Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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starting to think living out here is killing my social battery and motivation to talk to women

I dont know what city you are in but most Majority cities are all the same when it comes to just being full of un serious people. And the issue with Smaller to mid size cities is the lack of economic opportunity + the social media delusion cloud still floating around.

The best option you can maybe hope for is being in a global city that has social scenes not focused on clubs and only place I can think of is NYC and LA but they have a "different" issue than the typical delusion found in other spots.
 

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I dont know what city you are in but most Majority cities are all the same when it comes to just being full of un serious people. And the issue with Smaller to mid size cities is the lack of economic opportunity + the social media delusion cloud still floating around.

The best option you can maybe hope for is being in a global city that has social scenes not focused on clubs and only place I can think of is NYC and LA but they have a "different" issue than the typical delusion found in other spots.
I was speaking more in a regional sense but I understand where you coming from. i live in the suburbs (Brampton) right now and think this whole work/gym/home routine is turning me into an introvert again lol

I’ve considered moving again cause I enjoy running around on foot in denser areas to do errands and talk to strangers. You gotta drive everywhere out here and most women are only at the gym. It also gets very isolating when you don’t meet anyone or be around people for weeks on end. I’ve tried some of them fitness classes but in my personal experience it’s not very communal and people just dip soon as session done lol.

socially, Toronto suburbs are heavily hookah lounge focused and I kinda hate that shyt
 

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I was speaking more in a regional sense but I understand where you coming from. i live in the suburbs (Brampton) right now and think this whole work/gym/home routine is turning me into an introvert again lol

I’ve considered moving again cause I enjoy running around on foot in denser areas to do errands and talk to strangers. You gotta drive everywhere out here and most women are only at the gym. It also gets very isolating when you don’t meet anyone or be around people for weeks on end. I’ve tried some of them fitness classes but in my personal experience it’s not very communal and people just dip soon as session done lol.

socially, Toronto suburbs are heavily hookah lounge focused and I kinda hate that shyt

Yeah the burbs and sprawling major cities suck.

You can see why people pay a premium for your NYC type cities where just doing your routine on feet you are in proximity of humans where that car life shyt is isolating and robotic. In places that are not car centric you have neighborhood events too that provide community compared to that club/section shyt being all you have.

Like when i travel i can walk to gym then food then mall, musuem, etc and come across a ton of people before settling in the crib. But the thing too is because so many people exist in a robotic cycle even when there are social things to do people are more there to use the event as social proof rather than a communal thing
 
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