Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113
^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!"
This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.
Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.
shyt is sad in today's society
WTF are you talking about?
WTF are you talking about?
my bad breh.....lets defend that picture of Obama getting disrespected and laughing about it......my bad breh
my bad breh
So you're really saying that Obama needs to learn something from that picture? Really?
When it comes down to it, the treatment you get from women is consistent with what you let them get away with or will tolerate. You tolerate or let them talk down on you and talk to you crazy, that's the kind of behavior you're going to get from now on. You tolerate flaking, that's what you're going to get from now on. You tolerate her putting hands on you, that's what you're going to get. Respect is everything when it comes to women.
http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113
^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!"
This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.
Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.
shyt is sad in today's society
what was he supposed to do? slap them? he is the fukking president, doing anything but shrugging it off would have made him look petulant and weak.
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Did you mean simping? If so yes it is.
On some level, I just feel like it's gotta be effortless. I get making sure your ish is tight, you got yourself together and all of that because you never know when you meet someone you're going to want to get at... but I've seen far too many instances where I'm like, so and so likes so and so for him/her. Like you don't have to change unless your mate makes you want to change of your own volition. As other posters have said, making sure you're on your game physically, emotionally, spiritually is essential, but a part of me is like... as you are right now, so long as you've got a positive disposition/mindset about you, somebody out there would be feeling that.
And that apathy stuff can work something fierce. One of my boys always tells me that perhaps my greatest strength is that I don't dictate that people like me.
If y'all think I'm wrong, feel free to say so. I've been reading this gospel of a thread for some time now, and any debate/different takes on it would be fantastic.
And that apathy stuff can work something fierce. One of my boys always tells me that perhaps my greatest strength is that I don't dictate that people like me.
If y'all think I'm wrong, feel free to say so. I've been reading this gospel of a thread for some time now, and any debate/different takes on it would be fantastic.
basically the way i see it too. i just try to stay open to opportunities (women, money, friendships, etc), aware of my surroundings and just try to be ready at all time to be chosen. cause you don't know when the moment will come. If you stay ready you ain't gotta get ready. like you said, both presentation wise, mental sharpness wise and even logistics wise, stay ready to where you're not even stressing about when it should happen. everything is on autopilot and once she chooses you you just make her fit in your already established framework. as long as she chooses first she'll be down with whatever framework you operate on.
This might be a dumb question and even obvious answer but.......say if you and a woman were having a good conversation for 10 minutes or so. You then ask for her number then she says "I'm not allowed to give out my number", do I take it as she has someone or she just wasn't interested,even though she gave off signals like she was?
She wasnt interested...She just used you for an ego boost.
I've just been getting really intoxicated as of late, and doing what I want, saying whatever, and not caring about the aftermath as much. Not exactly a healthy practice, but fukk it. I woke up this morning feeling slightly regretful, then I just said, fukk it. I know my drunk self is sloppy and obnoxious and sporadic, but I don't care anymore. Thinking about past instances is too draining, it depletes the energy too much.
Two nights ago, I went on a date with this girl, I think I might've told you guys, it was when I got that text message from this other girl about playing pool. Anyways, before the date, I drank a lot of gin, a lot of fukking gin. I was hammered, brehs. I reached blackout, delirious status quickly. I do not remember what the fukk I said or did towards the end of the night, I know I smoked some weed, but that's it. Only other thing I remember was getting dropped off home. The next day, my typical, selfless side of me said "apologize to that girl for your state last night", but then I said, fukk that! She tried to guilt trip me into going on that date with her, and I'm not attracted to her, so I said fukk it. I don't owe this broad shyt. I don't owe anybody any fukking thing. Me being courteous and cordial and thoughtful of others hasn't exactly granted me much reciprocation so I said fukk that bytch. I didn't message her. If anything, hopefully my intoxication level turned her off and turned her away from me. I mentioned my low libido and oddly low sex drive on the date, too.
It's like a heel turn for me in life. I'm kind of enjoying this.
Two nights ago, I went on a date with this girl, I think I might've told you guys, it was when I got that text message from this other girl about playing pool. Anyways, before the date, I drank a lot of gin, a lot of fukking gin. I was hammered, brehs. I reached blackout, delirious status quickly. I do not remember what the fukk I said or did towards the end of the night, I know I smoked some weed, but that's it. Only other thing I remember was getting dropped off home. The next day, my typical, selfless side of me said "apologize to that girl for your state last night", but then I said, fukk that! She tried to guilt trip me into going on that date with her, and I'm not attracted to her, so I said fukk it. I don't owe this broad shyt. I don't owe anybody any fukking thing. Me being courteous and cordial and thoughtful of others hasn't exactly granted me much reciprocation so I said fukk that bytch. I didn't message her. If anything, hopefully my intoxication level turned her off and turned her away from me. I mentioned my low libido and oddly low sex drive on the date, too.
It's like a heel turn for me in life. I'm kind of enjoying this.
i'd take it as a sign that i need to move on to the next one. what difference does it make if she has a boyfriend or not, if she was interested but fronting or if she just wasn't interested? fukk playing sherlock holmes, she said she's not allowed to give her number so i'd figure i'm not getting the number. nice meeting you, peace out.
Breh this chick at my job really just got me like 
I know the inevitable "don't dip your pen in company ink" or "Don't shyt where you eat" posts will ensue but this is a job I'm not looking to stay at for much longer.
First it started like a few months ago I'd say in April when she started there. She'd be all talkative to me and showing me interest. I seeing that, immediately took it as a go signal and started flirting lightly with her. Well one day out the blue her friend who also works there was in the front office with me and the girl. I ask the girl for a dollar(playing) and her friend was like "fatboi, she wants you to fukk the shyt out of her before and then she'll give you the doller." I'm like
"cool but yea about that dollar."
Fast forward like a few months later I asked for her number one day while at work and she texted me that same day while we still working like "Can u keep a secret?"
I'm like "Yea, I don't kiss and tell" Yadda yadda and she asks me if I want to kiss her. I think I said I could do that. She then started getting more sexual like she want me to bite her butt too "lol". So from then on she starts callin me boo at work in front of the other cats and the manager(a chick) plays along too callin me her "ex" and other funny shyt.
Now the thing that confuses me is since then occasionally she'd be giving me mixed signals. She'll text me or ask me to call her when I'm leaving work and we'd text a little but it be really explicit and then when I try to tell her she's bluffing she say she serious. I try to get her to slide to the house and she like nah my cousins and shyt live there too since my cousins also work at my spot(a big hotel with different businesses.)
She then said I could come to her house since she was about to move into her own spot which she did already. Since then I haven't went into her house but I took her home one day from work since she lives real close to the job and her house is in the same direction to where I drive. She again still in that "boo" mode outside of work so I take it that she's serious.
The funny thing is one day I text her saying I'ma come through the next night and she better not make excuses and she like "ok" "Fatboi we not havin sex" and I just was like thats wassup. I told her it's so available but w/e. She then said oh we just cool and we just flirting blah blah. At work this chick sees me and be hugging me(i never see her hug anyone else in there although it's a small job) and she always notice when I ignore her. Now recently last night I just texted her out the blue and she was on some one word reply shyt.
I tell her cool i see how she is and told her I'll hit her up another time I gotta go call someone. She like "Lol u crazy" and then told me she don't care. I told her she think she the shyt and she call me like who am i talking to? She didn't ask me in a angry manner but more so in a puzzled fashion. I tell her I'm playing and she like ok well she'll see me tmrrw at work but I was off today. I then texted her back like "fukk outta here" and she text me back like "look u crazy", ,"u takin it too far," "We just cool and flirtin" "u acting like we had sex...relax", "no more flirtin between us, ok lil nigg". I ain't even reply to that shyt. This chick seems like a chick who love the attention.
The shyt that kills me is SHE initiated all this sextin and explicit flirting and then has the nerve to tell me this shyt. I deleted her number and text so I can't even respond to her now. I was just tryna hit it but all this dumb shyt she doing makes me think she just fukking playing. The thing that befuddled me is she at times done shyt showing me she liked me such as tellin me to call her and then CALLING ME when I don't, saying she misses me(one time she did that) and some other shyt. 
Sorry for the length and hasty post but It was just something I felt like sharing. There may be a few key details missing so I'll elucidate if needed.
I know the inevitable "don't dip your pen in company ink" or "Don't shyt where you eat" posts will ensue but this is a job I'm not looking to stay at for much longer.First it started like a few months ago I'd say in April when she started there. She'd be all talkative to me and showing me interest. I seeing that, immediately took it as a go signal and started flirting lightly with her. Well one day out the blue her friend who also works there was in the front office with me and the girl. I ask the girl for a dollar(playing) and her friend was like "fatboi, she wants you to fukk the shyt out of her before and then she'll give you the doller." I'm like
"cool but yea about that dollar."Fast forward like a few months later I asked for her number one day while at work and she texted me that same day while we still working like "Can u keep a secret?"
I'm like "Yea, I don't kiss and tell" Yadda yadda and she asks me if I want to kiss her. I think I said I could do that. She then started getting more sexual like she want me to bite her butt too "lol". So from then on she starts callin me boo at work in front of the other cats and the manager(a chick) plays along too callin me her "ex" and other funny shyt.
Now the thing that confuses me is since then occasionally she'd be giving me mixed signals. She'll text me or ask me to call her when I'm leaving work and we'd text a little but it be really explicit and then when I try to tell her she's bluffing she say she serious. I try to get her to slide to the house and she like nah my cousins and shyt live there too since my cousins also work at my spot(a big hotel with different businesses.)
She then said I could come to her house since she was about to move into her own spot which she did already. Since then I haven't went into her house but I took her home one day from work since she lives real close to the job and her house is in the same direction to where I drive. She again still in that "boo" mode outside of work so I take it that she's serious.
The funny thing is one day I text her saying I'ma come through the next night and she better not make excuses and she like "ok" "Fatboi we not havin sex" and I just was like thats wassup. I told her it's so available but w/e. She then said oh we just cool and we just flirting blah blah. At work this chick sees me and be hugging me(i never see her hug anyone else in there although it's a small job) and she always notice when I ignore her. Now recently last night I just texted her out the blue and she was on some one word reply shyt.
I tell her cool i see how she is and told her I'll hit her up another time I gotta go call someone. She like "Lol u crazy" and then told me she don't care. I told her she think she the shyt and she call me like who am i talking to? She didn't ask me in a angry manner but more so in a puzzled fashion. I tell her I'm playing and she like ok well she'll see me tmrrw at work but I was off today. I then texted her back like "fukk outta here" and she text me back like "look u crazy", ,"u takin it too far," "We just cool and flirtin" "u acting like we had sex...relax", "no more flirtin between us, ok lil nigg". I ain't even reply to that shyt. This chick seems like a chick who love the attention.
The shyt that kills me is SHE initiated all this sextin and explicit flirting and then has the nerve to tell me this shyt.
I deleted her number and text so I can't even respond to her now. I was just tryna hit it but all this dumb shyt she doing makes me think she just fukking playing. The thing that befuddled me is she at times done shyt showing me she liked me such as tellin me to call her and then CALLING ME when I don't, saying she misses me(one time she did that) and some other shyt. Sorry for the length and hasty post but It was just something I felt like sharing. There may be a few key details missing so I'll elucidate if needed.