Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Medio]

a good looking shy girl with no friends is >>>>>>> a good looking popular girl every single time and it's not even close breh

no such thing as popular in university, that's some high school ish

 

[T-K-G]

Lol trust me, that's not even the case. In fact I share music with friends a lot. I'm a music guy.

Well, you answered your own question, they're nikkas and not black men.

you took it to another level that i can't cosign

i never use "nikka" as a term for an ignorant person that's just how i talk



i called the white girl at starbucks my nikka this morning without even thinking about it

 

[semtex]

no such thing as popular in university, that's some high school ish

:usure2: that depends on the campus. If the bytch has what appears to be an entourage with her then

 

[Medio]

21, and no. But look at yourself, you look like a fool. 3 guys (I believe) are telling you to leave this chick alone, and yet you keep persisting and making excuses. Don't you think that we're trying to help? And if you don't then why would you even come in this thread and ask for advice to only ignore it. You're probably frustrated because we're telling what you don't want to hear, which is probably the truth.

Trust me i'm listening to all your guys advice, i never said i'm not. i'm naturally a devils advocate and always like to view shyt from different angles before doing something

 

[T-K-G]

no such thing as popular in university, that's some high school ish

nikka im in a university you know exactly what i meant, miss me with that HS shyt


i'd rather have a lowkey girl who looks good than a good looking girl who everybody and they mama knows


you just really want that girl breh there's nothing wrong with that but you saying some wild shyt

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Trust me i'm listening to all your guys advice, i never said i'm not. i'm naturally a devils advocate and always like to view shyt from different angles before doing something

You're viewing it from your inside perspective which is cloudy, we're viewing from the outside in. But do you is my advice.

you took it to another level that i can't cosign

i never use "nikka" as a term for an ignorant person that's just how i talk



i called the white girl at starbucks my nikka this morning without even thinking about it

Oh I don't either, but I mean there's a difference between a black man and a nikka. I may call myself a nikka, but I'm a black. A nikka is a nikka that views himself as a nikka first and a black man second.

 

[Medio]

nikka im in a university you know exactly what i meant, miss me with that HS shyt


i'd rather have a lowkey girl who looks good than a good looking girl who everybody and they mama knows


you just really want that girl breh there's nothing wrong with that but you saying some wild shyt

the girl i was dating before was a quiet girl, the exact kind of girl you're talking about. she is very beautiful, smart,study bug didn't drink party or any of that shyt, she had a fatty too . i approached her solely on her looks and that she was giving me signals, and found out all this stuff and was amazed cause it seemed too good to be true. and it was lol.

 

[T-K-G]

You're viewing it from your inside perspective which is cloudy, we're viewing from the outside in. But do you is my advice.


Oh I don't either, but I mean there's a difference between a black man and a nikka. I may call myself a nikka, but I'm a black. A nikka is a nikka that views himself as a nikka first and a black man second.

i see where you're coming from i just view myself as a man first and all that race shyt comes afterwards




it is what it is though

 

[Chucky]

yo man i see hella chicks checkin me out but i dont approach them cuz i dont know what to talk about. do i just come in there with the hey lemme get your number i think ur cute or what?

 

[True Blue Moon]

it's been said before, it will probably be said again.

- NEVER take advice (or even entertain convos about dating/relationships) from women or men with simp tendencies. might have lost one over me breaking this fundamental principle and frankly i have no one else to blame but myself. i'm behind the 8 ball like a mothafukka...

- Never get your head in the clouds thinking she's the exception.

- Your happiness above EVERYTHING!




i swear i'm rediscovering some evil and bitterness i hadn't felt in a while, lol. I'm not gonna let it change me cause at the end of the day it's my fault. Just need to get focused again, get money, go to the gym, keep it real and replacing instead of chasing.

Patrice O'Neal would be proud

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

i see where you're coming from i just view myself as a man first and all that race shyt comes afterwards




it is what it is though

Eh man I wish it was that simple but it ain't. Being black is like a full time job my nikka.

yo man i see hella chicks checkin me out but i dont approach them cuz i dont know what to talk about. do i just come in there with the hey lemme get your number i think ur cute or what?

Just spark a convo about something she's wearing/looking at. bytches love talking about themselves.

 

[Chucky]

yo i see mad girls checkin me out but i dont approach them because i dont know what to talk to them about. should i just go in there with the i think ur cute can i have ur number or what?

 

[Wild self]

Does N Count Matter? | The Karamazov Idea

Spoiler

"It’s been my personal experience asking a women’s partner number has always been the quickest easiest way to instantly turn her off while simultaneously watching a 20 inch thick grey wall emerge around her aura. Just watch how quickly her arms fold. I’ve had women stop talking to me after I’ve asked this question. ALL OF THEM LIED. Not half. Not most. EVERY SINGLE ONE. I was raised in a small town (one of the few things I credit it for) surrounded by 3 other small towns plus the college environment (one of the few things I credit it for) for my first dreadful experiences in this:

Girl #1: Claimed 7 partners. Actual number: 100 partners plus (confirmed by age 21)(worst one).
Girl #2: Claimed 5 partners. Actual number: 20 partners (confirmed by age 20) (college)
Girl #3: Claimed 3 partners. Actual number: 13 partners (confirmed by age 21)
Girl #4: Claimed 2 partners. Actual number: 5 partners (confirmed by age 18)
Girl #5: Claimed 4 partners. Actual number: 8 partners (confirmed by age 19)
Girl #6: Claimed 3 partners: Actual number: 7 partners (confirmed by age 22)
Girl #7 Claimed 5 partners: Actual number: 24 partners (confirmed by age 22) (college)
Girl #8 Claimed 10 partners: Actual number: 40 partners (confirmed by age 24)(college)

The have the audacity to claim the past doesn’t matter and it’s none of anyone’s business. I use the job interview metaphor as an example. Imagine a job interview. The interviewer asks the following questions:

Interviewer: “I see you’ve had 35 jobs in ten years” “Why so many positions?”
Applicant: “It’s none of your business. That’s all in the past. II don’t want to talk about it. I’m ready to move on. Let’s move on now”

They will all clam up when asked their number. “why does that matter” “why do you want to know” “it’s none of your business”

Young women sleep with dozens of guys in their prime claiming they are “in relationships” “having fun” “sexually liberated” etc. Then why is asking their number considered the ultimate taboo? Worse than anything. The women in this article even lied to her own doctor! And this a modern “sexually liberated” women. What does that tell you? It tells me they know it’s wrong. They must feel an extreme sense of shame and worthlessness inside. Look at how they go to appalling lengths to lie. Boyfriends. Husbands. Themselves. And when they are caught?

“It didn’t count it was one night”
“It didn’t count I was on spring break”
“It didn’t count I was drunk”
“It didn’t count I was young”
“It didn’t count I was drunk”
“It didn’t count I didn’t know what I was doing”

All lies. 99.9999999999999999999999999%. Lies.

If I’m getting involved with you I have every right to know what I’m really getting myself into. Yes. The past accumulates to become the present. Yes. History repeats itself. Yes. Peoples habits haunt them.

I’m not putting it all on the line to marry a worthless, useless, been there done that, had my fun, pounded out, banged out, used up whore.

Sorry ladies."

Pure Ether

 

[True Blue Moon]

yo i see mad girls checkin me out but i dont approach them because i dont know what to talk to them about. should i just go in there with the i think ur cute can i have ur number or what?

Crack a relevant remark about whatever is going on, all while thinking in your head that you're that dude and you don't want anything from her or give a shyt about the outcome. You ever been in a good mood and been more chatty with someone in fast food than you normally would otherwise? It's the same shyt.

Earlier today I went to grab some food and dude at the window yawned, so I was just like "Tired dawg?" and we joked back and forth about working and shyt. Granted, dudes are friendly by nature like that, but if you did the exact same with a female, it'll be even better because there's that opposite sex energy that makes you keep her on her toes with the butterflies flowing. Not openly trying to get in the drawers, but being secure enough in yourself to say whatever pops in your head without worrying about that awkward "Why is this dude talking to me?" vibe.

If you come up to her timid or like you need her to validate you, the power is in her hands. If you go up to her because you just feel like talking to her then you're good. As long as you don't say something completely closed ended, she'll start talking easily and you'll get in where you fit in from there.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

2 weird things happened to me tonight.

So my friend told me about a hotel party tonight yesterday and I said id go. He ends up hitting me up saying I can't go bc they don't want me there or whatever but he was with his girl and sister. So I hit up another another friend and he tells me that he's going to a gay event/club with friends and that I'm invited. So on my way there the other friend that was with his girl and sister tells me they're at Shari's and that I can meet them so I did stopped by and had coffee. Sad thing was that he and his girl argued all night and he almost fought some dude in the restaurant cause the dude was watching him and his girl argue. Lol he even went as far to say he wishes he was single (in front of his girl) and I was like damn. Felt bad cause his girl knows I'm a good guy etc always calm and all that while my friend and her always argue (mainly bc of her). So I dipped met my friend at the gay club (they're not gay just went out cause their girl friend asked I guess) and it was a ball. Felt no pressure to talk to chicks although I got my dikk grabbed once and gay dudes were hitting on me left and right LOL. But I ended up meeting a chick as she was coming onto me while we were in the line for the bathroom (she was with friends as well) and she asked if I was gay I said no ofc and she was surprised like "oh most gay guys are good really cute so I just assumed you were, plus we're in a gay club". I spoke to her then went to piss. Come out the bathroom and her gay friend is like "she loves you!" LOL me being a frequenter in this thread I just laughed it off. End of the night and I'm outside. She comes out we start talking again and my friends come out and I ended up asking for her #. I'm 21 and she can tell and she's like 27 so she's all asking how young I am. And that I can't have it cause I'm too young. So I flipped the script and I'm like how about this, I'll give you my number and you can text me if you want. Ended up giving her my number and her friends are all telling my friends to take care of me (loool) chick must of liked me.

Anyway what I learned was that I'm too young to be with someone, fukk that, never tie myself down too much stress after seeing my friend and his girl. You might get p*ssy whenever but that arguing shyt<<<

Second thing was girls are girls no matter how old they are, if they like you but reject you or w/e it's not bc they don't like you but rather bc you didn't present shyt in a manner that they'll feel comfortable in. Instead of taking the girls number, I gave her mine therefore I don't have to stress and on top of that she can hit me up if she wants to take things further and if not I'm still going to handle my business and get at other chicks and work on improving myself and my game.