Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When getting to know a lady, remain non-judgemental as possible. This makes her comfortable enough to reveal her past, always stay non-judgemental and come of as understanding to her. If her past is not what you want in your ideal partner, thats on you to decide to leave her alone or smut her out.
 

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So I'm back in here brehs with a new development. So there's this thick Spanish broad at my job (Grocery store) who I think is feeling me. I'm dumb as fukk when it comes to women dropping hints and shyt so I don't know if she's really fukking with me like that or just being friendly. Here's some examples I noticed today...

- I see her behind the register and she stares at me, smiles, then says "Hey Brandeezy" in her sexy ass voice :noah: still staring as I walk away. She does this pretty much every time I see her

- She was going around sweeping the store and I accidentally dropped something in my dept. She says "Oh my god, why are you making a mess for me :youngsabo:" I say some slick shyt back, she laughs, smiles then walks away.

- Ask her for a pen, she gives it to me then I give it back and she says "Omg finally" then I swear she tried to grab my hand or some shyt (It was awkward lol)

- Before I leave work she says "Brandeezy where are you going :to: why do you have to go" we go back and forth then she stares at me and says "How old are you again?" (I'm 23, she's 18 turning 19 in Aug) we chop it up from there, say goodbye and I bounce.

The thing is that she has a BF (I think they recently started dating this year), so I don't really try to flirt back with her and shyt but if this shyt continues idk brehs :sadbron: I might have to go ahead and get it popping :takedat:. The thing is that my co-worker said that she asked him out when they were at training even though she had a BF so I don't think they're that serious. Tomorrow I'm going to flirt back and see how she reacts then go from there. She's also my friend on FB, but either she doesn't remember that I am or she doesn't want to say shyt because her BF is on there too so I might just "Like" something on her page and wait for an response :manny: I know you're not suppose to shyt where you eat but I have a feeling she might drop that nikka for me, only downside is that the nikka will know where I work :ufdup:. Sorry for the long ass novel brehs, blame the inexperience :guilty: just need some advice
 

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So I'm back in here brehs with a new development. So there's this thick Spanish broad at my job (Grocery store) who I think is feeling me. I'm dumb as fukk when it comes to women dropping hints and shyt so I don't know if she's really fukking with me like that or just being friendly. Here's some examples I noticed today...

- I see her behind the register and she stares at me, smiles, then says "Hey Brandeezy" in her sexy ass voice :noah: still staring as I walk away. She does this pretty much every time I see her

- She was going around sweeping the store and I accidentally dropped something in my dept. She says "Oh my god, why are you making a mess for me :youngsabo:" I say some slick shyt back, she laughs, smiles then walks away.

- Ask her for a pen, she gives it to me then I give it back and she says "Omg finally" then I swear she tried to grab my hand or some shyt (It was awkward lol)

- Before I leave work she says "Brandeezy where are you going :to: why do you have to go" we go back and forth then she stares at me and says "How old are you again?" (I'm 23, she's 18 turning 19 in Aug) we chop it up from there, say goodbye and I bounce.

The thing is that she has a BF (I think they recently started dating this year), so I don't really try to flirt back with her and shyt but if this shyt continues idk brehs :sadbron: I might have to go ahead and get it popping :takedat:. The thing is that my co-worker said that she asked him out when they were at training even though she had a BF so I don't think they're that serious. Tomorrow I'm going to flirt back and see how she reacts then go from there. She's also my friend on FB, but either she doesn't remember that I am or she doesn't want to say shyt because her BF is on there too so I might just "Like" something on her page and wait for an response :manny: I know you're not suppose to shyt where you eat but I have a feeling she might drop that nikka for me, only downside is that the nikka will know where I work :ufdup:. Sorry for the long ass novel brehs, blame the inexperience :guilty: just need some advice



If she's doing that to her boyfriend now, what do you think will happen to you when you get involved with her? shes young and and immature, and she's all about finessing you nikkaz for the time being. She already tried to kick it with your co worker :what:

If you just tryna hit, than so be it, just be prepared for whatever comes with that.
 

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If she's doing that to her boyfriend now, what do you think will happen to you when you get involved with her? shes young and and immature, and she's all about finessing you nikkaz for the time being. She already tried to kick it with your co worker :what:

If you just tryna hit, than so be it, just be prepared for whatever comes with that.

Translation:

Take advantage accordingly brehs :jawalrus:
 

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She'll end up playing both of you. One, don't sleep with women at your work. Two, if a woman has a man and drops him for you, she will do the same thing to you. Enjoy the little ego boost that her flirting gives you, but steer clear of her.
 

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just need some advice

She's just a flirt using you to boost her ego and nothing more. There's women twice her age who act like that.

Just KIM. You don't wanna mess with chicks at your workplace only for your job to be put in jeopardy and for the woman's dude to wanna come at you on some beefing shyt while she just laughs from the sidelines.

Plenty of other chicks out there.
 

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She's just a flirt using you to boost her ego and nothing more. There's women twice her age who act like that.

Just KIM. You don't wanna mess with chicks at your workplace only for your job to be put in jeopardy and for the woman's dude to wanna come at you on some beefing shyt while she just laughs from the sidelines.

Plenty of other chicks out there.

Yeah, that's the plan. I'm thinking too much of it, I think she's bored honestly
 

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its sad but for most women thats how it goes, you talk to chicks and whenever they bring up their ex their a a$$hole they abused them, they treated em bad, you notice they never mention the decent guys they dated that they cheated on?

Most certainly have. This is indicative of many women who hold such men in high regard. As we know, when a woman holds a man in high regard, she will be very respectful of him and therefore will be very hesitant to disrespect him or even leave him no matter what. Also if the man ended the relationship for whatever reason, she will continue to pine after him and speak highly of him the majority of the time if he was the type to treat her like shyt. But it is the complete opposite when women dealing with dudes who do not treat them like shyt. Insane.

Again, women have shown that they enjoy and respect disrespectfulness from men and that they despise any display of respectfulness. So in my opinion, being that completely dirty, disrespectful, fukk 'em and chuck 'em type of dude since it is obvious I will be respected more by women for being that way as opposed to the decent human being I have been raised to be.
 

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I was out with friends last night, there was this cute chick from toronto everything was cool until her cousin mention her ex then she started crying come to find out the guy has a baby mama, cheated on her, it was 2 years ago she still not over him :snoop:



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I was out with friends last night, there was this cute chick from toronto everything was cool until her cousin mention her ex then she started crying come to find out the guy has a baby mama, cheated on her, it was 2 years ago she still not over him :snoop:



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Not surprising, I bet he could get in those pants whenever he wants as well

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Again, women have shown that they enjoy and respect disrespectfulness from men and that they despise any display of respectfulness.

They do like respect and kindness at times... but yes. I can go back and hit most of the chicks I've shytted on in the past. The ones who I was nice to would make me put in work. Society messes w their minds since elementary school. I feel bad for bytches.
 

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They do like respect and kindness at times... but yes. I can go back and hit most of the chicks I've shytted on in the past. The ones who I was nice to would make me put in work. Society messes w their minds since elementary school. I feel bad for bytches.

the women that do like respect adn kindness are the wifeable types, the types you find volunteering etc.

most women feed off attention, confrontation and drama.
 
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