We have 800 pages of information on how to deal with women. That right there should tell you the extent of the 'problem.'
The real problem is that we are spending too much time trying to make housewives and long term relationship material out of women that really don't qualify for that, which is a massive portion of the women in this nation, and in the process we end up chasing our own tails in the process. A decent woman is often REARED as a decent woman. She is taught from an early age to respect a decent man, is taught how to follow his leadership, and is taught how to make a REAL contribution to the household. In this day and age, women were reared on neo-feminist and promiscuous trash (MTV, Sex & the City, etc., so they don't respect any kind of real male leadership and can't cook, clean or any of the feminine duties and won't really shoulder the burden of the masculine duties. Will a woman really pay the majority of the bills, give her husband spending money, etc. without complaint? I highly doubt that. Only way she'll do that is if he is her in house 'babyboy', aka thug slanging it on her... but what kind of self-respecting man really wants to be a woman's 'kept man', aka son number 2?
The vast majority of these women simply do not know how to be housewives and many of us are under the misconception that if we change OUR behavior, that they will magically start turning into sweet, feminine women that can contribute to a household. Nah, the only thing that is happening is that we're sweetening the pot for them. We've discussed 800 pages of different ways to modify our behaviors and to improve ourselves, but ultimately, what are you being rewarded with? A woman that has slept with 50 men in the past, will continue to talk to her male 'homies' with or without your consent, still will go to the club, has kids, and won't cook or clean for you unless you constantly demonstrate a value that is extremely high, and as soon as she doesn't see you that way, she's gone in the wind... likely to a guy she's been chatting with the majority of the time she was with you.
This is why I really couldn't care less about dealing with women at this point in my life. You spend all this money on clothes, cars, jewelry and obtaining knowledge for what? To procure a woman that 40 other guys already did any and everything to and that YOU as a MAN have to show her how to make basic feminine contributions to the team? Nah, screw that.
So we have to sit here and hit these women who bring very little to the table with the perfect blend of conversation (cockiness, humor, and wisdom), bring top notch leadership, constantly keep them emotionally compelled on a drama-filled rollercoaster, etc. only to receive what in return? You have to constantly play these little games like not calling back for 2 or 3 days... you have to look fresh all the time... etc., etc., and for what? The false title of a relationship? She may be 'yours' in title only, but best believe there are probably tons of other guys she is chatting to unbeknownst to your knowledge via facebook, email, twitter that she is constantly fielding and will leave you for when the offer gets sweet enough.
Real talk, save your money. Don't spend your money on extravagant clothes, don't buy any new jewelry. Don't take these broads out to dinner and just stop wasting your time trying to put on any kind of show for them. It's all for naught. Some of the best knowledge you've received in this thread is to avoid being 'played' by women so you won't end up like one of those guys who've had to give up more than half of his assets to a woman as well as continuous streams of payments. Why did I say more than half? The woman will likely get the house and the MAN is the one that has to continue paying the mortgage on it... then we factor in possible alimony, child support, etc.
Let's talk about some of the other NONSENSE. You sit and listen to your woman's problems, but you try to tell her yours and she'll conveniently find a way to excuse herself and will then start to look at you as weak. She'll complain you don't spend enough time with her and will justify that to cheat on you... but then you spend all that time with her and she'll call you clingy and justify that to cheat on you as well. If you want to spend time with her, you'll be perceived as needy. You have to make her laugh... but you're the one that usually pays for dinner and all of that, so why isn't she tasked with making YOU laugh and entertaining YOU?
Things are never straight-forward either. Here's one for you... Everything seems cool with a girl, ya'll have had excellent conversatoins, she tells you she likes you, but all of a sudden she stops responding to your texts. Instead of telling you she's not feeling you on that level, she just expects you to get 'the hint', which is nearly impossible to get because she's been acting like she was digging you for the longest... but what she is really doing is dealing with another guy while giving herself an IN to come back to you when convenient... for example if the other guy falls off or she really sees you shining, guess who mysteriously pops up and just wants to 'see how you've been,' or who mysteriously becomes unbusy. Yeah ok.
You would think if a problem came up, that you can just talk about it and it would be fixed... but that's not the case. You'll be looked at as weak for 'not taking control' or maybe 'too controlling' because you don't want a woman that's not in the club all the time while ya'll are in a relationship. Relationships nowadays have way too much unnecessary and manufactured drama. 95% of the problems men deal with when associating with women should not exist.
Honestly man, it took a while, but I've seen it for the big charade it is. We're pretty much stuck in a society in which women have been stripped of the majority of traits that make them desireable to be in a relationship with via feminism and promiscuity programming... and when it comes down to it, I'd much rather redirect my energies into something else.
My gameplan if you choose to follow it?
Look presentable but LIVE BENEATH YOUR MEANS. When you do what I'm telling you, you're not going to buy some flashy car you can barely make the payments on. Use all of this extra money that you're saving by avoiding putting on some circus show for a broad and PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS. Minimize your expenditures. You will soon have a large stream of income coming in that you can just stack and stack and put yourself in a position to have financial independence. When you have financial independence, you can actually jet on out of here when it all comes crashing down. I'm going to start posting in this thread on different philosophies I've been ruminating over in my mind.
The real problem is that we are spending too much time trying to make housewives and long term relationship material out of women that really don't qualify for that, which is a massive portion of the women in this nation, and in the process we end up chasing our own tails in the process. A decent woman is often REARED as a decent woman. She is taught from an early age to respect a decent man, is taught how to follow his leadership, and is taught how to make a REAL contribution to the household. In this day and age, women were reared on neo-feminist and promiscuous trash (MTV, Sex & the City, etc., so they don't respect any kind of real male leadership and can't cook, clean or any of the feminine duties and won't really shoulder the burden of the masculine duties. Will a woman really pay the majority of the bills, give her husband spending money, etc. without complaint? I highly doubt that. Only way she'll do that is if he is her in house 'babyboy', aka thug slanging it on her... but what kind of self-respecting man really wants to be a woman's 'kept man', aka son number 2?
The vast majority of these women simply do not know how to be housewives and many of us are under the misconception that if we change OUR behavior, that they will magically start turning into sweet, feminine women that can contribute to a household. Nah, the only thing that is happening is that we're sweetening the pot for them. We've discussed 800 pages of different ways to modify our behaviors and to improve ourselves, but ultimately, what are you being rewarded with? A woman that has slept with 50 men in the past, will continue to talk to her male 'homies' with or without your consent, still will go to the club, has kids, and won't cook or clean for you unless you constantly demonstrate a value that is extremely high, and as soon as she doesn't see you that way, she's gone in the wind... likely to a guy she's been chatting with the majority of the time she was with you.
This is why I really couldn't care less about dealing with women at this point in my life. You spend all this money on clothes, cars, jewelry and obtaining knowledge for what? To procure a woman that 40 other guys already did any and everything to and that YOU as a MAN have to show her how to make basic feminine contributions to the team? Nah, screw that.
So we have to sit here and hit these women who bring very little to the table with the perfect blend of conversation (cockiness, humor, and wisdom), bring top notch leadership, constantly keep them emotionally compelled on a drama-filled rollercoaster, etc. only to receive what in return? You have to constantly play these little games like not calling back for 2 or 3 days... you have to look fresh all the time... etc., etc., and for what? The false title of a relationship? She may be 'yours' in title only, but best believe there are probably tons of other guys she is chatting to unbeknownst to your knowledge via facebook, email, twitter that she is constantly fielding and will leave you for when the offer gets sweet enough.
Real talk, save your money. Don't spend your money on extravagant clothes, don't buy any new jewelry. Don't take these broads out to dinner and just stop wasting your time trying to put on any kind of show for them. It's all for naught. Some of the best knowledge you've received in this thread is to avoid being 'played' by women so you won't end up like one of those guys who've had to give up more than half of his assets to a woman as well as continuous streams of payments. Why did I say more than half? The woman will likely get the house and the MAN is the one that has to continue paying the mortgage on it... then we factor in possible alimony, child support, etc.
Let's talk about some of the other NONSENSE. You sit and listen to your woman's problems, but you try to tell her yours and she'll conveniently find a way to excuse herself and will then start to look at you as weak. She'll complain you don't spend enough time with her and will justify that to cheat on you... but then you spend all that time with her and she'll call you clingy and justify that to cheat on you as well. If you want to spend time with her, you'll be perceived as needy. You have to make her laugh... but you're the one that usually pays for dinner and all of that, so why isn't she tasked with making YOU laugh and entertaining YOU?
Things are never straight-forward either. Here's one for you... Everything seems cool with a girl, ya'll have had excellent conversatoins, she tells you she likes you, but all of a sudden she stops responding to your texts. Instead of telling you she's not feeling you on that level, she just expects you to get 'the hint', which is nearly impossible to get because she's been acting like she was digging you for the longest... but what she is really doing is dealing with another guy while giving herself an IN to come back to you when convenient... for example if the other guy falls off or she really sees you shining, guess who mysteriously pops up and just wants to 'see how you've been,' or who mysteriously becomes unbusy. Yeah ok.
You would think if a problem came up, that you can just talk about it and it would be fixed... but that's not the case. You'll be looked at as weak for 'not taking control' or maybe 'too controlling' because you don't want a woman that's not in the club all the time while ya'll are in a relationship. Relationships nowadays have way too much unnecessary and manufactured drama. 95% of the problems men deal with when associating with women should not exist.
Honestly man, it took a while, but I've seen it for the big charade it is. We're pretty much stuck in a society in which women have been stripped of the majority of traits that make them desireable to be in a relationship with via feminism and promiscuity programming... and when it comes down to it, I'd much rather redirect my energies into something else.
My gameplan if you choose to follow it?
Look presentable but LIVE BENEATH YOUR MEANS. When you do what I'm telling you, you're not going to buy some flashy car you can barely make the payments on. Use all of this extra money that you're saving by avoiding putting on some circus show for a broad and PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS. Minimize your expenditures. You will soon have a large stream of income coming in that you can just stack and stack and put yourself in a position to have financial independence. When you have financial independence, you can actually jet on out of here when it all comes crashing down. I'm going to start posting in this thread on different philosophies I've been ruminating over in my mind.
, I don't club, drink, he'll I rarely swear. I know I'd make a good husband, father. But for what? There is no reward anymore. 
but I really don't think chicks for the most part can't keep control of their emotions. Especially around their cycle. they go thru emotional highs and lows all the time and use the ever easily attainable, male attention to at least maintain a high state 
or when emotional they'll hit a low over something trivial and be super depressed. and of course the temper tantrums.
apologizing and shyt. the way she described her night it sounded like bruce banner turning into the hulk n shyt 
and still win off that alimony
