Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DreadHead P]

family, friends (the real ones), focus on your dreams and passions, hobbies, exercise, eat good, DO NOT stay in contact with her even if she tries to guilt you into it. if she tries, tell her once respectfully that you need some time alone and that you don't want to stay in contact with her (but in a respectful way). if she tries to insist, don't even reply past that. keep your head up breh

first few days, weeks, maybe even months are hard

cutting contact, getting rid of reminders and leaning on your friends and family is the best thing you can do. its a hard road but you get over it.

if you can id recommend you go away even for a weekend just clear your head, six years is a long time my longest relationship was 3 years and it took me nearly 4 years to get over it.

Good shyt brehs. I straight up told her if we giving up on what we been talkin about and planning for the last year and a half (movin to Charlotte together, she lives in va) then I need to do what I need to do to get back to where I was mentally a year and a half ago before we started this back up, where I don't worry about where she is or when the next time I'll see her will be. fukked up part is there's one thing keepin me from killing all communications and that's that we share a AT&T account ( yeah I know, I effed up) so unless I just kill my line then we have to talk, at least about money if nothing else, and money is the last thing you wanna have to discuss wit a chick you not even wit no more. Thinking about deleting my twitter too, that's her preferred social network so I can't get on it without seeing her tweeting her life

 

[Astroslik]

breh i havent had sex since 2011, after sleeping with like 14 women between 2010-2011

But these incoming freshman got a nikka like

 

[MikelArteta]

Good shyt brehs. I straight up told her if we giving up on what we been talkin about and planning for the last year and a half (movin to Charlotte together, she lives in va) then I need to do what I need to do to get back to where I was mentally a year and a half ago before we started this back up, where I don't worry about where she is or when the next time I'll see her will be. fukked up part is there's one thing keepin me from killing all communications and that's that we share a AT&T account ( yeah I know, I effed up) so unless I just kill my line then we have to talk, at least about money if nothing else, and money is the last thing you wanna have to discuss wit a chick you not even wit no more. Thinking about deleting my twitter too, that's her preferred social network so I can't get on it without seeing her tweeting her life

yeah man put yourself first now, whether its deleting your facebook, twitter so you wont see her tweets or be reminded.

just take your time, nothing worse than staying in contacta nd see her dating etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

when you think of it the one thing us men have the power is commitment. Every women wants commitment especially if you are a decent man, giving up your commitment to soon to me is like a chick sleeping with you on the first night, thats how you should feel if you get serious with a broad after a day, a week etc. without getting to know her.

when i was talking to that broad on friday night, she was going on and telling me how being a single mom is hard, doesnt have that much time on her hand, but on the weekends she is free and she always has dates but no one wants to get serious or commit to her.

so dont give up your commitment brehs.

 

[Turbulent]

when you think of it the one thing us men have the power is commitment. Every women wants commitment especially if you are a decent man, giving up your commitment to soon to me is like a chick sleeping with you on the first night, thats how you should feel if you get serious with a broad after a day, a week etc. without getting to know her.

when i was talking to that broad on friday night, she was going on and telling me how being a single mom is hard, doesnt have that much time on her hand, but on the weekends she is free and she always has dates but no one wants to get serious or commit to her.

so dont give up your commitment brehs.

yup. it's because commitment represents your devotion and complete focus/attention to her. That shyt is like our "pussi". If you give it up easy to any chick than you're like a smut to these women and they'll just hit it a few times (favors, dates, time) and then quit it.

It's not fair though cause when women get a lot of men to profess their love to them fast and get them devoted they are considered "femme fatales" and they get much props. but when men devote their love and attention to multiple women and are sincere about it, they are considered simps and are shamed. it's such a double standard!!

 

[Mofongo]

Closing a chapter in me life. Me and the chick I been off and on wit since 07 decided to end it (again) and I honestly don't see myself doubling back again in the future. Shyts kinda hard cause I do love her we just can't be together. We're too different, we want completely different things in life, we have 2 opposite views on how relationships are supposed to be maintained, etc, we're just too different and that causes us to bump heads, I can't allow us to continue to live like that. Don't really know how to begin the process of gettin over her and gettin her out of my mind but it needs to happen soon

Letting time pass, and having that time put into good use. You know the norm, hang with family & friends, gym, hobbies etc. Heartbreak is a bytch, i know, but you'll get over it.

 

[Mofongo]

anyways brehs im going to start a blog!!

 

[Kartel13]

first few days, weeks, maybe even months are hard

cutting contact, getting rid of reminders and leaning on your friends and family is the best thing you can do. its a hard road but you get over it.

if you can id recommend you go away even for a weekend just clear your head, six years is a long time my longest relationship was 3 years and it took me nearly 4 years to get over it.

Was that the broad you were going to marry?

 

[MikelArteta]

Was that the broad you were going to marry?

yep

 

[MikelArteta]

Was that the broad you were going to marry?

yeah, i dated in those 4 years though, even loved someone more than I loved her during that 4 year time period. but what i meant is that it took me 4 years to forgive, to no longer care if she gets what she deserves, to the point i wish her the best in life wherever she is. To the point i could see her again and feel nothing. It took me 4 years to reach that pont.

 

[MikelArteta]

http://getmarriedbrehs.blogspot.ca/

hopefully ill be motivated to write brehs!

 

[Turbulent]

http://getmarriedbrehs.blogspot.ca/

hopefully ill be motivated to write brehs!

 

[Medio]

I plan on moving to Germany relatively soon. I'm as far as the same town, idk about that. I do enjoy keeping in touch, but eh I feel like if we ain't building something then lets not keep in touch. She wants to write letters and be pen pals and shyt, seems like she's more interested in communicating than I am. For example we exchanged emails the last day I was there. I was going to write her when I got home, but once I got home she had already written an email to me. Last email I got from her was asking when I'd be back in a subliminal way and how she wishes I was there so we could walk together.

As far as my life in America, I'm keeping things moving, I enjoy talking to her because she's not here, I don't get distracted, have to put up with bullshyt, I can just focus on me and getting my shyt done so I can move to Germany. Maybe I should just disregard the attention from a female altogether and just do my shyt without any thoughts of companionship or anything else. I dunno the thoughts just come up randomly at times like the "I miss her" feeling comes around, but it's not so strong so I can shake it off.

Well if you do enjoy talking to her, then i'm guessing something is going to be building. If you move to germany relatively soon I would keep in touch with her, just as long as you feel it's not a chore, do it. It's good to have some 'i miss her' feelings and feel excited to talk to her cause you know it's real like that. it sounds like she likes you and you like her, sounds fun man.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

http://getmarriedbrehs.blogspot.ca/

hopefully ill be motivated to write brehs!

This dude is calling his blog getmarriedbrehs

 

[Kartel13]

So I've been on 3 dates with this girl I met on match. First 2 dates I was as she looked

She comes to the crib last night actually looking a little but I'm still a little skeptical at getting it in. She texts me today talmbout wanting me to put the move. I'm not sure if I'm all there in terms of dating. Hopping on match was more of a way to test myself. Should I say fukk it and just give her what she wants or should I hold back on the intimacy?