Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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no harm in hitting her up again, if shes on that maybe ish again just dead it.

your phones aren't fukked up breh. She saw your text. Shorty just wants to feel validated and make you chase her. :aicmon:

Hit her up 1 more time. If her reply is anything other than yes, don't respond, delete the text and her number. Don't second guess yourself or try doing other shyt and fukk what happens afterwards. Let her come to the crib, let her ask why you ain't her up, why ya'll ain't chill and tell her you asked her to kick it twice, she wasn't with it, you lost interest and life goes on.

Even if she throws herself at you at this point, i'd reject her. :camby:

Good looking out my dudes :win: Thing is I know I'm probably gonna see her again cause she always come over with one of my roommates friends. Imma tell her to come thru and kick it but if she not down then :camby:
 

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yep one more time doesn't hurt if anything else than a yes bushes. Many times women do this, I wouldn't be shocked if one of her friends with her thought you were attractive or cute so now she has to stake her claim.

its the old that nikka is ugly, then shes around her friends and there like damn ray ray is so sexy, and she'll be like you know he asked me out last week, and there like damn you so lucky and suddely shes texting ray ray hey.
That could be true. The chick she took home the first night was feeling me too but still I'm not really into playing games and shyt with females like that.
 

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Good looking out my dudes :win: Thing is I know I'm probably gonna see her again cause she always come over with one of my roommates friends. Imma tell her to come thru and kick it but if she not down then :camby:

better yet, tell her to stay if she comes. Put her in a position where she really can't say no and if she does, you know she wasn't gonna be with it from the jump.
 

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That could be true. The chick she took home the first night was feeling me too but still I'm not really into playing games and shyt with females like that.

ah thought so

these are the games women play, if one friend in the wolfpack certifies you, you are good to go.
 

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better yet, tell her to stay if she comes. Put her in a position where she really can't say no and if she does, you know she wasn't gonna be with it from the jump.
Like stay the night? How would I go about doing that the first time we chill lol.
ah thought so

these are the games women play, if one friend in the wolfpack certifies you, you are good to go.
True.. I don't know though fam this chick weird lmao.
 

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Like stay the night? How would I go about doing that the first time we chill lol.

as in, she was gonna come over to watch a movie with you in the first place right? so when she comes with her friend over, instead of texting her telling her ya'll should chill....while she is there, tell her to stay behind that way ya'll could watch the movie since she already at your crib.
 

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Lol why is she still hitting me up(girl that cancelled on me yesterday)
man she better ask me out quick cuz as soon as that girl from Tinder I got her number comes through other bytch is :camby: or shyt may keep her as another broad to mess with.
Id tell her to stop hitting me up, but u can never be sure i guess get the most bytches a nikka can cuz not all of em will come through anyways.

One thing I know if that she keeps pressing me and acts thirsty like she want to hang out ima expect her to give it up in my car :shaq: if we eventually chill
 

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as in, she was gonna come over to watch a movie with you in the first place right? so when she comes with her friend over, instead of texting her telling her ya'll should chill....while she is there, tell her to stay behind that way ya'll could watch the movie since she already at your crib.
Oh for sure. I'm just really not sure when they're gonna come over again so I'm not gonna wait for that to happen. Plus they usually car pool when they come over so I doubt that'll happen anyways.
 

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Lol why is she still hitting me up(girl that cancelled on me yesterday)
man she better ask me out quick cuz as soon as that girl from Tinder I got her number comes through other bytch is :camby: or shyt may keep her as another broad to mess with.
Id tell her to stop hitting me up, but u can never be sure i guess get the most bytches a nikka can cuz not all of em will come through anyways.

One thing I know if that she keeps pressing me and acts thirsty like she want to hang out ima expect her to give it up in my car :shaq: if we eventually chill


women have a uncanny sense of knowing when a guy doesn't give a anymore and that's usually when the ypop up on they hey what's up etc.
 

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Oh for sure. I'm just really not sure when they're gonna come over again so I'm not gonna wait for that to happen. Plus they usually car pool when they come over so I doubt that'll happen anyways.

You seem young so I'll keep it simple: You never know unless you try.

You'd be surprise the results you get by just putting it out there. Just mention casually if she wants to sleep over, you have something for her to sleep in. Girls love that shyt and they love wearing any piece of your garment if they're into you. Don't over think the situation. I'm 30, but I remember in college I had a similar situation to yours and I didn't ask the chik to stay over, next thing I know she asked a mutual friend was I even into her and why didn't I make a move if so. She never gave me a chance to do so again :mjcry:
 

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You seem young so I'll keep it simple: You never know unless you try.

You'd be surprise the results you get by just putting it out there. Just mention casually if she wants to sleep over, you have something for her to sleep in. Girls love that shyt and they love wearing any piece of your garment if they're into you. Don't over think the situation. I'm 30, but I remember in college I had a similar situation to yours and I didn't ask the chik to stay over, next thing I know she asked a mutual friend was I even into her and why didn't I make a move if so. She never gave me a chance to do so again :mjcry:
Lol so I should tell her this in a text before she even comes over? I mean it sounds like a good idea so I'll try it. I have a really bad problem with the bolded part too. I stay overthinking things.
 

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Lol so I should tell her this in a text before she even comes over? I mean it sounds like a good idea so I'll try it. I have a really bad problem with the bolded part too. I stay overthinking things.

no. do not ever do extra shyt over texting. You save that for in person or on the phone. Your text should be as following:

you: wassup ____ everything good?

her: ye ___ hbu?

you: Everything is blessed. So about our movie night, come thru thurs night.

her: yes or can't.

**if its a can't, she has to come up with an alternative date and then let her kno you'll inform her closer to that night if you available. If she doesn't provide you with an alternative night, you simply say aight.

4-5 texts and nothing more. Now her conscious might bother her at this point, especially if she says no...so to lessen her guilt, she may try and prolong the convo into some BS. This may not happen however and she just might not say anything after you say aight...but its just a heads up.

If this happens though, i would ignore it. She just wasting your time and you a nikka with motives.

Like my breh @Emperor_ReinScarf said, if a job gave u 1 shot to prove if you worthy enough of joining da team, you think they gonna give you another chance if you say i can't today, maybe another time? apply that same rule to women.
 
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