Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I shouldve listened to yall...

This girl is up n down like crazy when it comes to how she is with me...

Last weekend she was cuddled up with me on Fri & Sat.. Then throughout the week she was texting "I wanna Cuddle", stuff like that..

Then we made plans for Wed night----> she canceled them... It was whatever, shyt comes up n shes been cool for the most part..

SHE re schedules for Friday night... Well when I saw her at work I just said "Ill hit you up tonight" She said "I think Im free"

So an hour after work she text me "Ill chill with you some other time"



So I str8 up ask her what the deal is n she says she wont cancel plans anymore n she's been in a shytty mood..



She's suppose to kick it with me 2maro night... If not I think I might have to CUT her off...:mjcry:




**Its just blows me how one week shes on this soft sentimental gf type shyt with me.. Then the next week she's canceling plans with me n acting like a bytch**

stop giving leeway
if your gonna cut CUT and dont look back
 

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I shouldve listened to yall...

This girl is up n down like crazy when it comes to how she is with me...

Last weekend she was cuddled up with me on Fri & Sat.. Then throughout the week she was texting "I wanna Cuddle", stuff like that..

Then we made plans for Wed night----> she canceled them... It was whatever, shyt comes up n shes been cool for the most part..

SHE re schedules for Friday night... Well when I saw her at work I just said "Ill hit you up tonight" She said "I think Im free"

So an hour after work she text me "Ill chill with you some other time"



So I str8 up ask her what the deal is n she says she wont cancel plans anymore n she's been in a shytty mood..



She's suppose to kick it with me 2maro night... If not I think I might have to CUT her off...:mjcry:




**Its just blows me how one week shes on this soft sentimental gf type shyt with me.. Then the next week she's canceling plans with me n acting like a bytch**

:heh:

nikka you don't even believe that shyt
 

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I shouldve listened to yall...

This girl is up n down like crazy when it comes to how she is with me...

Last weekend she was cuddled up with me on Fri & Sat.. Then throughout the week she was texting "I wanna Cuddle", stuff like that..

Then we made plans for Wed night----> she canceled them... It was whatever, shyt comes up n shes been cool for the most part..

SHE re schedules for Friday night... Well when I saw her at work I just said "Ill hit you up tonight" She said "I think Im free"

So an hour after work she text me "Ill chill with you some other time"



So I str8 up ask her what the deal is n she says she wont cancel plans anymore n she's been in a shytty mood..



She's suppose to kick it with me 2maro night... If not I think I might have to CUT her off...:mjcry:




**Its just blows me how one week shes on this soft sentimental gf type shyt with me.. Then the next week she's canceling plans with me n acting like a bytch**

She cancelled on you because she was laid up with the next nikka. :youngsabo:
 

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I shouldve listened to yall...

This girl is up n down like crazy when it comes to how she is with me...

Last weekend she was cuddled up with me on Fri & Sat.. Then throughout the week she was texting "I wanna Cuddle", stuff like that..

Then we made plans for Wed night----> she canceled them... It was whatever, shyt comes up n shes been cool for the most part..

SHE re schedules for Friday night... Well when I saw her at work I just said "Ill hit you up tonight" She said "I think Im free"

So an hour after work she text me "Ill chill with you some other time"



So I str8 up ask her what the deal is n she says she wont cancel plans anymore n she's been in a shytty mood..



She's suppose to kick it with me 2maro night... If not I think I might have to CUT her off...:mjcry:




**Its just blows me how one week shes on this soft sentimental gf type shyt with me.. Then the next week she's canceling plans with me n acting like a bytch**

Have you fukked her yet?

Breh, judging by what you wrote...

She letting some other dude get allllll in them guts, but from the sounds of it he aint cuddling with her after... hence her shytty mood cuz she cant seem to lock him down. If shes flaked twice she:

1. has no respect for u
2. she aint feelin you like that and/or the dude laying that pipe called her and made plans.

Dont invest in that bytch, fukk her if u can but curve that bird
 

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low key this may sound like a angry ramble or whatever But the dating system in this generation SUCKS.

As a man who doesn't cheat, a man who doesn't care to talk to 5 or 6 different women at the same time, a man who just wants loyalty and fidelity and a non attention whore without kids its :snoop:

I hate this ish. I hate even the thought running through hoops fighting off 100 other nikkaz just for the chance of coughing up money for a date, or being elevated to a "boyfriend".

yeah theres a bunch of beautiful women but they got 3 suitcases of emotional baggage, or a past slut life carrying hpv.

Its sad because if all i cared about was sex I'd honestly just go through backpage.

Screw my morals and my stupid heart for actually wanting something of substance that seems so unattainable.
This shyt right here.....THIS shyt RIGHT HERE...THIS shyt RIGHT HERE.

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This is exactly why I have almost little to NO morale for pursuing females. It ain't worth it...Even though everyday I see plenty that could get it, the shyt you mentioned kind of subconsciously "talks me out of it". If I had the funds, I'd seriously consider doing some backpage shyt. I really just can't be bothered with this bullshyt dating game out here. The only thing remotely keeping me in it is my natural libido.....
 
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stop giving leeway
if your gonna cut CUT and dont look back
I feel you a 100%..

But look like I said up until probably weds she was 100% cooperative..

Just now she got flakey..
Have you fukked her yet?

Breh, judging by what you wrote...

She letting some other dude get allllll in them guts, but from the sounds of it he aint cuddling with her after... hence her shytty mood cuz she cant seem to lock him down. If shes flaked twice she:

1. has no respect for u
2. she aint feelin you like that and/or the dude laying that pipe called her and made plans.

Dont invest in that bytch, fukk her if u can but curve that bird
yeah we've been fukkin..
 

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Fellas in the know, whats the deal with POF?

I just got on and I saw pics where women were showin they had damn near 500 messages in queue :dahell:

Are most of these women catfishing or just want an ego boost?
 

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So I finished my last bit of business with my ex. I even did some simp shyt and sent a card for her bday. After that I blocked and deleted. She noticed and tried to email me saying thanks for the card. I didnt reply. Feels good to let that go.
 

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Fellas in the know, whats the deal with POF?

I just got on and I saw pics where women were showin they had damn near 500 messages in queue :dahell:

Are most of these women catfishing or just want an ego boost?

thats pof
like ten dudes for every girl, dudes send a draft mesae to every chick and hope they bite

many do just wan ta ego boost
 

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So I finished my last bit of business with my ex. I even did some simp shyt and sent a card for her bday. After that I blocked and deleted. She noticed and tried to email me saying thanks for the card. I didnt reply. Feels good to let that go.

eh you did what you did, sometimes a bday card aint a simp ish
now get on with your life, dont look back
 
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