a "good morning" or "how's your day going?" text from you. Otherwise I'm not putting in the work and they be wanting this shyt before you even meet
Some women be upset because I seem "disinterested" or "dont care" at first. Or that "I'm not obsessed with them"...I just met you calm down if we been on 1 date or aint even been on a date yet why would I be acting like you my girl? Smh
dudes need to dead the whole dime concept because it's glorification. Either chick is attractive or not, after that either she into you or not. But all that "cause she this level of fine I`m gonna change my approach" is loser shyt
One can tell you what to do to get a woman and keep her attracted to you but none of that shyt actually matters.
At any given moment she can / often will wake up and just not fukk with you anymore. And there is nothing you can do about it.
That divorce rate is high for a reason. At some point in time the vast majority of the people in those relationships were happy and content...It's a lot more random and uncontrollable than people care to admit
At any given moment she can / often will wake up and just not fukk with you anymore. And there is nothing you can do about it.
That divorce rate is high for a reason. At some point in time the vast majority of the people in those relationships were happy and content...It's a lot more random and uncontrollable than people care to admit
Men need to stop thinking they can control the situation. All you can do is minimize risk which is why you should never get legally married. Most you should do is have kids but be prepared for the financial risk but (but imo better on that end than marriage). If chick wants to remove your ability to be a father cut your loses and move on and just pay your child support and call it a day. most kids end up seeing a lot of the times their situation wasn't a "Dead beat dad" either.
that's what my family been telling my brother and it finally sunk in. my brother's bipolar so that's fukked his situation up even worse but hes finally resetting.
even my mom was telling him, leave your child and baby moms alone until you're back on your feet.
If you gotta "fight for your kids" those aren't yours lol. A common thing I noticed lotta folks withojt dad's were products of recreational gutter sex. A common thing is men take care of their actual families while the kid who they had with the one night stand lives a shytty existence.
That said I'm speaking more on a general thing as every situation is different
skyrunner1
Superstar
Im of the belief humans are more geared towards serial monogamy. Most of the stuff that kept people in marriage til end was more of social contract, maybe limited options, people getting washed earlier in life and hormones and stuff changing to relax nerves. And STILL we know about the stories of the milk man, families on other side of town and such. ALOT of that stuff have been stripped away and have been normalized.
I remember ending of last year I was making rounds and had soo many eye opening convos it was crazy. Was invited to quick weekend getaway, and it was mostly women, had a women who is married and thought was in great relationship, breh good dude, is paid, yada yada. Alcohol flowing and his women was just matter of fact like yea when my son get older Ima divorce him, he is a good father figure right now in house but after that Ima bounce. Im sitting there like she already got a end date on they relationship, this is crazy.
Be safe out here brehs, cover you 6 at all times.
If he moved first, she would be crushed, and then vindictive, and withhold his son.
But when she moves first, she's finna find out that the grass ain't greener and she can't compete with these young broads.
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
heart breaking. goes back to what I said when talking about A Different WorldIm of the belief humans are more geared towards serial monogamy. Most of the stuff that kept people in marriage til end was more of social contract, maybe limited options, people getting washed earlier in life and hormones and stuff changing to relax nerves. And STILL we know about the stories of the milk man, families on other side of town and such. ALOT of that stuff have been stripped away and have been normalized.
I remember ending of last year I was making rounds and had soo many eye opening convos it was crazy. Was invited to quick weekend getaway, and it was mostly women, had a women who is married and thought was in great relationship, breh good dude, is paid, yada yada. Alcohol flowing and his women was just matter of fact like yea when my son get older Ima divorce him, he is a good father figure right now in house but after that Ima bounce. Im sitting there like she already got a end date on they relationship, this is crazy.
Be safe out here brehs, cover you 6 at all times.
Ironically, upon reading about the show and peoples' opinions on it I saw that both Jasmine Guy and Kadeem Hardison actually were both married (to other ppl) at some point in their lives, both have a child and yet both are divorcees. The TV versions of them together = "couple goals", but in real life neither of them could hack it with their respective spouses. Maybe I am bullshytting, but to me that says a lot lol. It is even more important to circle when you consider just how much people nowadays look to the media for ideas on how relationships are supposed to be/work.
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skyrunner1
Superstar
The thing is I don't think a lot of them care at that point. Her goal will be achieved and they will just thot bop. Like we will be in mid late 40s, at that point, I just hope breh protect his assets. This really a cold game, no matter how you play it.
Those couple weeks it was Soo many eye opening moments I couldn't even sit down to type it up but @Ohene comment made me remember that one.
This one hoe flaked on me twice and tried to circle back after about 6 months. Keep in mind I never got a chance to put her on her knees. She texted is this Abraxus? I text back yeah, who the fukk is THIS??!!!
She said it's Carmen? WHO??!!!
She went to explaining like they always do and I'm just lmao as she tries to explain who she is. Finally she says damn I'll just send you a pic since you didn't save my contact. 
As I'm laughing I'm like bytch, I know who you are lol
Mf got huge t*ts and yellow bone. She says you busy tomorrow? (It's late Friday, so her main plans must have fallen through.) I said yea, a nikka free all day tomorrow yo. 
She says cool, you know that one new lounge by the airport that has live music? I say yeah, it's nice. She said well, wsup? I said Ok, I'll hit you tomorrow. Saturday comes, and she hits me around 7 pm. Hey, are we still on? I said I didn't know if you was serious after calling it off the previous 2 times. She said well that's why I told you to hit me up. I said Oh, brother didn't know if you were serious, I mean, you flaked on me twice. She said well baby balls in your court I said nah, I got wings and shyt here with drink and some gas. I'm good. She said you smoke? (I lied) I said like a chimney! She said I love to burn! Ok cool, you want to come over and burn sometime? She said Hell yeah, just hit me up! Ok cool, you ready now? She said yea, how much you got?!! I said nikka kinda got a problem babe, don't judge me but I got at least an ounceover here! She said damn! Ok! I said ok, lemme shoot the address! I sent her the lounge address lol
Mf sent me a message and said you petty ass nikka I was thinking of giving you some p*ssy and I replied IDGAF stop playing with a nikka and be straight up.
bytch
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