Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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this wasn't a situation where we were flirted with each other tho bruh, she was basically just an acquaintance


:mindblown: literally came out the blue hatin on every female that i knew and even publicly gave them attitude for no reason


im sittin there like ":what: bytch i dont even know yo last name, the fukk is you doin"

LOL well obviously she liked you man, the fukk you gonna do other than tell her to beat it. I hate bytches like that. Did you confront her on that shyt?
 

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You don't need a woman and you don't need p*ssy. They are nice to have, but you can live without them.
 

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LOL well obviously she liked you man, the fukk you gonna do other than tell her to beat it. I hate bytches like that. Did you confront her on that shyt?

i said i dropped her in the first post nikka of course i called her out on that bs


I didn't even go into detail that much i just let her know not to come round me n shyt didn't care enough about her feelings to explain anything :birdman:





i just thought what she was doing was weird :manny:
 

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I was thinking today about a time in my life where I approached this girl that I was attracted to. I approached her, told her she was pretty and asked for her number and she gave it to me but said she had a boyfriend (I was on the east coast). Brehs we hungout multiple times, I even met her family who were Palestinian, but nothing ever happened to us. What was my purpose? And why did she hang around with me, was she wanting someone to fill her bfs shoes while he was gone?

Flags of red. This is usery at its most typical. You were her suppliment of male attention for that moment. You could explain this to the smartest women, and even they struggle to realise what they're doing . . . or feign ignorance.
 

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The best way to find out about chick is through her twitter and instagram

Don't even let them know you know it.

Chicks will ignore your texts like they busy but tweeting from that same phone.

Be that wholesome girl in your face, but her instagram is filled with titty and ass shots.

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The best way to find out about chick is through her twitter and instagram

Don't even let them know you know it.

Chicks will ignore your texts like they busy but tweeting from that same phone.

Be that wholesome girl in your face, but her instagram is filled with titty and ass shots.

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Word, my ex does that on her Instagram but plays it off by showing her new shirt and all the thirsty dudes come flocking :rudy:
 

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Breh, once you'd had enough sex with enough attractive women, it really doesn't mean that much to have more of it anymore. There is more to life than p*ssy and women--a lot of dudes break their backs for p*ssy and do all kinds of stupid shyt for p*ssy...when in reality, after you have enough of it, it's just p*ssy at the end of the day.

That's my experience of it anyway.
 

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Breh, once you'd had enough sex with enough attractive women, it really doesn't mean that much to have more of it anymore. There is more to life than p*ssy and women--a lot of dudes break their backs for p*ssy and do all kinds of stupid shyt for p*ssy...when in reality, after you have enough of it, it's just p*ssy at the end of the day.

That's my experience of it anyway.

Pretty much, is the nagging the stress worth it?

I see now why some men just mess with escorts, your in and out. No commitment no nagging, no attachment just in and out

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there's a difference between trying to buy loyalty and rewarding loyalty. only reward passed loyalty. never future potential loyalty. you can never own future loyalty so you'll just be playing yourself buying something you can't own because it doesn't exist yet (you're conning yourself).

sometimes you'll have to take risks (trust) and make gestures that may not be reciprocated. make sure it's always something you can afford to lose (and i'm not just talking about money here). there's a saying that goes "if you can't afford to lose then you can't afford to win". but it doesn't mean you should play everytime. only when you can afford to lose.
 

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"I had wanted to comment on an old RationalMale theme about the reality between a man and a woman is that man is actually the prize. She gives something that actually is nothing and in return she receives something that actually is rather substantive.

What you get from her is nothing, you get to rub some of your body parts on her body parts, and for this privilege you pay a considerable price. Anything else is some “love” projection that you seek on the part of conditioning, some “love” pat on the head, some attaboy.
What, are you going to be “friends” with her? Is she some trusted partner, some great confidant, someone who will faithfully look out for your best interest?

Or is she a fukking parasite that sucks worth and value from you? Someone that constantly imposes costs, conditions, impositions, demands, criteria, something rented, leased, compensated for its time?
So instead of the falling into trap of the feminine imperative, that she is the value and you must justify yourself to her, you step back a view the real and actual cost of her and demand that she provide real and actual value to you that is a reasonable exchange for the reality of the true and actual value that you provide as opposed to the ephemeral, transient nothing value of her.

This is an old Rational Idea. You are the prize."
 

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one of the deepest scenes from a so-so movie.

Hip Hopera. and those who have seen it know which scene i'm talking about...
 

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Just like a job any chick you date with have a 3 month probationary period.

Don't get attached, watch her learn about her, keep track of when she messes up.

And if she passes the mark continue, of not the bushes no strings attached

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