On a break till December 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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@BonitaChelz
@BillCosbyAteMyHomework
@Theraflu
@ModernFonzie
*****Disclaimer*****
Way too often in my past, I shed my pearls before swine, whether in friendships or in relationships. By that I mean my precious time (diamonds), my heart (emerald), my words (sapphire), even my love (rubies), all my precious rare gems towards many who just viewed it as if it was cubic zirconia. Wisdom can come from observations or through experience; the wisdom I have acquired has come mainly through experience. So these are the thoughts of a man who has been in the trenches of relationships, and after my last liaison, would have rather poured molten lava down my throat than ever get close to a woman again. A man, who was so glad to have that drama out of my life that I never wanted even the sliver of an opportunity to go back to that place of feeling anything vivacious towards a woman. A man who lived for years following two rules 1. Never get close to a woman in terms of on a emotional level. 2. If you ever break Rule 1 - never tell her how you feel. However things change, scales are removed and as a man I realize now there are a FEW women worthy of trust and admiration that carry a good rapport.
*****Disclaimer*****
And now I shall begin.....
When you think about it, it’s astonishing the extent people go to when choosing a car, apartment, house, education, job, eating habits or the medication they take. For example buying a car you take a test drive, check for any previous accidents and mechanical issues. Renting or buying a property, you get an inspector to check for any mold or structural damage. Yet for say choosing a partner people just shrug and go in. “He’s hot”, “She’s beautiful”, “I felt a spark”, “the way we met was out of a movie”, “we have so much in common”, “blah blah blah blah blah”. First off, it is natural for everyone to be attracted to their partner; however attraction should not be the only foundation on which you build with someone. One must dig deeper, because I say this unequivocally choosing the wrong partner can literally destroy your life. The most poisonous frog is also the prettiest, and history has shown us that Samson, who was the strongest man to ever walk the earth, was destroyed by selecting the wrong partner.
For men and women both, way too often they change their conduct and bend over backwards doing whatever they can to make their partner happy. This pretty gives their partner the capability to sculpt them like Play-Doh. They basically become a robotic slave with no nucleus or foundation to stand on anymore, basically the prototypical nice guy / nice girl. While traditional reasoning will tell you this is what people are supposed to do, sacrifice, put others first, it is the most unpleasant thing a person can do in a relationship. Your partner may be fond of this control at first, it may even succeed for a little while but eventually they will get bored to tears of it and lose desirability towards you because the respect is gone. The most important thing is that they respect you and view you as valuable and no one respects someone who is made of Play-Doh. An individual like that is not strong and even strong individuals are attracted to strong people. Changing who you are you for anyone will always lead to destruction, in the end you might even forget who exactly you are. It’s why for me anyone I associate with I tell them what they see in front of them is what they will get today, tomorrow, ten years from now. It’s not that I’m stubborn but I’m happy in my shy, awkward shoes and I’m comfortable with the person who I am, nobody is faultless so don't be terrified to show your imperfections and all. It may take a little longer to find somebody but when you do it will make for a much better seamless relationship.
The place where many people go wrong is putting all their stock, feelings, and trust into the wrong person. Then when it goes belly-up they are left in disarray, feeling flattened, shattered and tears rolling down their face. That is why before a man or a woman commits, they should get themselves to a position in life where they are able to depart the second they are treated erroneously. Way too many individuals end up getting tangled with people who bring them nothing but stress, drama, abuse whether physical, emotional or verbal, cheating, and just basically general mistreatment. The longer you are with someone the deeper the emotional connection; however you have to be in that setting where on an emotional level you value your self-esteem and dignity above all. The best technique to accomplish this is to build up your own life and then let a woman or a man come to you. Concentrate your “joie de vivre” on activities, goals, genuine friends etc. and the oomph that comes out of you will naturally attract someone and then you can decide who is worthy and who is not. Allow them into your life from a place of potency instead of a state of despair. Make sure they feel extremely blessed for being in your life rather than you being thankful for them giving you the opportunity.
With this in mind look for the same affection, devotion, and trustfulness that your closest friend’s exhibit. Getting to know a prospective partner as friends builds a real connection not based on mind boggling yearnings for trials and drama. Being with someone who brings peace where you can relax and enjoy yourself around them and just soak in the moments is priceless. Too many people are always picking at everything and you can never unwind around them. Not realizing if you pick at something too much you will eventually destroy it but that is how many people approach relationships. And this connects into the two core factors that you should look at to verify whether or not someone is long term relationship material. First of are they able to stick by you through the harsh times. I am not talking about the simulated performances that some people manufacture in order to keep the infatuation flowing like Niagara Falls, but the real unpleasant times that people will go through in life. Do they stand with you when money is tight or when a major calamity arises? If health or family issues arise will they still be around? Many people bail when someone falls on hard luck so someone that knows loyalty is a prize. Because it is very simple to stay when things are like a romance narrative and everything is thriving but it takes a dedicated person to stick by a person when the chips are down. Secondly, you have to look at how they deal with harmony and contentment within a union. Some people need constant commotion and excitement in order to feel passion and attraction in a relationship. They are incapable of having a healthy and happy relationship and will always get bored once the honeymoon period of tingles and joy fades.In ending,always realize in terms of a relationship or friendship that it should always add positive vibes to your life not negativity. That even as a good person, you don’t have to allow everyone into your circle, the wrong friend or partner could corrupt your character, steal your joy, make you bitter, angry, or harden your heart. So read the signs, never be afraid to say no more and never be afraid to walk away.
@BonitaChelz
@BillCosbyAteMyHomework
@Theraflu
@ModernFonzie
*****Disclaimer*****
Way too often in my past, I shed my pearls before swine, whether in friendships or in relationships. By that I mean my precious time (diamonds), my heart (emerald), my words (sapphire), even my love (rubies), all my precious rare gems towards many who just viewed it as if it was cubic zirconia. Wisdom can come from observations or through experience; the wisdom I have acquired has come mainly through experience. So these are the thoughts of a man who has been in the trenches of relationships, and after my last liaison, would have rather poured molten lava down my throat than ever get close to a woman again. A man, who was so glad to have that drama out of my life that I never wanted even the sliver of an opportunity to go back to that place of feeling anything vivacious towards a woman. A man who lived for years following two rules 1. Never get close to a woman in terms of on a emotional level. 2. If you ever break Rule 1 - never tell her how you feel. However things change, scales are removed and as a man I realize now there are a FEW women worthy of trust and admiration that carry a good rapport.
*****Disclaimer*****
And now I shall begin.....
When you think about it, it’s astonishing the extent people go to when choosing a car, apartment, house, education, job, eating habits or the medication they take. For example buying a car you take a test drive, check for any previous accidents and mechanical issues. Renting or buying a property, you get an inspector to check for any mold or structural damage. Yet for say choosing a partner people just shrug and go in. “He’s hot”, “She’s beautiful”, “I felt a spark”, “the way we met was out of a movie”, “we have so much in common”, “blah blah blah blah blah”. First off, it is natural for everyone to be attracted to their partner; however attraction should not be the only foundation on which you build with someone. One must dig deeper, because I say this unequivocally choosing the wrong partner can literally destroy your life. The most poisonous frog is also the prettiest, and history has shown us that Samson, who was the strongest man to ever walk the earth, was destroyed by selecting the wrong partner.
For men and women both, way too often they change their conduct and bend over backwards doing whatever they can to make their partner happy. This pretty gives their partner the capability to sculpt them like Play-Doh. They basically become a robotic slave with no nucleus or foundation to stand on anymore, basically the prototypical nice guy / nice girl. While traditional reasoning will tell you this is what people are supposed to do, sacrifice, put others first, it is the most unpleasant thing a person can do in a relationship. Your partner may be fond of this control at first, it may even succeed for a little while but eventually they will get bored to tears of it and lose desirability towards you because the respect is gone. The most important thing is that they respect you and view you as valuable and no one respects someone who is made of Play-Doh. An individual like that is not strong and even strong individuals are attracted to strong people. Changing who you are you for anyone will always lead to destruction, in the end you might even forget who exactly you are. It’s why for me anyone I associate with I tell them what they see in front of them is what they will get today, tomorrow, ten years from now. It’s not that I’m stubborn but I’m happy in my shy, awkward shoes and I’m comfortable with the person who I am, nobody is faultless so don't be terrified to show your imperfections and all. It may take a little longer to find somebody but when you do it will make for a much better seamless relationship.
The place where many people go wrong is putting all their stock, feelings, and trust into the wrong person. Then when it goes belly-up they are left in disarray, feeling flattened, shattered and tears rolling down their face. That is why before a man or a woman commits, they should get themselves to a position in life where they are able to depart the second they are treated erroneously. Way too many individuals end up getting tangled with people who bring them nothing but stress, drama, abuse whether physical, emotional or verbal, cheating, and just basically general mistreatment. The longer you are with someone the deeper the emotional connection; however you have to be in that setting where on an emotional level you value your self-esteem and dignity above all. The best technique to accomplish this is to build up your own life and then let a woman or a man come to you. Concentrate your “joie de vivre” on activities, goals, genuine friends etc. and the oomph that comes out of you will naturally attract someone and then you can decide who is worthy and who is not. Allow them into your life from a place of potency instead of a state of despair. Make sure they feel extremely blessed for being in your life rather than you being thankful for them giving you the opportunity.
With this in mind look for the same affection, devotion, and trustfulness that your closest friend’s exhibit. Getting to know a prospective partner as friends builds a real connection not based on mind boggling yearnings for trials and drama. Being with someone who brings peace where you can relax and enjoy yourself around them and just soak in the moments is priceless. Too many people are always picking at everything and you can never unwind around them. Not realizing if you pick at something too much you will eventually destroy it but that is how many people approach relationships. And this connects into the two core factors that you should look at to verify whether or not someone is long term relationship material. First of are they able to stick by you through the harsh times. I am not talking about the simulated performances that some people manufacture in order to keep the infatuation flowing like Niagara Falls, but the real unpleasant times that people will go through in life. Do they stand with you when money is tight or when a major calamity arises? If health or family issues arise will they still be around? Many people bail when someone falls on hard luck so someone that knows loyalty is a prize. Because it is very simple to stay when things are like a romance narrative and everything is thriving but it takes a dedicated person to stick by a person when the chips are down. Secondly, you have to look at how they deal with harmony and contentment within a union. Some people need constant commotion and excitement in order to feel passion and attraction in a relationship. They are incapable of having a healthy and happy relationship and will always get bored once the honeymoon period of tingles and joy fades.In ending,always realize in terms of a relationship or friendship that it should always add positive vibes to your life not negativity. That even as a good person, you don’t have to allow everyone into your circle, the wrong friend or partner could corrupt your character, steal your joy, make you bitter, angry, or harden your heart. So read the signs, never be afraid to say no more and never be afraid to walk away.
Youseenmywork
KING
PullOutGawd
Boosie the GOAT
Just living life
I took a little hiatus, but I'm back
Talking to 2 broads, smashed one years back
You'd be so proud, best bubble butt on a white girl I've ever seen
I'm writing again
@BonitaChelz
@BillCosbyAteMyHomework
@Theraflu
@ModernFonzie
*****Disclaimer*****
Way too often in my past, I shed my pearls before swine, whether in friendships or in relationships. By that I mean my precious time (diamonds), my heart (emerald), my words (sapphire), even my love (rubies), all my precious rare gems towards many who just viewed it as if it was cubic zirconia. Wisdom can come from observations or through experience; the wisdom I have acquired has come mainly through experience. So these are the thoughts of a man who has been in the trenches of relationships, and after my last liaison, would have rather poured molten lava down my throat than ever get close to a woman again. A man, who was so glad to have that drama out of my life that I never wanted even the sliver of an opportunity to go back to that place of feeling anything vivacious towards a woman. A man who lived for years following two rules 1. Never get close to a woman in terms of on a emotional level. 2. If you ever break Rule 1 - never tell her how you feel. However things change, scales are removed and as a man I realize now there are a FEW women worthy of trust and admiration that carry a good rapport.
*****Disclaimer*****
And now I shall begin.....
When you think about it, it’s astonishing the extent people go to when choosing a car, apartment, house, education, job, eating habits or the medication they take. For example buying a car you take a test drive, check for any previous accidents and mechanical issues. Renting or buying a property, you get an inspector to check for any mold or structural damage. Yet for say choosing a partner people just shrug and go in. “He’s hot”, “She’s beautiful”, “I felt a spark”, “the way we met was out of a movie”, “we have so much in common”, “blah blah blah blah blah”. First off, it is natural for everyone to be attracted to their partner; however attraction should not be the only foundation on which you build with someone. One must dig deeper, because I say this unequivocally choosing the wrong partner can literally destroy your life. The most poisonous frog is also the prettiest, and history has shown us that Samson, who was the strongest man to ever walk the earth, was destroyed by selecting the wrong partner.
For men and women both, way too often they change their conduct and bend over backwards doing whatever they can to make their partner happy. This pretty gives their partner the capability to sculpt them like Play-Doh. They basically become a robotic slave with no nucleus or foundation to stand on anymore, basically the prototypical nice guy / nice girl. While traditional reasoning will tell you this is what people are supposed to do, sacrifice, put others first, it is the most unpleasant thing a person can do in a relationship. Your partner may be fond of this control at first, it may even succeed for a little while but eventually they will get bored to tears of it and lose desirability towards you because the respect is gone. The most important thing is that they respect you and view you as valuable and no one respects someone who is made of Play-Doh. An individual like that is not strong and even strong individuals are attracted to strong people. Changing who you are you for anyone will always lead to destruction, in the end you might even forget who exactly you are. It’s why for me anyone I associate with I tell them what they see in front of them is what they will get today, tomorrow, ten years from now. It’s not that I’m stubborn but I’m happy in my shy, awkward shoes and I’m comfortable with the person who I am, nobody is faultless so don't be terrified to show your imperfections and all. It may take a little longer to find somebody but when you do it will make for a much better seamless relationship.
The place where many people go wrong is putting all their stock, feelings, and trust into the wrong person. Then when it goes belly-up they are left in disarray, feeling flattened, shattered and tears rolling down their face. That is why before a man or a woman commits, they should get themselves to a position in life where they are able to depart the second they are treated erroneously. Way too many individuals end up getting tangled with people who bring them nothing but stress, drama, abuse whether physical, emotional or verbal, cheating, and just basically general mistreatment. The longer you are with someone the deeper the emotional connection; however you have to be in that setting where on an emotional level you value your self-esteem and dignity above all. The best technique to accomplish this is to build up your own life and then let a woman or a man come to you. Concentrate your “joie de vivre” on activities, goals, genuine friends etc. and the oomph that comes out of you will naturally attract someone and then you can decide who is worthy and who is not. Allow them into your life from a place of potency instead of a state of despair. Make sure they feel extremely blessed for being in your life rather than you being thankful for them giving you the opportunity.
With this in mind look for the same affection, devotion, and trustfulness that your closest friend’s exhibit. Getting to know a prospective partner as friends builds a real connection not based on mind boggling yearnings for trials and drama. Being with someone who brings peace where you can relax and enjoy yourself around them and just soak in the moments is priceless. Too many people are always picking at everything and you can never unwind around them. Not realizing if you pick at something too much you will eventually destroy it but that is how many people approach relationships. And this connects into the two core factors that you should look at to verify whether or not someone is long term relationship material. First of are they able to stick by you through the harsh times. I am not talking about the simulated performances that some people manufacture in order to keep the infatuation flowing like Niagara Falls, but the real unpleasant times that people will go through in life. Do they stand with you when money is tight or when a major calamity arises? If health or family issues arise will they still be around? Many people bail when someone falls on hard luck so someone that knows loyalty is a prize. Because it is very simple to stay when things are like a romance narrative and everything is thriving but it takes a dedicated person to stick by a person when the chips are down. Secondly, you have to look at how they deal with harmony and contentment within a union. Some people need constant commotion and excitement in order to feel passion and attraction in a relationship. They are incapable of having a healthy and happy relationship and will always get bored once the honeymoon period of tingles and joy fades.In ending,always realize in terms of a relationship or friendship that it should always add positive vibes to your life not negativity. That even as a good person, you don’t have to allow everyone into your circle, the wrong friend or partner could corrupt your character, steal your joy, make you bitter, angry, or harden your heart. So read the signs, never be afraid to say no more and never be afraid to walk away.
All truth. You're a great writer. I could have used these words many times in my life!
Papa LaBas
Pro
that kid's head takes up more than half the picture.Any REAL men ready to step up to this plate for this winner here:
Imagine going over her spot, you trying to be bout that action and that lil butterball is running around past his bedtime like a maniac and throwing tantrums. You aint seeing no parts of no ass that night. lol
her: I'm sorry. He's never like this. Can we do this another time?
you:
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Its funny how some females are with their kids Father
smARTmouf
Ascended Member
A good woman, with no kids, in her 30's. I don't think they exist...If they claim they are good women, add lying to self-serving, egotistical, and materialistic ...
SOMETHING is wrong with her....Good women don't make it to 30 without having kids unless they are deep into their profession and are all about status...
SOMETHING is wrong with her....Good women don't make it to 30 without having kids unless they are deep into their profession and are all about status...
Brandeezy
Superstar
I'm texting a broad who I matched with on Tinder and I'm not even attracted to her 
I'm only talking to her because she's the only chick i matched with in a long ass time. Meanwhile this breh at work just showed me naked pics broads are sending him 
#uglynikkaproblems brehs. Another work breh took this chick i had a crush on 
and she just started working here. I'm not built for this life brehs 
I'm only talking to her because she's the only chick i matched with in a long ass time. Meanwhile this breh at work just showed me naked pics broads are sending him #uglynikkaproblems brehs. Another work breh took this chick i had a crush on and she just started working here. I'm not built for this life brehs Dreamzeedream
Banned
I'm texting a broad who I matched with on Tinder and I'm not even attracted to her
How he take shorty at your jpb
Brandeezy
Superstar
It didn't really take her because i never really had her but I was gonna try to after her and he already did it. I told him i thought she looked cute and he was like "Yeah but i already got her number and she snap chatted me this morning
" This breh bagged a 18 y/o broad who started a couple weeks before the other girl and they don't even know about each other 
and this nikka had a baby with an ex co worker in June. againDreamzeedream
Banned
It didn't really take her because i never really had her but I was gonna try to after her and he already did it. I told him i thought she looked cute and he was like "Yeah but i already got her number and she snap chatted me this morning
Next time u see a chick u like just do u breh. Don't hesitate