Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

how is having sex in anyway comparable to armed robbery? you make no sense. sex is fun, so how is having a lot of sex wrong if you take the necessary precautions?

of course you would compare it in a literal sense



As far as wifing a woman goes, no nikka wants a girl who's been smutted out



the same way no company wants a nikka with a violent criminal background




you understood what i meant but instead of coming back with a logical response you nitpicked at the comparison i used


so im just gonna assume you're trolling

 

[Turbulent]

also the reason some dudes feel some way about it is that the girls decided to fukk 89 other dudes before you and they got it easy. then when it's your turn, she expects you to be her boyfriend (with the good and the bad that comes with that, responsibility, leadership, providing guidance, etc) and put in work while the dudes before you got the same value with no work put in? (and maybe they got even more devotion from her??)

 

[T-K-G]

also the reason some dudes feel some way about it is that the girls decided to fukk 89 other dudes before you and they got it easy. then when it's your turn, she expects you to be her boyfriend and put in work while the dudes before you got the same value with no work put in? (and maybe they got even more devotion from her??)

so true



if i can't get it as easy as i last man i dont want it

 

[karim]

most of the judging comes from other women.

let me put it to you this way. Women smut guys too. the difference is that women smut guys emotionally. guys try to fukk as many girls as possible because it's like a conquest. Girls have that drive to conquer as well but their way of conquering is to make a guy submit his devotion to her. the more attention she can get without giving it up, the more she is conquering. Just like a dude who can get lots of ass from different girls without giving love, they try to get lots of love from many guys without giving ass. So in essence, it's a false double standard. Sucker for love dudes are like "sluts" to girls cause they give up their attention and devotion easy. They are judged on this, ridiculed, etc (eventhough these guys are not giving up sex). Girls despise them and men dislike them because they are "messing up the game". We get judged on that eventhough we don't judge women who love dudes and are loyal to them without giving ass.

this is true, but that doesn't counter my argument.

woman avoid giving ass because they are judged for it in a patriarchical value system, not because they are genetically predisposed to do so. if you change the value system, you change peoples behavior. for example in scandinavia, pre-marital sex was always accepted and considered natural. as a result attitudes towards sex are different and dating is much more straight foreward.

 

[karim]

of course you would compare it in a literal sense



As far as wifing a woman goes, no nikka wants a girl who's been smutted out



the same way no company wants a nikka with a violent criminal background




you understood what i meant but instead of coming back with a logical response you nitpicked at the comparison i used


so im just gonna assume you're trolling

the logical response is that the two are not comparable. if you would have said a company doesn't want to hire you when they see on your cv that you previously had ten different employers and held no job for longer than three month you would have had an argument.

 

[T-K-G]

the logical response is that the two are not comparable. if you would have said a company doesn't want to hire you when they see on your cv that you previously had ten different employers and held no job for longer than three month you would have had an argument.

i was leaning more to the point of people being judged for unsavory backgrounds and being more upset about being judged for it than taking responsibilty


the 10 jobs thing could work as well but they both illustrate the same point so it doesn't really matter either way


you were just nitpicking

 

[karim]

i was leaning more to the point of people being judged for unsavory backgrounds and being more upset about being judged for it than taking responsibilty


the 10 jobs thing could work as well but they both illustrate the same point so it doesn't really matter either way


you were just nitpicking

i wasn't. i was saying that having a lot of sex partners doesn't necessarily translate to an unsavory background, therefore it isn't comparable to committing armed robbery.

 

[T-K-G]

i wasn't. i was saying that having a lot of sex partners doesn't necessarily translate to an unsavory background, therefore it isn't comparable to committing armed robbery.

i thought it was already established that mean do not find that attractive in women?

 

[karim]

i thought it was already established that mean do not find that attractive in women?

many men don't find this attractive in a woman, but the question is why. i would argue that for most men it is because of a social convention that measures a womans value at least in part in the amount of sex partners she had.

personally, i couldn't care less. if she fukked 100 men because she enjoyed it, more power to her. on the other hand, if she cheated in a past relationship, or slept with 100 men because of a lack of self esteem and because sex is a source of validation for her, i probably wouldn't want her. but that has nothing to do with the number of men she slept with, it's because she is unfaithful or has insecurity issues that would make a relationship with her a headache.

 

[MikelArteta]

also the reason some dudes feel some way about it is that the girls decided to fukk 89 other dudes before you and they got it easy. then when it's your turn, she expects you to be her boyfriend (with the good and the bad that comes with that, responsibility, leadership, providing guidance, etc) and put in work while the dudes before you got the same value with no work put in? (and maybe they got even more devotion from her??)

yep its a joke, like i said before i dated this broad and she wanted me to wait for sex for like 3 months to make sure i wouldnt hit it and quit, "because she was hurt in the past"

so you were sucking and letting dudes smash on the first night a week in etc. but i have to wait 3 months?

everyone drank at the well for free now its your turn and you have to pay?

 

[MikelArteta]

many men don't find this attractive in a woman, but the question is why. i would argue that for most men it is because of a social convention that measures a womans value at least in part in the amount of sex partners she had.

personally, i couldn't care less. if she fukked 100 men because she enjoyed it, more power to her. on the other hand, if she cheated in a past relationship, or slept with 100 men because of a lack of self esteem and because sex is a source of validation for her, i probably wouldn't want her. but that has nothing to do with the number of men she slept with, it's because she is unfaithful or has insecurity issues that would make a relationship with her a headache.

you couldnt care less? tsk tsk, a woman who has slept with 100 men and your number 101, why would you wife a broad like that?

 

[T-K-G]

many men don't find this attractive in a woman, but the question is why. i would argue that for most men it is because of a social convention that measures a womans value at least in part in the amount of sex partners she had.

personally, i couldn't care less. if she fukked 100 men because she enjoyed it, more power to her. on the other hand, if she cheated in a past relationship, or slept with 100 men because of a lack of self esteem and because sex is a source of validation for her, i probably wouldn't want her. but that has nothing to do with the number of men she slept with, it's because she is unfaithful or has insecurity issues that would make a relationship with her a headache.

you will never find a faithful smut, thats the point


a girl having a high body count tells you that's she's impulsive and prolly gives up the p*ssy easy, who in their right mind would want to wife a broad like that, that's begging to get played breh


now im just smashin and she's a jump-off i dont care about her body count


but i'd never make a smut my main chick

 

[MikelArteta]

you will never find a faithful smut, thats the point


a girl having a high body count tells you that's she's impulsive and prolly gives up the p*ssy easy, who in their right mind would want to wife a broad like that, that's begging to get played breh


now im just smashin and she's a jump-off i dont care about her body count


but i'd never make a smut my main chick

also

more than likely a bunch of male friends and shes smashed all of them
sex to her is just sex, she will sleep with anyone

 

[karim]

you will never find a faithful smut, thats the point


a girl having a high body count tells you that's she's impulsive and prolly gives up the p*ssy easy, who in their right mind would want to wife a broad like that, that's begging to get played breh


now im just smashin and she's a jump-off i dont care about her body count


but i'd never make a smut my main chick

nonsense. it could mean she is impulsive, it could mean she has self esteem issues, it could mean she just enjoys sex.

also

more than likely a bunch of male friends and shes smashed all of them
sex to her is just sex, she will sleep with anyone

most men will sleep with any woman when they are single, that doesn't mean they are not faithful when they are in a relationship. some of them are, some of them aren't. that is because sex is only one aspect of a relationship, and people getting into a relationship don't simply do so in order to have somebody they can regularly sleep with.

 

[Jahmal]

I really hate taking women out on dates until after I have had sex with them.

I remember when I first moved to Atlanta I took a chick out 6 times(dinner twice,bowling,movies, drinks/dave and busters,concert ) and when I finally got her back to my place and tried to kiss her she gave me the "I'm not ready" speech. I stopped chillin with her after that and later found out that she had a boyfriend and was using me for attention and free meals. Spent like $400 on her and didnt even get a kiss. Ever since then I've been ruthless. Pick them up, bang them at the crib and drop them off.