Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How do you deal with a hot & cold woman? It gets beyond frustrating..

This girl messages randomly...makes spare convo and then vanishes...I don't hit her up but I wanna smash.. My problem with this girl is that I told her I was interested in her...

Here's a convo I had yesterday.
her: bs bs bs
Me: you like hookah (tried to set up something)
Her: no but I wanna try...you have a hookah at home so I can try.
Me: no but I know good places
Her: oh is it xxx place
Me: there is that one but few others I can take you.
Her: I wanna go
Me: hit me up when you're free and I'll take you.
Her: when
Me: this Saturday
Her: cant this week
Me: aight

:beli:

Just grade a bullshyt.. There's a reason why the first time I said when you're free.. Cause I knew she would have rejected my advances regardless.

I don't hit her up...don't have long convos with her...I think she's messed up in the head or just plays the bullshyt game with me..

By the way this isn't the first time. That's why I've basically given up on her. And whenever she messages me keep the convos small and light..

You don't deal with hot/cold women, bushes.
 

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Why stress over them no reward.

You'll sit and listen to a sob story of how horrible their ex was, find out they dated for like a year.

Then a month in with you they vanish.




Fam, I'll text a bytch, talk to her, send lil faces and pictures, fukk her, etc etc.

But I never stress over them, anymore. I am very glad I learned that through this thread before age 30 and before making $50,000+; which hoes see as balling in New Orleans.
 

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Why stress over them no reward.

You'll sit and listen to a sob story of how horrible their ex was, find out they dated for like a year.

Then a month in with you they vanish.

I had to learn it. Took some hard lessons. At the end of the day: No STDs, no kids, no lost money.....you have SO MUCH more money when you not fukking with these hoes and buying em shyt.
 

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fellas educate yourself on how birth control works, my homeboy is freaking out right now

so he was with this chick late last year, she was on birth control, no issues they break up, so 6 months later they reconnect. She had since gotten off birth control. They start sleeping together again, she gets back on birth control before they start having sex so after she had been back on the pill for only like a week he starts hitting it raw again. Well they stopped talking to each other a month ago and they both stopped all communication. He is freaking out because he just found out that when a chick gets back on BC it take a couple of months for it to take effect. I told him not to worry because they split up back in september before she was to have her period, and she should be having her next period sometimes this month. He is freaking out dreading that phone call telling him she is pregnant

please fellas educate yourself on how BC works
 

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fellas educate yourself on how birth control works....
He is freaking out because he just found out that when a chick gets back on BC it take a couple of months for it to take effect.

please fellas educate yourself on how BC works
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Where did he get the idea it takes several months for the pill to take effect? First, let's start with the fact the pill is usually effective immediately if she starts w/in 5 days of the start of her period. Otherwise 7 days for it to be effective. Just google, FFS. :stopitslime:
 

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Where did he get the idea it takes several months for the pill to take effect? First, let's start with the fact the pill is usually effective immediately if she starts w/in 5 days of the start of her period. Otherwise 7 days for it to be effective. Just google, FFS. :stopitslime:
AND if a chick weigh 175 or more ( i think 176 to be technical) then the pill DOES NOT WORK.
 

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No reason to spend money on girls.

Many guys get caught up if i don't spend someone else will, so let em

I had to learn it. Took some hard lessons. At the end of the day: No STDs, no kids, no lost money.....you have SO MUCH more money when you not fukking with these hoes and buying em shyt.
 

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Where did he get the idea it takes several months for the pill to take effect? First, let's start with the fact the pill is usually effective immediately if she starts w/in 5 days of the start of her period. Otherwise 7 days for it to be effective. Just google, FFS. :stopitslime:


a female cousin told him that, yeah I always thought once a female started talking the pill it became effectively immediately
 

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if that weight thing was true than I should have like 5 kids by now, majority of females in this country weigh more than that

I had to google that, b/c it's not on my radar of concerns. It is true of the Emergency Contraceptives (EC) like Plan B, apparently, but not THE PILL. Whether it is completely ineffective or at least loses its effectiveness. YMMV.
 
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This girl playing the fukk out of me but i find her so exquisite i don't care.

Once i fukk it will pass like it always does and im drop her.


It funny because i got other girls that blow my phone up but i can only keep thinking about her and im not even going to make her my main. The chick im make main is giving me good feedback we supposed to go out Tuesday.

Also fukk blowing money on these hoes not worth it.

stopg iving leeway :ufdup:
 

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This girl playing the fukk out of me but i find her so exquisite i don't care.

Once i fukk it will pass like it always does and im drop her.


It funny because i got other girls that blow my phone up but i can only keep thinking about her and im not even going to make her my main. The chick im make main is giving me good feedback we supposed to go out Tuesday.

Also fukk blowing money on these hoes not worth it.
:what:

Breh this ain't going to end well. You think you gonna fukk her?? Okay let's say that you do... You think you really gonna drop her that easily?? You already calling her exquisite. She's going to have you running circles like a lap dog when you actually fukk.
 
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