African_brehda
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Nah she did. Eating mine as we speak
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Nah she did. Eating mine as we speak
Man wtf is wrong with these women?
Was out with this chick I’m talking to. The first spot we went to, I parked in a parking space which wasn’t right in front of the store, since someone was reversing out. She mentioned me not parking in front of the store, I just laughed it off.
Now we get to the second spot, for convenience reasons, I park like 20 feet away as I didn’t want to park behind anyone and she was just picking up food we ordered
Tell me why this girl complains again about me not parking directly in front of the shop and refuses to go pick up the food.
Warned her I’d drive off if she doesn’t cut the shyt.. she proceeds to drop from my car, go pick up the food and orders a ride. At that point I thought it was all jokes and I asked her to cancel the ride and come sit down… she was serious .. so I just left her there and drove off
I don’t plan on her ever hearing from me again brehs. I don’t know the kind of vibe I give off that made her think she could play some shyt like that. This shyt got me heated ngl
Situations like that just do what you gotta do to make it home safely then ghost with no explanation
In the news, apparently water is wet and the sky is blue
Women feel unsafe when objectified—but may still self-sexualize if the man is attractive or wealthy
New research from China suggests that women feel unsafe when confronted with a sexually objectifying gaze—but still choose to self-sexualize if the man is attractive or high status. The findings highlight a psychological tradeoff between risk and potential reward.
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trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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Did the right thing. Hold that ground amd remain HOH, cause that's what she is....... I bet she used the array of "internet dating buzz words" too when you guys talked.Man wtf is wrong with these women?
Was out with this chick I’m talking to. The first spot we went to, I parked in a parking space which wasn’t right in front of the store, since someone was reversing out. She mentioned me not parking in front of the store, I just laughed it off.
Now we get to the second spot, for convenience reasons, I park like 20 feet away as I didn’t want to park behind anyone and she was just picking up food we ordered
Tell me why this girl complains again about me not parking directly in front of the shop and refuses to go pick up the food.
Warned her I’d drive off if she doesn’t cut the shyt.. she proceeds to drop from my car, go pick up the food and orders a ride. At that point I thought it was all jokes and I asked her to cancel the ride and come sit down… she was serious .. so I just left her there and drove off
I don’t plan on her ever hearing from me again brehs. I don’t know the kind of vibe I give off that made her think she could play some shyt like that. This shyt got me heated ngl
African_brehda
Superstar
Breh, my own fukking car
I’m just concerned I might be giving off some vibe to these women. 2 weeks back , I had someone being reluctant to smash because she said I always sleep off and don’t chat or cuddle afterwards
Got me questioning if I’m too playful or some shyt. I’m not about to change my personality over some p*ssy
If you ever noticed couples, older/younger, almost always argue over the most benign or meaningless directions, if they are driving somewhere together. I noticed this all my life, and finally did some reading and it's about power dynamics in relationships. Once you realize that, it all makes a lot more sense. I used to think who the fukk cares which way is the best way or whatever, now I know it's more than that.
There's also very old, very gendered way of women kind of advocating for themselves by complaining, not every woman, and not every situation, but that's real. Years ago, before Uber was so common, I used to, and still do, use car services for dates. Like the black SUV. This girl I used to go out with, she was like 20 minutes late, maybe 30.
I told the driver to wait down the street, there was no parking at my place, I'm not going to have him circling the block. It was about 2 blocks away. And when she got there, I said we are going to walk to meet the driver, and she's complaining the whole walk. She wasn't in 6 inch heels or anything, maybe like 2 inch heels, and by the time we got to the car, I was thinking I should just leave - lol - of course I didn't, but I can't imagine the reverse scenario. Me being late, and having to walk 2 blocks to a waiting, chauffered ride, and complaining.
There's also very old, very gendered way of women kind of advocating for themselves by complaining, not every woman, and not every situation, but that's real. Years ago, before Uber was so common, I used to, and still do, use car services for dates. Like the black SUV. This girl I used to go out with, she was like 20 minutes late, maybe 30.
I told the driver to wait down the street, there was no parking at my place, I'm not going to have him circling the block. It was about 2 blocks away. And when she got there, I said we are going to walk to meet the driver, and she's complaining the whole walk. She wasn't in 6 inch heels or anything, maybe like 2 inch heels, and by the time we got to the car, I was thinking I should just leave - lol - of course I didn't, but I can't imagine the reverse scenario. Me being late, and having to walk 2 blocks to a waiting, chauffered ride, and complaining.
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African_brehda
Superstar
Exactly what it is. But we’re better off treating it as some surface level shyt and ignoring them. Let them keep the stupidity and overthinking for themselves
Cos in the post I made, she said something about me “not listening to her”. Going back to park there would’ve meant her never respecting me, standing my ground meant us never talking again. Lose lose situation. I chose the L where I get to keep my pride. Wont be the first time I’ve stood my ground at the expense of some p*ssy
With a broad this afternoon.
Just like I like, West African extraction (1st gen)
Flawless dark sin.
Face like a Oya/Oshun.
Back end banging.
Enough thigh meat, make you want to rest your head and have her play with your hair...
Too much top end for her tastes, but me
Educated, talking sense, we on the same page with 99% of most issues....
But damn if this chick ain't got an inside voice.
Like Africans only come in one variety, LOUD
All of my prayers to Jah would be answered, if I could just get over the fact that this chicks annoys the hell out of me, in private, but in public.
Just like I like, West African extraction (1st gen)
Flawless dark sin.
Face like a Oya/Oshun.
Back end banging.
Enough thigh meat, make you want to rest your head and have her play with your hair...
Too much top end for her tastes, but me
Educated, talking sense, we on the same page with 99% of most issues....
But damn if this chick ain't got an inside voice.
Like Africans only come in one variety, LOUD
All of my prayers to Jah would be answered, if I could just get over the fact that this chicks annoys the hell out of me, in private, but in public.
Exactly what it is. But we’re better off treating it as some surface level shyt and ignoring them. Let them keep the stupidity and overthinking for themselves
Cos in the post I made, she said something about me “not listening to her”. Going back to park there would’ve meant her never respecting me, standing my ground meant us never talking again. Lose lose situation. I chose the L where I get to keep my pride. Wont be the first time I’ve stood my ground at the expense of some p*ssy
I usually have women pick me up, that's my preference, but I respect them as drivers, so if they need some help with directions, I got you. But I don't say park here or park there, or you did that wrong. It's your car, you're driving me around, you got this. Even if they don't, that's not my problem. I'm chilling.
That petty shyt of trying to get in someones head by arguing about directions...that's some weak shyt.
skyrunner1
Superstar
This is the game now breh.. Wit social media and dating apps this is the type of stuff people deal withMan wtf is wrong with these women?
Was out with this chick I’m talking to. The first spot we went to, I parked in a parking space which wasn’t right in front of the store, since someone was reversing out. She mentioned me not parking in front of the store, I just laughed it off.
Now we get to the second spot, for convenience reasons, I park like 20 feet away as I didn’t want to park behind anyone and she was just picking up food we ordered
Tell me why this girl complains again about me not parking directly in front of the shop and refuses to go pick up the food.
Warned her I’d drive off if she doesn’t cut the shyt.. she proceeds to drop from my car, go pick up the food and orders a ride. At that point I thought it was all jokes and I asked her to cancel the ride and come sit down… she was serious .. so I just left her there and drove off
I don’t plan on her ever hearing from me again brehs. I don’t know the kind of vibe I give off that made her think she could play some shyt like that. This shyt got me heated ngl
lol block that bytch number manMan wtf is wrong with these women?
Was out with this chick I’m talking to. The first spot we went to, I parked in a parking space which wasn’t right in front of the store, since someone was reversing out. She mentioned me not parking in front of the store, I just laughed it off.
Now we get to the second spot, for convenience reasons, I park like 20 feet away as I didn’t want to park behind anyone and she was just picking up food we ordered
Tell me why this girl complains again about me not parking directly in front of the shop and refuses to go pick up the food.
Warned her I’d drive off if she doesn’t cut the shyt.. she proceeds to drop from my car, go pick up the food and orders a ride. At that point I thought it was all jokes and I asked her to cancel the ride and come sit down… she was serious .. so I just left her there and drove off
I don’t plan on her ever hearing from me again brehs. I don’t know the kind of vibe I give off that made her think she could play some shyt like that. This shyt got me heated ngl
Nigerians are loudWith a broad this afternoon.
Just like I like, West African extraction (1st gen)
Flawless dark sin.
Face like a Oya/Oshun.
Back end banging.
Enough thigh meat, make you want to rest your head and have her play with your hair...
Too much top end for her tastes, but me
Educated, talking sense, we on the same page with 99% of most issues....
But damn if this chick ain't got an inside voice.
Like Africans only come in one variety, LOUD
All of my prayers to Jah would be answered, if I could just get over the fact that this chicks annoys the hell out of me, in private, but in public.
Ghanaian women are pretty meek lol