Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
the bolded is by far the most common bytches willl hit you up day and nite for attention yet freeze up when you ask to chill
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Would she cancel for denzel?
Would she cancel for trey songz?
Would she cancel for trey songz?
FreshFromATL
Self Made
possibly
but damn she be talking to me before she goes to sleep and be hitting me up with good morning texts.
anyways i'm not gon let her throw her off my grove.
shyt and I was finna miss the Oakland Raiders game cuz of her today too at least i can watch it live.
but that phone/facebook messenger shyt?
lol she can forget about that shytima take my long ass time to hit her back up if she hits me up and thats if i aint got something else rolling.
My dude don't over think it with the games and what not. If a chick is REALLY feeling you, she's gonna make every effort to be around you. Even the shyest of girls will put forth effort to get up with you. My advice, find a girl that's into you just as much as you're into her.
Just went to the dermatologist to help my acne. Noticed how every broad there had a pretty face (lol i mean i guess...since its the Derms office) But omg this one chick in the back caught my attention i felt like time froze as i looked her way and she looked up and saw my intense eye contact i gave her a smile and she smiled back and put her head down and went back to working. Anyways i have little experience with biitches but thanks to this chick I want to go out and pick up more experience with females Fail or not i need that experience so next time i run into a chick this bad i could know what to do! I plan on re-reading through most of this thread for advice as i go on
Advice relative to the situation you faced is never to be scared to approach/get rejected. if the situation is comfortable enough where you dont have to force a conversation or impose on anybody go for it!
The feeling of rejection and knowing you had the balls to approach is much better than thinking "what if
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Nuke Dukem
Da Bears
Meh.. I hate when people say this...
Are you saying the actual celebrities Denzel & Trey
Or two regular guys who look exactly like them..?
No hoe is canceling or playing games with a celeb... Now a regular dude.. Maybe lol
She wouldn't cancel for someone she viewed as valuable.
She wouldn't cancel a great job interview or ask to reschedule.
You could be her future husband for all we know
Sell yourself short brehs
She wouldn't cancel a great job interview or ask to reschedule.
You could be her future husband for all we know
Sell yourself short brehs
The point of that is to demonstrate how these women really AREN'T that busy, but they're giving you the run-around with all the busy stuff. A woman that finds you valuable will make time.
BlackAdonis
Rookie
So This chick came to a party and my apartment last week and was feeling a young pimp and shyt so I got the digits. I hit her up with the basic shyt and told her to come chill and she's like cool later in the week.
So I hit her up a few days later and told her to come kick it at my apartment and watch a movie and she hit me with the "maybe. I'll let you know"(she didn't) so I was like aight whatever and texted her cool and haven't hit her up since then. Fast forward to last night she comes thru again with some of her friends and they're drinking and shyt and I'm studying so I don't really talk to them for anything but 10 minutes but as soon as I walk out to say wassup she gets up and hugs me and shyt and is hitting the eye contact with me super hard but I'm like aight whatever. I go back in the apartment and come outside to the patio and they're talking about love and shyt and she's staring right at me this whole time so I'm like that's cool and all but I'm just tryna fukk. So they leave she hugs me again and shyt and is like I only saw you for a couple of minutes and I'm like yea maybe I'll see you again soon ill let you know and then dips. So I'm talking to my roommate afterwards and he was like yea we were talking about you when you were in your room and she said yall were supposed to chill and watch a movie but (I) never texted back when that's not what happened unless our phones fukked up. So yea I'm not sure what to do with this chick I think I'll hit her up again this week to kick it and if she doesn't she gotta go to the curb. What do yall think?
(My bad for the grammar and spelling im on my phone.)
So I hit her up a few days later and told her to come kick it at my apartment and watch a movie and she hit me with the "maybe. I'll let you know"(she didn't) so I was like aight whatever and texted her cool and haven't hit her up since then. Fast forward to last night she comes thru again with some of her friends and they're drinking and shyt and I'm studying so I don't really talk to them for anything but 10 minutes but as soon as I walk out to say wassup she gets up and hugs me and shyt and is hitting the eye contact with me super hard but I'm like aight whatever. I go back in the apartment and come outside to the patio and they're talking about love and shyt and she's staring right at me this whole time so I'm like that's cool and all but I'm just tryna fukk. So they leave she hugs me again and shyt and is like I only saw you for a couple of minutes and I'm like yea maybe I'll see you again soon ill let you know and then dips. So I'm talking to my roommate afterwards and he was like yea we were talking about you when you were in your room and she said yall were supposed to chill and watch a movie but (I) never texted back when that's not what happened unless our phones fukked up. So yea I'm not sure what to do with this chick I think I'll hit her up again this week to kick it and if she doesn't she gotta go to the curb. What do yall think?
(My bad for the grammar and spelling im on my phone.)
DeeezNuts
All Star
Quick question fellas...I met this chic and she seemed good... 33, no kids, blasian, own her own house, gotta nice job...we've been texting and talking on the phone..went out to the movies once...went out to some bs she had with her sister and that was it..but we've been texting for about a month. Now i have other women on the team but shorty here is official...she works and goes to the gym and gets home and she's "tired"...now i haven't been sweating her but its been more than a month and usually if i don't bang out a chic after my second time seeing her...then she gets thrown into the bushes...so I gave her a piece of my mind friday and basically let her know that she's not making me a priority in her life so i'm about to dead her...she hit me up saturday saying that i was right and i just went off on her ..i just ignored her all wknd and was just with my main joint...... she hit me up today(monday) and said since i went off on her, she didnt hit me up because she wanted to give me my space...said she felt a void since i ignored her all weekend...said she really like me but she just wants to take it slow...but fukk all that slow shyt..I just want to bang out and add her to the team...so the issue is though...i'm a vengeful muhfukka and since i've taken her out twice...i gotta get her back someway...so do you fellas feel its worth it or should i just say eff it and keep on pushing?
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
There's not much you can do verbally if she's saying that she wants to take it slow. Maybe hook up with her one more time and see what the vibe is like to see how slow she's intending on being with you. If her body language and actions lets you know that it could be going in the direction you want it to go at the pace you want it to go, then that's the green light. If not, at least you made a honest non-shady attempt.
1. Never think a woman is good because of outward appearances or what she offers.
1a)Great women are usually married by the age of 33 just saying.
2. You don't even know her yet all you see is what I call the movie trailer, ala just a snippet of who she really is, you see no kids, looks good, own house, decent job. But you don't know her character, if she has a "good name", etc.
1. aka she's tired to for you, again if six figure montell with the s class called up shorty to take her out after work you think she'd be tired?
2. If you never bang out a chic after your second time seeing her and she gets thrown to the bushes then why break your rules? because she's "official"? she's 33 and single sorry no matter how "hot" she is, theres a dime a dozen chicks like that in a 5 mile radius. YOu've elevated her into upper echelon status
1. You gave her the upper hand, she already knows she hasn't been making you a priority in life. If she valued you she would. See in situations like this I always say the best hting to do is just remove yourself from her presence, she doesn't view you as valuable well you won't either, you don't have to let her know, you don't have to get angry. Getting angry shows that you care she can pop up any time and reel you back in if she pleases.
2. And ah she did pop up just like I thought and has you thinking what should I do
a void? 
, take it slow (don't wanna get hurt like i did in the past ) , women follow the same script over and over again, don't view a guy as valuable, guy catches on and either withdraws or calls them out, then they pop up out of nowhere with carefully crafted words to somehow draw you in1. i agree f all the slow ish, she's 33
she has to be slow for.2. Be careful with "revenge", many dudes end up then falling due to a emotional tie being formed, but it's up to you breh if you do it. I'm the type of breh that there'st o many women out there to play games or to get back at.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
your phones aren't fukked up breh. She saw your text. Shorty just wants to feel validated and make you chase her.
Hit her up 1 more time. If her reply is anything other than yes, don't respond, delete the text and her number. Don't second guess yourself or try doing other shyt and fukk what happens afterwards. Let her come to the crib, let her ask why you ain't her up, why ya'll ain't chill and tell her you asked her to kick it twice, she wasn't with it, you lost interest and life goes on.
Even if she throws herself at you at this point, i'd reject her.
your phones aren't fukked up breh. She saw your text. Shorty just wants to feel validated and make you chase her.
Hit her up 1 more time. If her reply is anything other than yes, don't respond, delete the text and her number. Don't second guess yourself or try doing other shyt and fukk what happens afterwards. Let her come to the crib, let her ask why you ain't her up, why ya'll ain't chill and tell her you asked her to kick it twice, she wasn't with it, you lost interest and life goes on.
Even if she throws herself at you at this point, i'd reject her.
yep one more time doesn't hurt if anything else than a yes bushes. Many times women do this, I wouldn't be shocked if one of her friends with her thought you were attractive or cute so now she has to stake her claim.
its the old that nikka is ugly, then shes around her friends and there like damn ray ray is so sexy, and she'll be like you know he asked me out last week, and there like damn you so lucky and suddely shes texting ray ray hey.