Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Fatboi1]

wtf kind of situation are you into breh. is your ex living with you and inviting dudes over??

Yeah she lives downstairs from me. My cousin let her come over and move in since she broke up with her man she was living with earlier this year I heard. She got a room on the first floor of my house while I live upstairs in the third floor. Shorty already got a boyfriend. My cousin don't even really talk to her no more(U know how these females be). Shorty is no good. My cousin telling me her mom went into her room one day and saw some nikka laying on her stomach. The funny thing is the day before that she was talking to me and sitting on my lap and all that. I don't talk to her anymore though, I haven't actually seen her in days.

 

[Turbulent]

Yeah she lives downstairs from me. My cousin let her come over and move in since she broke up with her man she was living with earlier this year I heard. She got a room on the first floor of my house while I live upstairs in the third floor. Shorty already got a boyfriend. My cousin don't even really talk to her no more(U know how these females be). Shorty is no good. My cousin telling me her mom went into her room one day and saw some nikka laying on her stomach. The funny thing is the day before that she was talking to me and sitting on my lap and all that. I don't talk to her anymore though, I haven't actually seen her in days.

that's a wack move from your cousin (letting her move in in the first place). if i were you i'd move out and stay far from this negativity ASAP.

 

[Fatboi1]

that's a wack move from your cousin (letting her move in in the first place). if i were you i'd move out and stay far from this negativity ASAP.

Breh who you telling.. If I had the money I'd been move out but right now I ain't got that money and right now I ain't even working so I gotta deal with it. The way the house is I don't really run into her much since lately she been to herself and she ain't even really talking to my cousin who lives on the second floor with her folks.

My fams cool with her since she been cool with them even after I stopped going out with her. I usually stay upstairs most of the time in my room or I just go downstairs to the basement with my cousin or I'll just go outside when I got somewhere to go.

i been trying to stay away from her lately. I haven't seen her in days. My cousin told me to stop talking to her and shyt too. I fukked up because I started to get too comfy around her laying in bed with her watching movies late at night and although I never fukked I could have as she used to let me touch her physically all the time. Now though I ain't even fukkin with that no more.

 

[Turbulent]

Breh who you telling.. If I had the money I'd been move out but right now I ain't got that money and right now I ain't even working so I gotta deal with it. The way the house is I don't really run into her much since lately she been to herself and she ain't even really talking to my cousin who lives on the second floor with her folks.

My fams cool with her since she been cool with them even after I stopped going out with her. I usually stay upstairs most of the time in my room or I just go downstairs to the basement with my cousin or I'll just go outside when I got somewhere to go.

i been trying to stay away from her lately. I haven't seen her in days. My cousin told me to stop talking to her and shyt too.

if you ain't got the money that's one thing breh, i feel you. Don't mean any disrespect. but at the same time, your number one priority at this point should be to grind hard, come up with a plan to get that money and most importantly execute that plan. Don't get too comfortable into this situation to the point where you actually start believing "hey, it's not so bad...". too much comfort will rob you of the motivation to get out of that situation. not saying you need to think too negative either or start thinking this is the worst shyt in the world. it's all about balance in your mindstate.

if you were already executing that plan than to you. if not

 

[Fatboi1]

if you ain't got the money that's one thing breh, i feel you. Don't mean any disrespect. but at the same time, your number one priority at this point should be to grind hard, come up with a plan to get that money and most importantly execute that plan. Don't get too comfortable into this situation to the point where you actually start believing "hey, it's not so bad...". too much comfort will rob you of the motivation to get out of that situation. not saying you need to think too negative either or start thinking this is the worst shyt in the world. it's all about balance in your mindstate.

if you were already executing that plan than to you. if not

Right now I'm trying to look for a job regardless of the field to put some money in my pocket for the time being. After that I try to do side hustles like modding xbox 360's or do computer related gigs. I've been trying to get into an IT job and all I got is a associates but these jobs nowadays seem like they be wanting hella extra shyt like A+ certs(which I should've gotten years ago ) and other shyt. I'm 25 but I'm trying to get out this house before I'm 30.

 

[Turbulent]

Right now I'm trying to look for a job regardless of the field to put some money in my pocket for the time being. After that I try to do side hustles like modding xbox 360's or do computer related gigs. I've been trying to get into an IT job and all I got is a associates but these jobs nowadays seem like they be wanting hella extra shyt like A+ certs(which I should've gotten years ago ) and other shyt. I'm 25 but I'm trying to get out this house before I'm 30.

keep saving, keep grinding, keep your eyes and ears open for opportunity. find out what people need, find out how to get it and sell it to them. follow how money travels and what tools or knowledge you need to pick it up. money is everywhere, it's a matter of recognizing it and being ready (physically and mentally) to seize it. sounds like you're on the right path and mindset if you got a plan

 

[Urbanmiracle]

I think me and this older chick are moving super fast. Starting off just hanging, now she over at my place, wearing my t-shirts, napping on my couch, i mean, its cool if i wasn't still kinda trying to get over my ex. But the sex is great, she pays for dates, she is more mature and has her own money and place. Its all I'm looking for in a woman. She wants to have a family and all everything I want unlike my last gf. Im just not ready to commit to another person yet without getting over my ex gf yet. I want to give this girl a chance.

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

Maaaann, it would be a group of 6 chicks going to a restaurant and order only 3 entrees and all share that, and as u said- break out the calculators when it's time to pay. When with a dude they look straight for the steak main-dishes. That's why its important to deal with a chik who offers to pay. To me, that shows more dedication to her man.

Man if this aint the truth. I remember I had took this chick to ihop after chopping it up with her for a like a week and half. I paid for the meal (not following my instinct I just did it to see if it would turn out the way I thought it might turn out). Needless to say, after that day she curved me and clowned me on the low. The upcoming monday at school I was talking to my homeboy and he said what up to her as she walked behind me and I didn't say nothing to her as she did not call/text after that day. After she walked off my homeboy was like dang what you do to her she looked at you likewhen she walked behind you. On top of that she ordered like a steak omlette, which is like the most expensive thing . Probably didn't even want that shyt just got it to feel like "oh yeah i got his ass"........ My attitude at the end of it was like "welp lesson learned won't be doing that again".

 

[kevm3]

Right now I'm trying to look for a job regardless of the field to put some money in my pocket for the time being. After that I try to do side hustles like modding xbox 360's or do computer related gigs. I've been trying to get into an IT job and all I got is a associates but these jobs nowadays seem like they be wanting hella extra shyt like A+ certs(which I should've gotten years ago ) and other shyt. I'm 25 but I'm trying to get out this house before I'm 30.

Put those women on the backburner and get your life straight. If you don't have a job, you should have zero concerns about dealing with women and be 100% focused on getting your skills up. This economy is trash and you better be excellent if you want to procure a job. I haven't been around much because I've been going extremely hard with this programming. As you see, those women come and go, and they sure won't be paying your bills, so put them in the background and get your skills up and save every penny you can.

Main thing I learned in this day and age? Most women are transient. They are cool for a little while and they just disappear. No need to invest time in that, especially when the going is going to get tougher. Get things straight first and then worry about women later.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

That spot is wack. I stay away from hood spots. broke bytches make my dikk soft.

shyt was trash but I had to try it at least once. Now I know

 

[BXKingPin82]

Im fukkin with this one chick out in PA
In my whole 31 years of life I never heard a bytch say this to me...

this muthafukka said "fukk my mouth!"

She's a keeper

 

[Urbanmiracle]

It's been a few month since the break up and I have been seeing someone but sometimes the flashes still come in my head. I still think about her. Wonder how she doing. Especially this month since it's her mothers bday and hers and her moms died on her bday. The sucka/simp part of me wants to send her a card but the logical side is kinda like fukk that bytch. Some people say it's a nice gesture to send the card others are like fukk her yo. I have no idea how to handle this. Maybe I'm over thinking this crap. The Virgo in me

 

[360dagod]

It's been a few month since the break up and I have been seeing someone but sometimes the flashes still come in my head. I still think about her. Wonder how she doing. Especially this month since it's her mothers bday and hers and her moms died on her bday. The sucka/simp part of me wants to send her a card but the logical side is kinda like fukk that bytch. Some people say it's a nice gesture to send the card others are like fukk her yo. I have no idea how to handle this. Maybe I'm over thinking this crap. The Virgo in me

 

[MikelArteta]

It's been a few month since the break up and I have been seeing someone but sometimes the flashes still come in my head. I still think about her. Wonder how she doing.

it takes time, there is no set time frame, just every day you go without talking to her seeing her etc. it gets easier.

Wonder how she doing. Especially this month since it's her mothers bday and hers and her moms died on her bday. The sucka/simp part of me wants to send her a card but the logical side is kinda like fukk that bytch.

who cares how she is doing? she's no longer your gf, your friend, let the new guy whose smashing her worry about that. Send nothing unless you want to be set back to day 1. This is what happaned to my ex who i clung to for like 5 years, id cut her off then she'd be in trouble and the simp in me would here and help her out whether with words of motivation etc., then I deaded that NOT MY PROBLEM, don't cast your pearls before swine.

Some people say it's a nice gesture to send the card others are like fukk her yo. I have no idea how to handle this. Maybe I'm over thinking this crap. The Virgo in me

some people? let me guess women

there is a saying the best thign you can do is NOTHING

so do nothing

concentrate on the woman in your life now the past ones

 

[Atlrocafella]

the thing thats the worst you go out wiht a chick and she orders like a 12 dollar drink, steak, dessert and all that knowing the simp will pay.

I've gone out for work for like my birthday when folks are like they will pay for me and ill order like the cheapest thing

chicks? they going all out

That's why nikkas need to chill on all the dinners and shyt, after 1 dinner, let her make the next move, see if she's willing to spend some bread on you, or at the least cook for you. I've heard females say bluntly that they know who to call when they wanna go out to eat.