Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Realist Perspective]

It is better to be a woman's problem, than her problem solver.

- KevM

(Just thought this should be restated)

 

[The Realist Perspective]

never tell your female all your problems. never tell her what's on your mind. never tell her pretty much anything that is going on with you mentally.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

for every 50 dimes, there is 1 man considered a dime in a female's eyes.

Take every advantage of that.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

I suggest every man date a female he is not attracted to, at least once in his life.

You will get to experience the mind of a female without attraction to cloud your judgment.

Remember the ways you treated that female, & apply it to every female you date from then on regardless of how gorgeous she is.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

[ I withhold this for later acknowledgements. ]

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Never give your female the safety of knowing you will never hit her. Always instill in her the fear that she can & will be hit if she gets too out of line.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

To build on my previous post, you can achieve this by never putting your hands on your female. Your female should not only respect you but also fear you. Never truly being able to predict your threshold & what boundaries not to step over. We must realize and remember that females are highly illogical and words will not always suffice. Striking is a last result but always effective.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

When dating black females there is a need to exhibit a higher display of masculinity.

 

[II Showtime II]

To build on my previous post, you can achieve this by never putting your hands on your female. Your female should not only respect you but also fear you. Never truly being able to predict your threshold & what boundaries not to step over. We must realize and remember that females are highly illogical and words will not always suffice. Striking is a last result but always effective.

How do yall feel about putting hands on a woman? Is there any situation in a relationship where it warrants this response?

Or is it best to be out by the time it comes to that? Thats kind of where i stand on it.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Never project a sense of superiority in your female in anything.

You must be better than her in every facet.

The day she bests you in something is the day you lose a bit, if not a lot or all, of your power.

 

[T-K-G]

To build on my previous post, you can achieve this by never putting your hands on your female. Your female should not only respect you but also fear you. Never truly being able to predict your threshold & what boundaries not to step over. We must realize and remember that females are highly illogical and words will not always suffice. Striking is a last result but always effective.

I make bytches swear a verbal contract

"If I, *insert first and last name* ever lay hands, or any kind of foreign object on T-K-G, I am willing to square up and shoot the fair one"

Keep the hands in a suitcase under my bed, the second she start poppin off, quietly go get the suitcase, put it on the table and open it up slowly while askin her "yea what was you sayin again baby I aint hear " .............bytches frame of mind change when they see the hands go up

no love

 

[kevm3]

How do yall feel about putting hands on a woman? Is there any situation in a relationship where it warrants this response?

Or is it best to be out by the time it comes to that? Thats kind of where i stand on it.

Only time you put your hands on her is if you absolutely need to, as in she is attacking you and has some kind of weapon and you need to disarm her to keep your safety. Sit back and think about it deeply... do you really need a woman in your life that you need to hit to keep around? Some women DO respond to getting their butt whipped, but that's not the kind of woman you want in your life. For one, she can flip the tables on you in an instant and have you going to jail. Two, you do not want to have a woman around you who constantly brings drama in your life, especially to the point where you feel need to sock her. If a woman you are dealing with is engaging in all sorts of crazy behavior, kick her to the curb, bottom line. Using your words and how you use your attention are more than enough to deal with a woman. NEVER have a woman just to have her. If the net of what she is bringing isn't additional joy to your life, you don't need to have her in your life.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Mostly gems in this thread.

 

[MikelArteta]

I know many won't agree, but let me just say when you buy a used car
You won't find out the previous owner for e most part meet him face to face but you will read that car fax report it may not be all true, You may read that and only find out some truth. You will test drive that use car and inspect it before committing to it.

The same with a chick, I have no problems at first to hear about her past owners or renters even though it's all sob stories and Ducktales like a used car salesman.

I know some dudes are jealous and can't handle it just my input

 

[Nintendough]

Some of the realest stories on dealing with women are in the Bible. Samson got a little too laid back and started telling Delilah his secrets because he was entranced by her seduction. Guess what happened? She snitched his weakness out and got him killed. Guess what happens if you, as a man, start laying back and telling your woman your secrets and weaknesses? That's right, sooner or later she's going to slam that right in your face.

Adam and Eve's story is twofold. Firstly, women like the forbidden fruit. And secondly, it shows what happens when you go following up behind women. If Adam would have stood his ground as a man and said, "Look, I'm not going to do that. God told us to leave that alone and there will be repercussions behind not listening," we'd still be in paradise right now. You let a woman lead you and you're headed for self-destruction. You must be the leader as a man. In regards to the forbidden fruit point, it alludes to women wanting what they can't have. Why do you think when you get a woman, all of a sudden these other women start coming out of the woodworks wanting you? You're now that forbidden fruit that she shouldn't be able to have. Why do you think they keep gay guys buzzing around them and are in love with them? Because they can't have them. When it comes down to it, what really keeps a woman interested is not in HAVING what she says she wants, but rather the journey of her attempting to have something she is forbidden to have or can't have. This is why women say they want nice guys, but go for the so called 'bad-boys.' The bad boys don't allow themselves to be controlled or 'had'. THis is why when you first deal with a woman and you're cool and nonchalant, she is on her absolute best behavior with you, but once she 'has' you, whether it be in marriage or some serious commitment and starts getting comfortable, her whole personality can change for the worse. The key is to never be owned, had, controlled or led by women.

The word of God is true knowledge, people really need to read the scriptures more. A man should always be a confident leader because a society with weak men is a weak society in general. More of us need to stop trying to be "nice guys" and learn how to be good men.