Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Settle the difference for what?
If the how said she wanna break up then give her peace from the middle east.

key word was most you can do

 

[MikelArteta]

Indeed friend. This new girl Ive been seeing this past week always saying how she is happy we are hanging and having fun. she just happy i treat her good and i fukk her good. simple life.. lol

see how easy it is when a girl likes you for you, and you don't have to do 99% of the stuff you did with your ex and you treated worse.

I remember when i went to vancouver for a week, brehs I've been engaged, i've dealt with women from all over the globe but that week i've never been treated so good

 

[EA]

tell her to get lost
sometimes you have to stop throwing your pearls (niceness) before swine (exes)

I've even gone to the point of changing my number so exes can never contact me .

I've done the whole blocking thing before but she's like a damn rash and it's easier for me to just allow her to be there since I've mentally moved on but she's been trying my patience and is one move away from getting the full treatment

 

[MikelArteta]

I've done the whole blocking thing before but she's like a damn rash and it's easier for me to just allow her to be there since I've mentally moved on but she's been trying my patience and is one move away from getting the full treatment

I don't give any exes the privilege of ever contacting me, the ship sailed.

 

[MikelArteta]

yep. this is why dudes like reincar are so cold. Call him bitter but he's living off experience. Once a girl decides to break up with you theres nothing an argument or reason can fix. The most you can do is give it a day or two for emotions to calm down, try once to settle the difference and then if it doesnt work act like the girl never existed in the first place.

I'm not really cold, im nice to everyone until they disrespect me and even then I don't get angry, curse, argue, i just remove myself and don't contact again.

I pick up the signs and always stay a step ahead.
A girl is being distant with me? I'm not going to ask why, I take it as she's emotionally distancing and well I'll do the same, my mom, sister, grandma and nieces are the only women in my life who stick in my mind if I don't communicate with them for awhile.

I psychology dump/breakup/stop talking to women before they do it to me.

 

[kevm3]

Enjoy their company while they are there, but always, and I mean always be prepared for them to leave in a moment's notice. As has been said, women operate on emotion, which is unpredictable, so you never really know what a woman is going to do next. That's why you have to focus way more on what you do than the company of a woman. If she leaves, you won't sweat it too much because you are involved in so many other things you love.

 

[MikelArteta]

As well that's why I always treat everyone I mess with the best I can, I never ponder what if i ran to first base a little faster and not jogged, what if I dunked instead of the layup that I missed, no I'm dunking, no i'm running 110% to first base, there is no doubt ever in my mind that if I did something different the results would have been different. i gave it my all it wasn't appreciated or respected so shrugs

1 in 3 women will be raped at one point in their life
1 in 4 will be assaulted by their domestic partner
66% of males cheat on thier spouse /gf

i've never raped/assaulted or cheated in my life good luck brehettes

 

[MikelArteta]

Enjoy their company while they are there, but always, and I mean always be prepared for them to leave in a moment's notice. As has been said, women operate on emotion, which is unpredictable, so you never really know what a woman is going to do next. That's why you have to focus way more on what you do than the company of a woman. If she leaves, you won't sweat it too much because you are involved in so many other things you love.

Pretty much, I don't stress it or worry about it at all.
Everytime in my life over and over there has always been another woman once one is gone if I wanted. And more times than not they were better better than the lastone

 

[The Frozen One]

Man all I know is managing girls is stressful.. Even 1 is stressful to be honest, let alone multiple girls.

They make you go through so much hoops and shyt test. But the best thing you can do is stand your ground and don't be scared of losing her. You're one man and she's one girl. Do what you gotta go and if she doesn't reciprocate, then you know you tried. Move on.
Enjoy your life. On to the next one

 

[MikelArteta]

Man all I know is managing girls is stressful.. Even 1 is stressful to be honest, let alone multiple girls.

They make you go through so much hoops and shyt test. But the best thing you can do is stand your ground and don't be scared of losing her. You're one man and she's one girl. Do what you gotta go and if she doesn't reciprocate, then you know you tried. Move on.
Enjoy your life. On to the next one

key is never be afraid to walk away

its like gambling if you put like 500 dollars on a game your gonna be like because you have so much invested, so much your going to lose if you lose

but if all you bet is 5 dollars your like whatever
majority of women out there i just invest like 2 dollars in, if i lose , if i win cool
if i lose its just two dollars, if im watching the game and im losing ima just turn it off and not be stressed because i have nothing invested.

 

[kevm3]

Do things cause you want to and don't expect shyt back. Women rarely if ever remember what you do for them and pay you back. They are used to getting courted and paid for. So just charge it to the game. I was with women in serious relationships doing all that nice crap and once they got bored none of that shyt matters

And that's the gist of it. As soon as the average modern woman gets 'bored', everything is done for and you become nothing in her eyes. That's the problem in this day and age. People aren't taught to keep their emotions in check. They are taught to always chase their feelings. Everything could be lovely, but if she is bored, everything goes in the trashcan.

That's why I say take the focus off of women and do something else. Dudes are putting in all of this effort and eventually ending up with nothing. Even with all of these PUAs who apply all these techniques... what do they have to show for all of that? Some memories? You can try to do jumping jacks and backflips, but as soon as she is bored, say bye bye. Your efforts to keep her around will fail unless you want to be fall back man or a guy just getting used for resources. Once she's bored or sees an upgrade, she'll attach her mind to the next toy and you are nothing... and in reality, how do you stop someone from being bored? You can't. The closest thing to keeping the entertainment circus going is displaying sociopathic type behavior ala Ray Rice. You see how Janay Rice is still over there... in act she decided to marry him. However, if you're willing to do that to keep a woman around, you really got to reassess yourself. I'd much rather just let the woman go.

The bottom line is to just realize that we live in some screwed up times and to avoid engaging in compensating aka PUA, i'm soooo alpha type of behavior in order to accommodate the twisted desires of some of these women. No woman is worth creating a freak circus atmosphere just to keep her around, especially if it requires behaviors that can land you in jail.

 

[Jesus]

why not
I look at opportunities like that as manna from heaven, a blessing from God.
back in the day when a girl was like oh you can use my computer, right away i went to her msn chat folders and copied that to a usb stick

Damn nikka with the Splinter Cell move.

All I found were some letters to her little brother in jail and some yeast infection cream.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

I dunno guys. I struggled with being myself and I tried to change but ya can't. You are who ya are and I just gotta find someone who will appreciate that. Sometimes I still get angry about how she just turned from saying "I love you" to " I felt like I couldn't keep up the lie" that shyt hit the soul. The gut. I wanted to knock her block off but whatever man. I'm honest on here cuz whatever it's the coli I don't give a fukk. Plus you guys are pretty cool and give good advice.

I'm trying to move on and enjoy the time with new girl and not let the past spoil this but even NYC is but so big and I always run into something that reminds me. I haven't got that cut off switch to be like fukk her. Yet anyways. Everyday I get a little more detached.

 

[BrehWyatt]

You won't ever have to jump through hoops or bend over backwards for women who are really feeling you. I keep that at the forefront of my mind in the instances I deal with the opposite sex. Right now, I've fallen back on that chase big time because I'm on a paper chase/looking for a new job and trying to get myself at a better financial standing, but a woman will go out of her way to get your attention/affection if she's about you, and you don't have to do nearly as much as some people do just on random ass dates.

 

[The Frozen One]

what i have difficulties with is mainly flaking .. numerous times i've been able to get the number, have a decent conversation through text or calls and on some occasions even go on a date.. but that's as far as it gets.. and it eats up my mind where i can't let go of it.

i know posters on here will say just delete the number and move on .. it's tough when you thought you were clicking and they also reciprocated the feelings but then all of a sudden, it just disappears like you were just dreaming and none of it was real.