Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

Why is it that only black music talks about tricking tremendously?

Yeah man lol don't worry, I think I'm not getting involved with anyone anytime soon. How would you pull an older woman tho? I might need a PUAs help.

I pulled 2 older women when I was younger, like in my early 20s to mid 20s. then I had another woman, after my marriage, lets say not too recently. and how it came down to it, I pretty much just spoke to them like they were a relative or an interesting person I wanted to talk to. there wasnt any thirst or immaturity in that sense. we were just cool and I spoke with respect.

the main thing was, I wasnt trying to impress them, and they saw that. I could have either took it or left it. I think they liked that kind of approach. aside from that, they really liked good back and forth conversation and to have a man pay attention to them. I really dont think its more than that

 

[kevm3]

In regard to the quesitons about the books I recommend reading, I constantly read numerous books at once. It's tough for me to just focus on any one book, but one great fiction book is game of thrones. Obviously they have the series on HBO, but read the book.

 

[CASHAPP]

In regard to the quesitons about the books I recommend reading, I constantly read numerous books at once. It's tough for me to just focus on any one book, but one great fiction book is game of thrones. Obviously they have the series on HBO, but read the book.

If you have not already check out a book called "The Prince Of Tides"; I read it years ago and still own it. It is a great book and talks about a wide range of topics, but relationships is also a big part of the book, especially the romance type.

Check it out through a PDF file or actual physical copy if you want and let me know what you think about it.

And in return if you have any books you would recommend a book yourself.

As a random side note, I have mentioned before how big I am on these "Signet Rings" and in terms of improving myself as a man, I do have this goal of obtaining a signet ring for every educational goal I achieve.

So far I have the one from High School years ago, and hopefully if I succeed in my class I am currently in and the summer course, I will get my associates in the summer and get the ring for that.

And for my bachelors......and masters,etc.

I look at it as a great way for self improvement without it stereotypically being a form of ring or trophy for a cliche thing related to sports or entertainment. Not that I am knocking anyone or being condescending or anything. Just looking at the individual aspect since there needs to be more MERIT based acheivement in the Black Community more ofte.

As flawed as the education system is, it is a good goal I am working towards. Sorry if this is sounding corny or anything lol just wanted to get off topic a bit off of women to talk about self improvement and things we are interested in

 

[CASHAPP]

^You ever see the one Bob Marley wore on his hand? I am just interested with them as a whole. Bearing it as a symbol of your hard work and dedication in whatever aspect of your field or interest.

Something that gives you self esteem and realize that you are the Prize and possibly impressing women who encounter you without being overly cocky about it.

 

[DaRealness]

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[DaRealness]

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Just listen to this video.

I've just been on a Tariq Nasheed marathon all day while I'm off sick lol.

 

[Spin]

F**k Numbers! Get Girls! - YouTube

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Man I hate this, the fact that lovea dependency once you get it and it changes you whether it be for the better or the worse.

Plus women stay tripping omg my cousins girls sister<<

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I think now that I'm sobered up, I've come to realize that like someone said in here if you focus on yourself they will come and the last few days have proven this. From a girl staring hard while I'm dw my hw to another one coming and sitting by me in class when there were plenty other seats open and she had a spot last time we were in class. And remember fellas if they choose up then they choose up but if they don't then fukk it, don't sweat these broads. Like wiz khalifa said "you can chase me, ima chase this cheese"

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I pulled 2 older women when I was younger, like in my early 20s to mid 20s. then I had another woman, after my marriage, lets say not too recently. and how it came down to it, I pretty much just spoke to them like they were a relative or an interesting person I wanted to talk to. there wasnt any thirst or immaturity in that sense. we were just cool and I spoke with respect.

the main thing was, I wasnt trying to impress them, and they saw that. I could have either took it or left it. I think they liked that kind of approach. aside from that, they really liked good back and forth conversation and to have a man pay attention to them. I really dont think its more than that

You're divorced? What happened? If you don't mind me asking.


Yeah I've noticed, I think because by that time they've realized that they have less chances of making good conversation with someone now that they're not at school or whatever so when they meet someone who can hold a good one with them they try to keep them around and catch feelings.

 

[kevm3]

If you're a mature, well kept guy, you will have the older women after you. When you are little swag daddy, you will have the younger women.

 

[kevm3]

Real talk, I'm putting these women on the backburner. I'm much more focused on applying my mental efforts and time into other pursuits. Today's woman simply has such a low return on investment. The effort you have to expend is simply not worth the return you will get unless you luck upon one of those women who are a precious jewel... and these aren't the type of women that you typically pursue and win by 'spitting game', but are more along the lines of that woman that comes along while you are handling your business and you two meet at the 'right time.' This is the kind of woman that you have to be ready for when she comes as opposed to that one you actively make the effort to go out and catch. Why is this? Because when she likes you, it will be when you are being natural and aren't trying to run any little routines to catch women. When a woman likes you for yourself in your natural state, all you have to do is keep her is be yourself. Establish yourself as a man first and foremost, and then the women will come.

 

[International Playa]

Fellas what you think about dating outside of your race?

 

[beezy]

Dumped boyfriend taunted his ex-lover on the phone before plunging 350ft to his death... and left the line open so she could hear his screams | Mail Online

I'm not gonna lie, and im embarassed to say this, but i definitely contemplated suicide when my ex of 5 years broke up with me.

i was driving, shyt was heavy on my mind...



let's just say im glad im still here. heartbreak is a muhfukka​

I've been there after my ex fiance but time heals all

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my cousin was dating some nygga that she used to complain about all the time.. vut she wouldnt break up with him because he always threatened that he'd kill himself if she ever did. i was like hes just sayin that to scare you into staying, just drop em. so she did, and he shot himself right then and there over the phone

 

[sixsixtwo]

'Divorce from hell' began with $5,400 monthly alimony offer, ended with $1,500 installments - ABA Journal