Mane it comes down to being too much work for no benefit. That's like being offered a job where I have to put in 80 hours a week for 2 dollars an hour and am expected to give my all every hour I'm on the job. Cats are trying to figure out the perfect combination of behavior to get a woman to act like a decent person when the woman probably got her nudes on 3 or 4 different guys phones, has a roster count of over 20, can't cook, won't clean, etc. You do all these little tips and techniques and you got yourself a lil relationship with this woman but she's still talking to all kinds of negroes, aka 'homies' and 'male cousins'. What are ya'll running this marathon race for? What kind of prize do you win at the end of the day jumping through all these hurdles to have a broad pay you a lil mind?
What I'm basically saying, is if a woman flakes, so what? You just avoided yourself a problem right there. What makes her so doggone special that you need to figure out the secret formula to make her start taking interest in you and wondering what secret technique you didn't perform correctly? And what is she bringing to the table that you even have to consider putting up with any of her nonsense, especially her little tests? You do all this, you're in a relationship, babygirl gets 'busy' out the blue and you find out she's been messing with another man, which is what 'i'm busy' or 'work and school got me so tired' is a euphenism for 8 times out of 10. You put in all that work, did all those techniques, and what do you eventually end up with? Nothing but more headaches and time and money down the drain. If she flakes, don't try to figure her out. Get at another woman. She comes with these lil games, tell her to get her mind right, and if she doesn't heed that warning, tell her to get in the wind.
That's my problem with a lot of that pick up artist stuff. Their whole existence is based upon validating themselves by how much vagina they can jump off into and they craft their whole persona around how they can jump through these little hoops women present in their path to getting them some.
Coochie hound type cats will do just anything and accept all kinds of behavior just to 'get some.' They are steady 'reacting' to women, looking for the latest behavioral modification technique they can do in reaction to what the woman is doing to slowly open her up so they can 'get the lay.' I don't have the time nor desire to play these little games to get a piece of your time. Your coochie or your attention isn't nowhere near worth the satisfaction I get from being me. If I got to craft this new persona to deal with some particular woman, I won't deal with her.
Me personally, I have a very low tolerance for dealing with people that like to screw around and play little games. To me, a woman's behavior is WAY more important than anything else. So when a question comes up of what do I do in this or that situation or how do I react to this girl? What I say is tell her to bring her little butt on, and if she doesn't get with it, boot her and keep it pushing. You don't have to put up with garbage behavior, and it has nothing to do with adopting that attitude because 'women like that! it turns them on to find a man that doesn't tolerate games!" Man who cares what she likes? Demand proper behavior because you are worthy of receiving it as a man who treats others decently.
What I'm basically saying, is if a woman flakes, so what? You just avoided yourself a problem right there. What makes her so doggone special that you need to figure out the secret formula to make her start taking interest in you and wondering what secret technique you didn't perform correctly? And what is she bringing to the table that you even have to consider putting up with any of her nonsense, especially her little tests? You do all this, you're in a relationship, babygirl gets 'busy' out the blue and you find out she's been messing with another man, which is what 'i'm busy' or 'work and school got me so tired' is a euphenism for 8 times out of 10. You put in all that work, did all those techniques, and what do you eventually end up with? Nothing but more headaches and time and money down the drain. If she flakes, don't try to figure her out. Get at another woman. She comes with these lil games, tell her to get her mind right, and if she doesn't heed that warning, tell her to get in the wind.
That's my problem with a lot of that pick up artist stuff. Their whole existence is based upon validating themselves by how much vagina they can jump off into and they craft their whole persona around how they can jump through these little hoops women present in their path to getting them some.
Coochie hound type cats will do just anything and accept all kinds of behavior just to 'get some.' They are steady 'reacting' to women, looking for the latest behavioral modification technique they can do in reaction to what the woman is doing to slowly open her up so they can 'get the lay.' I don't have the time nor desire to play these little games to get a piece of your time. Your coochie or your attention isn't nowhere near worth the satisfaction I get from being me. If I got to craft this new persona to deal with some particular woman, I won't deal with her.
Me personally, I have a very low tolerance for dealing with people that like to screw around and play little games. To me, a woman's behavior is WAY more important than anything else. So when a question comes up of what do I do in this or that situation or how do I react to this girl? What I say is tell her to bring her little butt on, and if she doesn't get with it, boot her and keep it pushing. You don't have to put up with garbage behavior, and it has nothing to do with adopting that attitude because 'women like that! it turns them on to find a man that doesn't tolerate games!" Man who cares what she likes? Demand proper behavior because you are worthy of receiving it as a man who treats others decently.
, you date a chick whose been in abuse, complaining about her ex hes horrible he hit me, he put a gun to my face he punched me in the eye i ran to a womens shelter it was that bad (ive been in thsi situation) you feel bad, you hug her dont worry ill never treat you that bad, you stumble across her fb page and find out that nikka is hitting it still 
), he lowered my self esteem, was always messing around with other girls i finally got the courage (
) and walked away
