Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Well since most men UPFRONT is everything charming, funny , hard worker respectful ...sex is good etc. Women get what they wont up front and in return sex happens because a man had to imply all his hard work and EXISTENCE to get you . Now that sex has happend ...Whats YOUR job ?? I have to go cultivated a personality to EVEN be LIKED. Without it i would be a lame.

See women believe that they stimulate a mans mind upon the first date or what not but how do you know hes not just listeing to your horseshyt to get some ass? I havent met a woman who stimulates my mind like i do hers because ive had to go out and create a personality . A lot of woman honestly dont wont to actually put in the work to BECOME trully intresting . I laught a t women who try to sell you implyed future p*ssy

something i said in another thread i just thought it fits here as well ...
 

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I'm a women's shoe salesman for a major department store (yeah, Al Bundy) and every time I chop it up with an attractive female , I suddenly get ridiculously busy. I don't know if it's just coincidence or these chicks just hate on the attention I'm giving someone else.

If I was younger and this job wasn't shyt, I wouldn't be posting this. Just feels like I've been put in the worst scenarios to make a move as of late.

Maybe I just need to make myself be seen more outside of work. :patrice:. They're out there.
 

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wtf you live in the same house as your ex gf?
Yeah breh my EX moved into my house a few months ago during the summer. I live in a three story house so her room is on the first floor whilst I have a floor to myself(the 3rd) so without me going downstairs often I don't really see her that much. We haven't gone out with each other in years but she was still cool with my fam, specifically my cousin since they were friends before me and her started dating.
 

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Medellin, more models come out of there than anywhere else in South America.

Bogota, Cali, Barranquilla and Santa Marta are heavy hitters as well, realistically though you should find super bad all over Colombia, they are generally called the most attractive females in South America. I posted these in the Travel thread -

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Colombianas on a dating site
God damn the 2nd chick got that nice cacao bean kiss complexion :noah:.
 

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Small problem: I seem to have a little trouble "opening". What I mean is, I can find myself around an attractive female(s) and want to speak to them, but I find myself thinking "shyt...I have NOTHING to say this chick." If I actually knew or met them before, it'd be a bit different. But, I can't hellp but get this awkward annoying feeling when I want to try and gain some rapport with ones I've taken a little interest in....
 

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Small problem: I seem to have a little trouble "opening". What I mean is, I can find myself around an attractive female(s) and want to speak to them, but I find myself thinking "shyt...I have NOTHING to say this chick." If I actually knew or met them before, it'd be a bit different. But, I can't hellp but get this awkward annoying feeling when I want to try and gain some rapport with ones I've taken a little interest in....

Honestly, don't force the issue. When you start trying to force conversation, that's when it becomes awkward. Don't look for the perfect line or start thinking of how if you say this, she will say that, etc... most important thing is to be comfortable with yourself, and if your conversation is stilted, be more social and get out the house more. Just like anything else, the more you do it, the better you get at it. The main key though is to just talk to women WITHOUT trying to game them or procure them. The conversation flows 10 times more easily then.
 

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Half of al Americans make under 30k.

I still don't understand why any able bodied man whose in shape and educated with a job is going through hoops all for the chance of maybe renting a beautiful face and vagina.

Women need men more than men need women yst it doesn't seem that way.

Dudes have ruined the game totally.

Nowadays for many men its just a honor and a privilege to take a chick out, like she's queen Elizabeth.
 

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Over all I can't trust your average woman, heck I can't trust you above average woman.

It really takes something special for me to even deal with a female nowaday's. I might be single for the rest of my life at this rate. :sadcam:
 

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Can't trust these harlots, breh.
Samson, the strongest man who ever lived, was destroyed by a woman.

:sadbron:


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I'm just trolling though.

:manny:
 

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Seriously, are we (guys in this thread) being a bit too alarmist about women?

Granted; selfishness is a human trait. But, I cant' help but constantly read victim-hood from you guys.

What exactly are we offering women to improve their lives? What exactly are we seeking to get from them?

Ex. if you are just looking for sex or a warm body to have around, how exactly are you inspiring loyalty in women?

Before @Emperor_ReinScarf (who makes plenty of great points) makes me out to be "defending" women, I just asking a critical question to break up the string of "Man, these women..." posts that populate this thread.

A selfish, mischievous woman will always bring problems, but, what are we doin' to keep real good women?

Hey, they're few and far in between, but, let's be reality; every dude in this thread isn't a great catch (I'll be the first to admit I got baggage and shortcomings).
 

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Goatganda the pearl of Africa
:dahell:

Please enlighten on what is a good catch?

Since when does a man wanting loyalty and respect equivalent to any status he may yield? :dahell:


Victimhood? Its men who chase after women its men who fCw rejection and its men who are dumped in all forms of relationshio more than a woman..

And no duh a selfish manipulative woman will bring discord I've yet to see a post in her advocating anyone to mess with that type of woman


Seriously, are we (guys in this thread) being a bit too alarmist about women?

Granted; selfishness is a human trait. But, I cant' help but constantly read victim-hood from you guys.

What exactly are we offering women to improve their lives? What exactly are we seeking to get from them?

Ex. if you are just looking for sex or a warm body to have around, how exactly are you inspiring loyalty in women?

Before @Emperor_ReinScarf (who makes plenty of great points) makes me out to be "defending" women, I just asking a critical question to break up the string of "Man, these women..." posts that populate this thread.

A selfish, mischievous woman will always bring problems, but, what are we doin' to keep real good women?

Hey, they're few and far in between, but, let's be reality; every dude in this thread isn't a great catch (I'll be the first to admit I got baggage and shortcomings).
 
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