Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i have to say its hard when you start dating again and those former simp tendencies come back in your forehead, falling in lust, and she short a little rent money for hte month.

Cell phone gonna be cut off, "how we gonna talk monsieur fox", "i thought you loved me":

the key is to be firm, thankfully ive never falling back into the simp life since i became the new me.

Remember in your mind the first few months are the honeymoon period and everything will go great, remember what you previously learned in relationships and apply them.

Remember the less you say the less you can mess up, i remember after my ex fiance getting back in the dating game. I would tell women i was previous engage and what happaned error number 1, and id get the "id never hurt you like that reincar" :childplease:

The moment you put down your guard they will strike. Like this broad im talking to, shes like so desribe yourself.


a few years ago i would have said , im kind, gentle, a heart for others, goal orientated, loyal faithful


all i said is im a mystery



another example back in the day when girls would be like

all i dated were a$$holes, ive never been treated good in a relationship, id be like :cape:, dont worry i'd never cheat on you, those men are dogs im a great guy

now?
i just think about how many good guys she screwed over.

Damn, good point, but what if this girl you're talking to one night is like "ughhh stick it in my p*ssy reincar" are you going to do it to please her or are you going to remain true to your vows?

And good point. You know what tho man, I'm kinda disappointed that I got 2 numbers, went on a date with 1 and neither of them worked out. It's like you feel like a failure for not pulling these broads especially when you even went on a date with 1
 

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you can't fall asleep at the wheel. you can't think that "I've arrived, i can relax now..." focus on your goal and your woman is your co-pilot. you still have to be ready for her to not act right and to be able to deal with that shyt. Never let shyt go out of hand. check her early and be consistent. just because you're commited to someone doesn't mean you have to be a simp.

Yeah good point, I've realized that checking a woman=yelling getting emotional, rather than showing her that it's upset you you've got to be firm and stern let her know what she did wrong and how she's going to pay for it. Good point don't ever wanna be a simp no more fukk that
 

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Damn, good point, but what if this girl you're talking to one night is like "ughhh stick it in my p*ssy reincar" are you going to do it to please her or are you going to remain true to your vows?

And good point. You know what tho man, I'm kinda disappointed that I got 2 numbers, went on a date with 1 and neither of them worked out. It's like you feel like a failure for not pulling these broads especially when you even went on a date with 1
if you stayed true to yourself and made your intentions clear, you didn't fail. they just weren't down with your program and there's nothing wrong with that.

were you trying to fukk these girls?
 

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if you stayed true to yourself and made your intentions clear, you didn't fail. they just weren't down with your program and there's nothing wrong with that.

were you trying to fukk these girls?
I wouldn't be me if I didn't man, but yeah good point.

Naw I was actually interested in getting to know them lool.
 

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Damn, good point, but what if this girl you're talking to one night is like "ughhh stick it in my p*ssy reincar" are you going to do it to please her or are you going to remain true to your vows?

And good point. You know what tho man, I'm kinda disappointed that I got 2 numbers, went on a date with 1 and neither of them worked out. It's like you feel like a failure for not pulling these broads especially when you even went on a date with 1

my word is my word, my no is my no

anyways no longer talking to her anyways as mentioned above, texted her a few days ago, got the hey im busy ill text you in a bit:smh:, no text since.

but ive sen shes updated her twitter numerous times since then = bushes
 

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my word is my word, my no is my no

anyways no longer talking to her anyways as mentioned above, texted her a few days ago, got the hey im busy ill text you in a bit:smh:, no text since.

but ive sen shes updated her twitter numerous times since then = bushes

I can respect that.

Man, us men really have to stick and move. It's weird because you think shyt would be so easy but these chicks make it difficult then suffer repercussions. What if she hits you up though? Will you give her another shot?
 

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Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: Scared that she is a gold-digger

I CANNOT work out whether my on/off girl-friend genuinely loves me – or is only after my inheritance.

It’s just been confirmed that I’m going to get the cash from my late grandmother’s house.

And, suddenly, my girl is now all over me.

She’s sending me sexy texts and suggesting we get back together again full-time.

The other night she invited me round to her flat. She then stripped off and virtually threw herself on me.

We had hot sex. She was so enthusiastic and suggested all sorts of kinky tricks from oral with an ice cube to stuff I’ve only seen in porn films.

Just as we were having a post-bonk cuddle, she started telling me how she’s always loved me.

This from a woman who once said that I’m the most boring, ugly man she’s ever met.

Six months ago I couldn’t get her to return my calls, she kept telling my friends that I’m a loser and that she wouldn’t be seen dead with me.

We first met in 2011 and dated for nine turbulent months. We split when she got off with one of my mates and have been off and on (mainly off) ever since.

I have asked her why she’s always been so horrible to me. She reckons it’s because she’s had problems at work and, with her dad, who is a terrible drinker.

But, hey presto, things are better now. She’s happy, she’s chilled and she’s finally ready to make a go of things with me.

But can I trust her? Is this all about my new money, or has she really changed and realised that she likes me after all?

I’d like to think it’s the latter, because despite everything she’s put me through I still love her.

********************************************************

JANE SAYS: What if your on/off “girlfriend” came round to your house with a large placard that said: “I want your money” would you get the message then?

From what I can make out, she’s being utterly shameless in her pursuit of your wonga. She’s not even bothering to be subtle.

A few months ago, she wasn’t prepared to give you the scrapings off her boots.

She was openly rude about you to your face and to your friends. She wasn’t returning calls or giving you the time of day.

Yet, suddenly, today, she can’t get enough of you.

You’re her Prince Charming, the love of her life.

Hmmmm, I wonder why that might be?

You’re about to inherit a wedge of cash and that’s made you the most attractive man in the world. Don’t allow her to do this to you. Force yourself to see through this blatant greed and find the courage to say goodbye.

You may think you love her, but what’s there to love?

She’s been nothing but a horrible cow to you since you first met her in 2011.

Ditch her, get your money and sort out your life. Make a wish list and do what you want to do.

I suspect that lots of needy friends will now come out of the woodwork. Be strong and don’t fall for any more sob stories.

Lmao...wowwwwww
 

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Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: Scared that she is a gold-digger

I CANNOT work out whether my on/off girl-friend genuinely loves me – or is only after my inheritance.

It’s just been confirmed that I’m going to get the cash from my late grandmother’s house.

And, suddenly, my girl is now all over me.

She’s sending me sexy texts and suggesting we get back together again full-time.

The other night she invited me round to her flat. She then stripped off and virtually threw herself on me.

We had hot sex. She was so enthusiastic and suggested all sorts of kinky tricks from oral with an ice cube to stuff I’ve only seen in porn films.

Just as we were having a post-bonk cuddle, she started telling me how she’s always loved me.

This from a woman who once said that I’m the most boring, ugly man she’s ever met.

Six months ago I couldn’t get her to return my calls, she kept telling my friends that I’m a loser and that she wouldn’t be seen dead with me.

We first met in 2011 and dated for nine turbulent months. We split when she got off with one of my mates and have been off and on (mainly off) ever since.

I have asked her why she’s always been so horrible to me. She reckons it’s because she’s had problems at work and, with her dad, who is a terrible drinker.

But, hey presto, things are better now. She’s happy, she’s chilled and she’s finally ready to make a go of things with me.

But can I trust her? Is this all about my new money, or has she really changed and realised that she likes me after all?

I’d like to think it’s the latter, because despite everything she’s put me through I still love her.

********************************************************

JANE SAYS: What if your on/off “girlfriend” came round to your house with a large placard that said: “I want your money” would you get the message then?

From what I can make out, she’s being utterly shameless in her pursuit of your wonga. She’s not even bothering to be subtle.

A few months ago, she wasn’t prepared to give you the scrapings off her boots.

She was openly rude about you to your face and to your friends. She wasn’t returning calls or giving you the time of day.

Yet, suddenly, today, she can’t get enough of you.

You’re her Prince Charming, the love of her life.

Hmmmm, I wonder why that might be?

You’re about to inherit a wedge of cash and that’s made you the most attractive man in the world. Don’t allow her to do this to you. Force yourself to see through this blatant greed and find the courage to say goodbye.

You may think you love her, but what’s there to love?

She’s been nothing but a horrible cow to you since you first met her in 2011.

Ditch her, get your money and sort out your life. Make a wish list and do what you want to do.

I suspect that lots of needy friends will now come out of the woodwork. Be strong and don’t fall for any more sob stories.

:wow:
 

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i been struggling with something.

Chick is 25. Has a career. Can cook. Has her own money, and is into church, but not too far in. she still acts normal, curses and shyt and all. doesnt smoke or drink. no kids. not a hoe.

Likes me, and she is 6 ft tall. The problem? She's like....250 pounds b if not more. shes a paramedic. smart as fukk but she told me she also got abused when she was younger.

no one has a perfect life but the 250 plus pounds has me like :whoa: and thats the only thing that is holding me back

nothing in our convos says that she wants to even drop to 180-200, if she did that i could deal with it.
 

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ok i need to tell yall a story. learn from this story. see how nothing can turn into a disaster.

so this chick hit me up on one of these dating sites about 3 weeks ago. we chatting, ended up exchanging numbers that night. i tried to set up a meeting with her the next day. she agreed. day came, i texted her, she aint respond. so of course i threw her number straight into the wilderness. forgot about her.

a week later. i get a call from a number i dont remember. i pick up, im like who's this? she goes it's "its elizabeth...you forgot about me?". it quickly dawned on me who it was. but i was kinda suprised.

but anyway, she goes "i haven't heard from u in like forever. what happened?"

at this point, i can try and start a fight with her on some "b1tch i texted u the day we was suppose to meet, u aint answer. so that was all on u." but i let my common sense take charge. i figured, if she's hitting me up this late (it was after 9pm on a weekend night) it's obvious something's up. she's wants to get down.

so being the nobullshytter that i am, i immediately told her hey listen, i literally just got home, i'm chilling. what u doing? she goes "i'm home, bored". i'm like well, why dont u come out and lets hang out. she's like ummm ok. so i get off the phone, text her the address.

she hits me back 10 minutes later like, "i'm not so sure about this. i dont even know u". i'm like relax, we'll meet somewhere public. u'll be alright. i've got something super exciting planned for us. she giggles a lil bit. she goes "what do u have planned?" i'm like "u gon have to come find out".

so she goes, alright i'm gonna come. just give me a few minutes.

anyway, she comes through. we meet outside a public store. which is like right next to my house. we chatted for a bit. i saw she was feeling me, so im like "i live right next door, let me hop ur car and we'll just drive over". she goes "ok".

so we get to my house. we chatted for a bit in the living room. then i'm like yo lets go watch a movie in my bedroom. shes like alright.

so while we're in my bed room, we're laying on my bed. now, i goto tell ya, this chick's got a fat ass. a nice fat fuccking ass. anyway, we're watching the movie, i had her turn her back on me, kinda like in a spooning position, and i'm feeling on her ass. she's not giving any resistance. i'm kissinng on her neck, she's not pulling away. when i try to unbutton her jeans, like most girls, she slapped my hand away. but i kept kissing on her neck. she's moaning. and even moves her hair out of the way so i can access it better. but i'm still like slowing trying to get in that ass. so i'm like, in a joking kinda way, i'm like, if u roll down your pants, i promise i'll behave. she giggles. shes like u sure? lol. i'm like suree. so she rolls down her pants, i discover she's really not wearing any underwear.

so with her back still turned on me, and me kissing her neck, i'm playing with her pucccy, which is like super wet now. i dont like yucky sh1t. sh1t horrifies me. but i'm really digging this chick so that sh1t actually turned me on. so she's like really wet, and damn near naked, i start taking off my clothes. im thinking, its about to get down.

and then when i get on her, to fuccck her, i go to grab a condom thats under the pillow, she goes nooo dont grab a condom. i'm like whatt? i goto put one on. she turned around on some "no" type sh1t. but i put the condom on anyway, and i got in one stroke, to which she moaned. and then she goes "you know this is rape right?"

soon as i heard that, i jumped right off her. like, what?????? :damn: what do u mean rape? i literally lost my cool in the inside. and she could tell i was shook. she starts giving me an attitude, got up, got dressed and left. and the whole time, i'm like thinking wtf just happened? this is some sh1t that has NEVER happened. NEVEr.

when she left, i figured she thought i'd be blowing up her phone on some oh im so sorry sh1t. but i didn't. cuz i'm confused as fucck and shook at the same time. so i got a text from her saying "you're a disgusting piece of sh1t. when a girl says no, she really means no, i should ruin your life so your ass learns a fuccking lesson".

i read this and i'm like whattt??? so, sensing something funky is going on, i thought to myself, ok, i cant curse this b1tch out. so let me lay it down on her easy and monitor my words.

so i responded: "i didn't know thats what u thought of me. when i was kissing all over ur neck, u didn't push me away. but i'll never contact u again if that's what you want". i aint heard from the b1tch since.

now, i think to myself. its time to get a fuccking recorder. or some sh1t that will record every sexual encounter i engage in. because, i now see how women can really turn things around and ruin ur life over something that as ridiculous as nothing.

yall be careful out there!!!!
 
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