Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's where you :ufdup:

You have to be cold and hit and dip. You start cuddling in bed and having her cook for you, that's where it gets messy.

Yep you're exactly right. I started spending a little too much time over there & even stayed the night a few times :snoop:

I'll admit, I fukked up bad. :why:

I'm just gonna have to actually put some work in the rest of the summer & try to rebuild my roster. Sometimes good p*ssy be clouding a gneeguh judgement :wow:
 

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jump offs are always temporary, because deep down all broads want committment.

Jump offs are like buy now pay later furniture

I know. The sad part is I've been down this road before. I just fell off & started thinking dumb shyt like maybe this chick will be different than the others. Not proud to admit it, but it is what it is :wow:

Sometimes you know damn well that you're wrong, but you still just need someone to actually tell you you're wrong, you know what I mean?
 

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OG's still holding down this thread for the young/naive bucks.


Good shat. Have been dealing with my own thangs. Life is good.


To the younger unit; by the end of the day, all this advice is gold. To know it,
understand it, harness it and apply it is golden.

But experience trumps everything.

A good combo of the aforementioned and whatever your 99 problems are...


females won't be any one of them (well, at least this thread reduces it like crazy,
so it may be half of one if any).


Good luck fellas.


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I know. The sad part is I've been down this road before. I just fell off & started thinking dumb shyt like maybe this chick will be different than the others. Not proud to admit it, but it is what it is :wow:

Sometimes you know damn well that you're wrong, but you still just need someone to actually tell you you're wrong, you know what I mean?

yup

and just because she cooks and clean doesnt mean anything breh, all women will do anything when they like you and want you.

ive had chicks offering 3somes, buying me ish and all that back in the day,

ive said it before every broad will give you the puzz 3 times before the so what are we, i feel like a slut doing this, if were not going to be in a relationship this will stop etc.
 

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I know. The sad part is I've been down this road before. I just fell off & started thinking dumb shyt like maybe this chick will be different than the others. Not proud to admit it, but it is what it is :wow:

Sometimes you know damn well that you're wrong, but you still just need someone to actually tell you you're wrong, you know what I mean?



You enjoy the sex, may be attracted to her... but not to the point where you'd want a relationship with her.

Truth is, you feel like you could do better, hence, why she's jump off status.

You don't have to tell her that you ain't down for her like that, but she hates playing second fiddle to your main band camp.


She's close to giving you an ultimatum but depending on how low her self esteem is, she'll keep herself around in hopes of
establishing something with you.

By then, you either bounce or committ (either way, possible fatal attraction).


The choice is yours.
 

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I really think I'm what women hate, a educated black man with a job, a upper middle class upbringing, living in the burbs, a car, no criminal record, no children out of wedlock. Who portrays a fatherly side with his two nieces and god son, whose always nice, single mom with cupboards bare, yeah ill buy some groceries but nope not interested in dating, or getting sexual favors.


But i don't care about dating, relationships, marriage.
 

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yup

and just because she cooks and clean doesnt mean anything breh, all women will do anything when they like you and want you.

ive had chicks offering 3somes, buying me ish and all that back in the day,

ive said it before every broad will give you the puzz 3 times before the so what are we, i feel like a slut doing this, if were not going to be in a relationship this will stop etc.

Good point. Yeah she basically was just trying to plant the seed with that text today, but I know that's my cue to end it before it gets messy. Probably just gonna get that farewell smash in this weekend & then hit the :stylin:all the way back to the car.
 

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Good point. Yeah she basically was just trying to plant the seed with that text today, but I know that's my cue to end it before it gets messy. Probably just gonna get that farewell smash in this weekend & then hit the :stylin:all the way back to the car.

beware of farewell smashes strap up
 

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1.1 'TRUE' LOVE
Imagine a film script containing the following scene:

Sun, sea, a deserted beach, a man, and a woman.

The man Darling, you're so quiet. Anything wrong?
The woman It's nothing.
He Come on, tell me, what is it?
She I don't know how to make you understand.
He How to make me understand what?
She (After a pause) I want to leave you.
He Another man?
She Yes.
He Are you sure you love him?
She Yes.
He More than you love me?
She I can't go on without him.
He (Puts his arm around her) How wonderful.
She What did you say?
He I said, that's wonderful. Go ahead — with him.
She You're glad?
He Why shouldn't I be?
She Then you no longer love me?
He On the contrary.
She You still love me?
He I love you, so I want you to be happy. What did you expect?



At this point in the scenario, if not sooner, the producer reading it picks up his phone and dials the author.

'Are you out of your mind?' he asks. He had ordered a love scene, but this certainly was no imaginable love scene, was it? In a real love scene the man would at this point crack his wife's skull, or at least give a good imitation of doing it. Then, he would leap into his car, drive off with tires screeching, to beat up his rival.

But the author is not inclined to make any changes. If the man really loves his wife, he would behave as outlined in the script. True love is selfless by definition.

If the producer is willing to debate the matter, the discussion would presumably turn on their being two kinds of love: forgiving or vengeful, self-sacrificing or possessive, the love that gives or the love that takes...

Is it so? Are there really two kinds of love, opposite in nature, between a man and a woman? Or is only one of these the real thing, the other a fake?

How is it possible that an experience every adult must have had at least once in his life, a phenomenon thoroughly explored by generations of psychoanalysts, the favorite age-old theme of writers, composers, artists, can still be the subject of so much misunderstanding?

What is love?


The Polygamous Sex
 

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bytches always gotta catch feelings man :to:

I'm still i nthe player mode of my life right now. I let woman know when I first meet them that I'm dealing wit 3-4 other women at any given time. So they accept it at first and then 2 months down the road they get upset because I'm not taking them out to dinner or spending quality time with them. I've come to realize that most of the women I meet will only be in my life a for a few months.
 

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I'm still i nthe player mode of my life right now. I let woman know when I first meet them that I'm dealing wit 3-4 other women at any given time. So they accept it at first and then 2 months down the road they get upset because I'm not taking them out to dinner or spending quality time with them. I've come to realize that most of the women I meet will only be in my life a for a few months.

Yeah it's a tough life after awhile so enjoy it while you can. I used to be able to handle it flawlessly also, but now I don't have a lot of time to keep a bunch of chicks on ice. If I have 2 chicks on rotation at any one time then I'm feeling pretty good.
 
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